-Beware of Friendlyness-
I tend to message people about random shit I read on their pages. Just chatting lol I'm not trying to get anything from you. No offense taken if you don't reply, I know a lot of people don't care for pointless conversation but hey I live a pretty pointless life, and time is the only thing I have a lot of =)
Know thyself! I know what I am and I know what I am not
I am very tough but not at all mean, and the line between the two is THICK. Not even close to the same thing.
I am a very deep thinker and a man of many many words. I will try my best to show your patience some mercy.
I am a raver (drug free for my own reasons but not preachy or judgmental about it in others) and embrace the principles of PLUR with all my soul.
I am very polite, trustworthy, honest, compassionate, loving, grateful, positive, respectful, loyal, intelligent, perceptive, creative, friendly, fair, understanding, sweet, philosophical, inquisitive, vigilant, humble, bubbly, and funny.
I love cuddling. It doesn't have to be with anyone I'm in love with or even attracted to. I do the cuddle buddy thing and am looking for new ones since my current one won't need me much longer. Basically if you're between boyfriends and want closeness without a hand shoved down your pants that's what I do. I know it will end and probably soon. No attachment, just comfort =) Only sucky part is since it's not romantic or sexual or in any way leading toward the future I'm not willing to go far to get it. You'd have to be in Bradenton or Sarasota.
I love any kind of personal style that is out of the ordinary, particularly hair. Super long, super short, really curly, unnaturally colored, dreads, all awesome.
While I acknowledge and fully understand the importance of both, I am NOT a contributor to the economy or government. You could hit your browser's back button OR you could ask me why. I'm trying not to make this too wordy (lol) and explaining that would be pretty wordy. Remember that's me - many many words.
I'm also not the best example of what a functioning adult should be. My lifestyle is as hedonistic as one can be without being destructive to others. I have very little ambition and I know people do change but it's looking like I'm pretty much done with many aspects of personal growth that most women my age consider important such as occupational and financial. Now intellectual and spiritual are an entirely different story. Those are some roads I'm still traveling because I consider them more important.
My job is not going to impress your parents and my genes are pretty bad so you don't want my kids. If you've already got kids though, I might be into that for the right person. A few feeble words in my defense, I've got a few screws loose, it's not like I'm just lazy with my middle fingers to the sky lol I like the world very much. My intentions are as pure as can be but I am unstable and have always been a late bloomer in just about everything involved in growing up.
I LOVE raves and rave-type experiences like EDM events in Ybor (little section of Tampa - for those who haven't been) with electronic dance music, smoke, lights, gogo dancers, awesomeness.
I work out only enough to look decent. Working out is not fun for me. If my body composition starts creeping out of whack I work harder but right now it's fine. There's two ways for a man's body to look better. One is adding muscle and the other is losing fat. I'd love to be a lot more bulky but for an ectomorphic man such as myself, gaining muscle requires a lot more effort than removing fat. If you're willing to admit that you give a damn, I've got shirtless photos (and you will not be disappointed) but I took them off my main profile because I keep reading on womens' pages that those photos make guys look full of themselves and superficial. Personally I think that's a load of crap. Don't you want to see as much of a person as you can before you decide to talk to them? Last time I checked a guy's body was supposed to be V-shaped with muscle and very little fat, and I'm also pretty sure confidence is sexy, but whatever! You decide I guess.
I like the beach, even though shortage of in-town female friends means I don't get out there much. I'm only reasonably tan because I have a back yard and live in florida.
I love cats and other fuzzy animals, also lizards, snakes, frogs, turtles. Pretty much all animals that can't kill me, and even some that can (like big dogs) because I assure you I will kill them first if they try (please take that the right way lol)
I shouldn't have to say this but apparently it's a popular thing for guys to lie about on dating profiles. My height isn't a lie. That's without the hair and without shoes.
I am ALWAYS able to explain my feelings and actions. There is a reason for everything.
I like video games. Some of my favorites are call of duty, super smash bros, tekken, pokemon, lots of the old games, and while I'm kinda burned out on it right now and haven't played in awhile, world of warcraft is pretty sweet too.
I have sympathy(not to be confused with pity) and compassion for everyone regardless of what they've done (but that doesn't mean what they did was okay).
I can see things from any point of view without my own bias. It's an invaluable tool for understanding the world and the people in it. Say to me "Explain to me in what way *any concept or action* could be, in a certain light, described as *anything descriptive*." You will get a legitimate, for lack of a better word, 'argument' from my mind but entirely not my own. C'mon try it, it's fun!