Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Internet dating has fostered some bad behavior. In particular, I am
struggling with those who treat others as if they are disposable.
Specifically- Contacting someone, communicating and then
disappearing. From what I hear both men and women do it. Toying
with people's emotions is unkind. But now that we have Internet
dating we don't have to be courteous cause someone else will come
along. It's as if an unlimited supply of potential dates exists so
need to be sincere, genuine and kind.
So why be on a dating site if you don't want to meet someone?
Hook-up sites exists-use one of those if that's your intention. No
judgement from me.
I also sometimes feel like online dating attracts misfits. I have
met a lot of really damaged people; depressed, angry, suspicious,
commitment-phobic or those with unrealistic expectations.
Love this quote:
He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never
be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you
to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making
mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t
going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment,
but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break.
Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect for more than he
can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when
he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when
there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but
there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.” – Bob Marley
Please contact me if you are willing and able to get to know me
with the intent of being in a monogamous relationship. Please have
the time necessary to explore a relationship. I don't want texts or
phone calls in lieu of time spent
Can you feel my frustration? I have spent the last 4 years being
disappointed. During that time I have met three men I could really
see myself with and each one has broken my heart.
I want a confident, intelligent man with his act together who can
bring something to the table. Kindness, humor and integrity are
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going on a lot of dates but haven't met the one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using common sense. Cooking and entertaining. Being a homemaker (I
know that's old fashioned). I am also very organized and clean.
Listening and pampering those I love. But my real talent is
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Curvy figure, hazel eyes or great conversational skills. Or, the
way I smell-I always wear perfume and jewelry and get a pedicure
once a month.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot...my taste is all over the place. Historical fiction
is a favorite as well as a good mystery.
Yes, I like girly movies-it is the hopeless romantic in me. I also
like comedy, mystery, sci-fy, action, animated kids flicks, art
films at the Bijou
Music is big for me and I enjoy listening and attending live
performances. Don't like music that is angry and profane. Most
recent concerts Lady A and Darius Rucker at the 2013 Rodeo. Keb Mo
at the Aztec theater this summer was great. I enjoy jazz, blues,
classic rock, Popular Standards like Frank Sinatra, music of 50's
through today. Guys who play guitar or piano are a weakness of
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. The hope that love will come into my life and stay
2. A happy home filled with laughter
4. A creative outlet
5. Good food and wine (including chocolate)
6. Friendship and passion with one man
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I have an entrepenurial spirit and often think about investment and
opportunity. I also think about when I will meet the love of my
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my 12- year-old son or out on a date. Sometimes I am at home
relaxing or entertaining.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have met many nice men dating. However, I have yet to meet one
man with whom I have a strong chemistry and friendship along with
common insterests and sensabilities. I am trying very hard to stay
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are sensual, kind, romantic, patient, loving, healthy, have a
passion for living and really want a relationship.
Please be a non-smoker without a cat (so sorry-I am allergic to
both). I AM NOT INTERESTED IN BEING A COUGAR! Please do not contact
me if you are young enough to be my son.
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