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27 Bradenton, FL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of two-year college
More than $1,000,000
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Regarding hair - I wear it both down and in spikes. If we date or become cuddle buddies I can do whichever you like when we meet up ^_^ More women seem to like it down so that's how I've been wearing it lately. Having a girlfriend or at least a cuddle buddy (or more than one in the case of cuddle buddies - depending on availability) is my top priority in life so I will change myself to an extent if I like a girl enough <3

I have two arm tattoos that do not appear in the body photos (just got 'em). They're in separate pictures ^_^

Cuddle buddy? You mean friend with benefits? No. Keep reading if you don't know what a cuddle buddy is ^_^

Personality type ESFJ if you believe that sort of thing. I think the description they gave was about 80% accurate.

*shy girls - I think shyness is adorable (and adorable is entirely good!) Look at my 'I'm really good at' section for useful info*

-Beware of Friendlyness-
I tend to message people about random shit I read on their pages. Just chatting lol I'm not trying to get anything from you. No offense taken if you don't reply, I know a lot of people don't care for pointless conversation but hey I live a pretty pointless life, and time is the only thing I have a lot of ^_^

LOOKING FOR CUDDLE BUDDIES! Explanation is a few paragraphs down - the one that starts with 'I love cuddling'. If I looked at your profile and didn't say anything it's probably not because I didn't like you, but because I was sure you wouldn't like ME. A relationship is more complicated but a cuddle buddy could be anyone. Well any female.

I'm not completely uninterested in dating, it just doesn't happen much. I don't really have a 'type'. I mean I'm more likely to approach women who have an eccentric appearance but that's not because I like them more, it's because I think they're more likely to understand and like me than the more vanilla ones would.

Please don't be turned off by the fact that I don't drink or do drugs. I can be with people while they're drinking, or smoking or rolling or whatever. I won't ruin the good time. In fact if you like to roll keep reading to find out how I'll actually make it a lot better (without giving you more drugs).

Know thyself! I know what I am and I know what I am not

I am very tough but not at all mean, and the line between the two is THICK. Not even close to the same thing.

I am a very deep thinker and a man of many many words. I will try my best to show your patience some mercy.

I am a raver (drug free for my own reasons but not preachy or judgmental about it in others) and embrace the principles of PLUR with all my soul.

I am very polite, trustworthy, honest, compassionate, loving, grateful, positive, respectful, loyal, intelligent, perceptive, creative, friendly, fair, understanding, sweet, philosophical, inquisitive, vigilant, humble, bubbly, and funny. The most important one out of all of those is probably compassionate. VERY compassionate.

The traits I value most in friends and partners are honesty, sweetness, compassion, humility, sense of humor, sincerity, open-mindedness, and strong morality. I also love people who make no attempt to hide the magnitude of their feelings and don't play any head games with the people they date.

I love cuddling. It doesn't have to be with anyone I'm in love with or even attracted to. I do the cuddle buddy thing and am looking for new ones. I have a few but they're not always available and they won't always be here. Cuddle buddies are lost when they find someone to date. Basically if you're between boyfriends and want closeness without a hand shoved down your pants that's what I do. I know it will end and probably soon. No attachment, just comfort =) Only sucky part is since it's not romantic or sexual or in any way leading toward the future I'm not willing to go far to get it. You couldn't be farther from Bradenton than Saint Petersburg. Anything closer than that is fine.

I love any kind of personal style that is out of the ordinary, particularly hair. Super long, super short, really curly, unnaturally colored, dreads, all awesome. This doesn't mean I'm physically attracted to all of them, just that I respect people who express themselves and I enjoy seeing physical manifestations of self expression.

My job is not going to impress your parents and my genes have serious flaws so you probably don't want my kids. If you've already got kids though, I might be into that for the right person (and the right kids). A few feeble words in my defense, I've got a few screws loose, it's not like I'm just lazy with my middle fingers to the sky lol I like the world very much. My intentions are as pure as can be but I am unstable and have always been a late bloomer in just about everything involved in growing up.

I LOVE raves and rave-type experiences like EDM events in Ybor (little section of Tampa - for those who haven't been) with electronic dance music, smoke, lights, gogo dancers, awesomeness.

I exercise and diet to an extent but it's not fun so I only do what I have to. Getting impressively built takes way too much work. As long as I can smile when I look at a mirror I'm doing enough.

I love cats and other fuzzy animals, also lizards, snakes, frogs, turtles. Pretty much all animals that can't kill me, and even some that can (like big dogs) because I assure you I will kill them first if they try (please take that the right way lol)

I shouldn't have to say this but apparently it's a popular thing for guys to lie about on dating profiles. My height isn't a lie. That's without the hair and without shoes.

I am ALWAYS able to explain my feelings and actions. There is a reason for every decision a person makes, even when it's not obvious.

I like video games. Some of my favorites are call of duty, super smash bros, S4 League, tekken, pokemon (showdown in particular), lots of the old games... I like some (not all) MMORPGs also.

I have sympathy(not to be confused with pity) and compassion for everyone regardless of what they've done (but that doesn't mean what they did was okay).

I can see things from any point of view without my own bias. It's an invaluable tool for understanding the world and the people in it.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the company of family and friends, but spending way too much time alone. Going to raves as often as possible (not often enough). Ravers are my people. They're so incredibly friendly and positive, to say the least. Honestly I'm not doing great mentally/emotionally, (clinical depression and anxiety) which is enough to stop a person from doing great at anything else. Working on it though.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being friendly. I'm serious, at first glance people don't expect me to be friendly but I'm extremely easy to get along with no matter how shy you are. If you're shy just send me a 'hi' message or something and I'll gladly initiate the actual conversation. I can't promise I'll be into you but I WILL talk to you.

