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PJDave

37 / M / Straight / Single

Schenectady, New York

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:28am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm a hard working father to two awesome kids. I really enjoy my time with them.

I love the outdoors (hiking, camping, skiing) and traveling. I've been fortunate to live in a wide variety of places including other US states, Asia and Europe. Even with all that travel I still have a large number of places I've not been and want to go (Australia and NZ are on the list!).

I'm currently in the process of getting my black belt in Taekwondo (expected in Nov 2013). That experience has been very interesting and rewarding (I joined to do it with my son and turns out I love it).

I'm honest and trustworthy. I love to learn new things. I try to soak up as much I can from every individual and interaction.
What I’m doing with my life
Work hard, play harder.
I try to be the best father I can be. I consider that my most important job.
My schedule most days is made up of work, kids and/or Taekwondo.
I’m really good at
Thinking about and helping others. It makes me happy to make others happy.
Figuring things out (problem solver).
The first things people usually notice about me
Upbeat energetic attitude. I'm very outgoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: whatever book my daughter is on in her 'learning to read' series! I tend to lean toward non-fiction/biographies for myself.

Movies: big fan of Shawshank Redemption. Probably my favorite movie of all time is The Princess Bride.

Shows: Discovery or Science Channel. Don't do too much reality TV... Not a big Idol fan, but I do like "The Voice". Recently, I've tried to find other things to keep me busy other than the TV. It was a lot easier than I thought.

Music: A little of everything. DMB, Pearl Jam (actually my fav if I had to name just one), Avett Brothers, Ben Harper, Ray LaMontagne, The Civil Wars, James Taylor, Blues Traveler, Robert Cray... too many to mention (I have over 500 unique artists listed in my collection... I just looked because writing this made me curious!).

Food: Sushi is a favorite. I like Italian, Mexican, Indian and others too. I also enjoy a good old fashioned american cheeseburger once in a while! I like both beer and wine, though I don't drink often. Oh, and I make killer chocolate chip pancakes.
The six things I could never do without
Might be obvious but kids are #1.
coffee in the AM
music
sports/working out
friends
family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Providing a great life for my kids. How not to sound like a machine when filling out this profile. How to make sure I'm on the right side of the serious/fun line at the right time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Curled up on the couch with the kids watching a movie or at Taekwondo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like ice cream. There. I said it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You have questions, and want answers.
You aren't in a hurry. Only fools rush in and patience seems to be lacking around here.