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PJ-Paradox

32 / M / Straight / Single

Mercer Island, Washington

His Details

Last Online
Feb 13
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Student
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), Korean (Okay), Other (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I usually score INFP on personality tests but occasionally I turn up INFJ. I'm kind of a closet extrovert which makes my head a very interesting place.

After living in Seoul for a while, it's really strange to be back in the USA again. Even though I'm Caucasian, white people all kind of look the same to me now. While I was living in Korea I seriously had to watch all the way through the first half of Season 2 of True Blood before I could tell the difference between stoic bossy-pants Vampire guy, and scruffy animal changer dude. When I got off the plane I was like "OMG there are only 5 white people of each gender in the USA, and everyone else is a clone!" For this reason, non-Caucasians tend to catch my eye these days.

I'm currently working on my first novel, and trying to get the hang of writing teleplays (they are really different from fiction writing!).

I am passionate about language, learning, and imagination. I want to see the world and have a blast while learning about everything in it. I'm prone to daydreaming, but rather than losing touch with reality this little quirk inspires me to experience more of it.

I love 노래방 (private room karaoke), figure skating, and fiction writing.

figure skating, Creative writing, traveling, music, religion, movies, RPGs, walking, ferrets, paranormal, hypnosis. reading, WoW, not being attacked by humboldt squid science fiction, fantasy, skiing, learning. talking. cooking, folk lore, pagan, Buddhism, Graphic Design, thinking, laughing, blogging, day dreaming, lucid dreaming, romantic, romance, dream interpretation, poetry, fiction writing, ghosts, not being eaten by sharks redecorating, art, tacos, sex, cooking, English, Korean, t-ara, outsider, really big coffee mugs, not drinking coffee, wanting to be vegetarian, but thinking animals taste so good, working out, Haruki Murakami, Mercedes Lackey, sleeping, exercising, studying. nature, hiking, making things.
What I’m doing with my life
I love learning, writing and creating new things. Aside from school, I love Figure Skating, Foreign Language and competitive reality shows like Project Runway, Face Off and America's Next Top Model.

Last year I lived in Seoul, Korea and I hope go back before too long. While I was there I had the opportunity to meet and talk to quite a few Korean celebrities and I hope these opportunities continue to provide inspiration for fiction writing. I graduated from the University of Washington with honors (Cum Laude), and now I'm doing a low residency MFA Creative Writing and Writing for the Performing Arts program at the University of California.
I’m really good at
Multitasking. Teaching English as a second language, Leaning New Languages, Learning How to Skate (I'm not a a pro yet, but I learn super fast!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I get "Wow your eyes are really blue" a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too many of all of these to list here but I'll give it a shot.

Books (and Authors): Mercedes Lacky, Haruki Murakami, Robert Jordan (Wheel of Time), Jean Auel, Dean Koontz. JK Rowling (Harry Potter Series), Stephen King

I can enjoy any well written story, but I tend to prefer fantasy, modern fantasy, historical fiction, spooky horror, and any well written non-fiction title that will teach about ancient cultures. (Especially Greece).

Music: Way too much to list, I like music with a lot of energy like Dance, Rock or Techno, but I can find something in almost any genre that moves me.

TV: Glee, Lost, Project Runway, Grimm, Once Upon a Time, House, The Walking Dead, Dexter, My Girlfriend is a Nine-Tailed Fox, Invincible Youth, Dream High
The six things I could never do without
1 - Creativity
2 - Inspiration
3- Words
4 - Music
5 - Internet
6 - Oxygen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything... No seriously... -everything-.

Do not ask if you do not want the answer.
On a typical Friday night I am
This question assumes that there's such a thing as a typical Friday night in my life. There's not. I could be sleeping, norae bang (aka karaoke), hanging out with friends, writing papers, working out, or ice skating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an honest person. I don't have many secrets. I usually censor myself more out of consideration of others than out of my own modesty.

Private? I have a rough scar on my penis.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–26
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You're fabulous.
You're creative.
You speak Korean.
You make people laugh.
You're a figure skater.
You have no addiction to sadness... or drugs.