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30 San Jose, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 16
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For the sake of full disclosure, I'm a recent divorcee that's "back on the market". Our marriage was originally based on monogamy, but he became poly and that was a deal-breaker. We split amicably and continue to be friends with no romantic ties. Needless to say, I'm only looking for monogamous partners at this point in my life. Overall, I'm open to new experiences and believe that Life is too short to dwell on any one person. I'm grateful for my health, my friendships, and all that I've been blessed with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a group fitness instructor and love what I do.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Eating, reading, writing, fitness, cat-wrangling, deep conversations.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have eclectic taste so my preferences are wide-ranging and varied.
Books: I like to read and enjoy reading anything that piques my interest. Feel free to ask if you need specifics.
Movies: Action, historical dramas, comedy and rom-cons (I know, it's a weakness), sci-fi/fantasy, some independent and foreign films, paranormal horror flicks, some documentaries, superhero movies are usually a safe bet
Shows: Game of Thrones, Scandal, Modern Family, New Girl, Downton Abbey, and many others that I've put on hold and need to catch up on.
Music: Again, very eclectic taste. Usually top 40s, hip hop w/o disrespectful lyrics, pop, alternative, nostalgic tunes from the 80s and 90s, classics from the 50s to 70s, blues, some classical, some country, etc.
Food: I like good food and am drawn towards food with lots of flavor.
In general, I am an adventurous eater and try to eat from fresh, local, organic and/or sustainably sourced places. Fine dining and wine tasting are hobbies of mine. Except for the occasional In 'n Out or curly fries from Jack in the Box, I very rarely eat from fast food places. I can also cook and value that skill in others.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, wine, a warm & comfy bed, iPhone, Laptop, my car
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next meal and how awesome it's gonna be :)
Food, wine, craft cocktails (in general)
Politics and Public Policy <---my major in college
Civic engagement
Social/Environmental justice
Strategic Planning
Fitness (either group exercise instruction or training)
Traveling <--I'm well-traveled (just got back from an adventure in SE Asia) and would love to find someone equally passionate about exploring the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Teaching class then eating the calories back. It's a vicious cycle :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Deep inside, I'm an introvert. I value close and intimate relationships, but can also carry myself well and work a room like any social butterfly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a good heart, an open mind, ambitions, strength in character, and a great sense of humor. Also a plus if you are someone who enjoys or are interested in what I like to do (see above).

Honesty is my #1 Rule. It also helps if you like having a strong and secure woman in your life. Self-confidence, intelligence and humility are major turn-ons. So is a hot body, sexy eyes and cute smile :)

Disclaimer: I am currently monogamous and will not respond if you are looking for a third for your open or poly relationship. Also, if you're in an exclusive monogamous relationship and you're looking to find someone to see behind someone else's back then please don't consider me. I will not be that person for you.