My nickname is Fire. The explanation of that is complex but the short version of the positive half is that I provide two things for the people who are close enough - light and warmth. The light is knowledge, understanding, guidance, perspective, clarity, etc. I see, and I help others see. The warmth is care, companionship, comfort, kindness, etc. When the world around you is cold I will always be warm.

Fighting (physically). I've been in fights and other dangerous situations too many times so it's become well... I wouldn't say 'obsession' but it's up there. I just know a whole lot about how to hurt people but it's just about survival and protecting myself. I'm not one of those alpha male douches who try to dominate everyone, but I have no tolerance for those men and have prepared myself to be the one to make them regret their ways.

Gloving (if you know what that is you're awesome and we need to be friends now-ish) but if you don't, it's a dance in the dark where I wear gloves with multicolored light-up fingertips involving fast, intricate hand movements that cause the fingertips to leave trails of light in patterns that are pleasing to look at, especially if the person watching it is on this drug that's done at raves. I don't care to do any research on what's in it, but they call it 'Molly'.

I enjoy doing some artistic things using a program called GIMP and I have learned a lot but it was all trial and error, never went to school so I don't know how good I am compared with others.

As for skills that can be used in any way to advance myself in any aspect of life that mainstream society considers to be of any importance, nothing. In fewer words, nothing that can be used to generate significant amounts of money.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile - Just kidding! Red spiked hair. It's not always that way, but it is right now and I don't plan on changing it until it falls out. I also wear red contacts. People usually notice the hair first but the eyes get much more enthusiastic reactions. I've been told it would probably scare people but I don't really think so. I get a lot of compliments, and it makes me very approachable. If you see someone you wanna talk to there's always the "Well wtf am I gonna say?" but with me it's easy. They ask HOW I do my hair or WHY I do my hair, where I get my color, products, contact lenses... It might sound like something that would get annoying after awhile but it's been ten years and I'm still not tired of answering them. People ask to take pictures with me often, it feels awesome lol it's like being famous for no good reason. I wonder how many photos there are of me with random people floating around the interwebs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I mostly read reference stuff, anything that teaches me interesting things about the real world. The only fiction I've read and enjoyed is Harry Potter and shit about zombies.

Movies - mostly horror(especially zombies- I don't think there's many I haven't seen) , then some comedy. I also enjoy movies that have more seriousness to them and are more thought-provoking, like The Butterfly Effect (all time favorite except the shitty ending - one of the alternate ones is awesome though)

Shows - the walking dead, family guy, american dad, the cleveland show, the big bang theory, the simpsons. Law and order SVU is amazing. 'Cops' type stuff and Hardcore pawn can be pretty funny sometimes if I'm with someone else who has it on but you'll never find me watching anything like that on my own.

Music - anything with intensity or power. EDM (electronic dance music) = da bess. Also anything that's relaxing is good but only if I'm relaxing. All music has its place. For example a lot of people hate country and I did too but it was kinda force-fed to me for years so I like it now but it's not the kind of thing you'll hear when you're in the car with me.

Food - Chicken, burgers, pasta, rice, chicken noodle soup, pizza, apples, bananas etc. Meat and grains mostly. Vegetables suck except corn. Fruit's cool but a lot of it is either not flavorful enough to stand alone or kind of a bitch to eat because of seeds or skin or whatever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family/friends/love, respect, money, medicine, interwebs, transportation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think a lot about everything, and I worry a lot. Existential stuff, like if everything I've ever known is real at all, or matters at all, and if any second now it will all vanish, my memory will cease to exist and nothing ever actually happened anywhere. I wonder if the things I want are really good for me, and if they would actually make me happy if I got them or if I would just start wanting other stuff.

I also think a lot about how lucky I am to have all the things I have, and to be all that I am. I feel unworthy of a lot of the things I have but I guess that's just humility.

I wonder why people behave the way they do, and why some people are obsessed with things that aren't important to others at all. A lot of scientific stuff too, but I don't want to ramble. This whole profile is wordy enough already.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
When you work as seldom as I do, fridays aren't so different from the rest of the week but I think what they're getting at is where I'd be on a free night if I have my way.

I could be with a friend or cuddle buddy, at a rave, at a video game tournament, playing pool, bowling, at a high school sports event - I'm not really into sports, the only thing that makes them watchable is when I'm watching them with a group of people I love and someone I know is playing.

On a more boring night you'll find me hanging out with my two good friends, television and the interwebs ^_^
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
*Typical Okcupid smart-ass answer about the definition of the word 'private'*

But seriously, I guess a good thing for this category is that I'm kind of codependent. Generally unhappy when I'm alone and there's nobody to talk with online. Shouldn't really be a problem I mean all I need is to date another codependent person right? But the wisest people I've met generally stress how important it is for a person's happiness to come from within. I'm working on it, I'm in counseling but I haven't been at it for long.
You should message me if
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If you're not too far away and have any similar interests

If you want a cuddle buddy and you're half an hour away from Bradenton or closer. This is not a sexual relationship so it doesn't matter what you look like or how old you are. It's just movies/tv and cuddling together. Great for a source of comfort and closeness while you're looking for a relationship elsewhere. It's different from dating. Cuddle sessions have turned into dating in the past but I'm more picky about who I date.

For a girlfriend I value a big heart with compassion and sweetness very much. I want someone who will be very happy to read a text from me when I wake up each day. A text with a smile and a heart. Someone who will be grateful that I ask how she's feeling and how her day was on a regular basis. Someone who has time to dedicate to a meaningful relationship - not just barely talk and MAYBE get together once a week. That's enough for a cuddle buddy, not enough for a girlfriend.

Intellect is somewhat important too. I'm a deep thinker with complex ideas and a big vocabulary and a partner needs to be able to keep up, or at least not be shy about asking me questions about what I'm saying.