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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:58pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Very outgoing, vivacious, and spirited woman that just wants to make sure she's having a positive mark on the world.

Have been told I'm intimidating. I hope that's not the case. (Good career, smart, outgoing, and all around kick ass isn't intimidating to me! That's what I want in a partner so am bringing the same.)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I always try to ensure im living life to the fullest. Living in NYC means seeing your friend's mom perform In Carmen at the Metropolitan Opera or getting a book signed by Economist Joseph Stiglitz at a fundraiser. I live for the concentration of talent, passion, and hard work in this town. Which brings me to...

My job(s): I work in local politics here in NYC. I also teach a basic economics course to construction worker aprentices at a labor school. I hold very Progressive values and am very passionate about making the world a better place. I tutor a lot now as well - but I used to sing in a choir, play ultimate frisbee and kickball, and now I knit, I sometimes watch a little too much tv, and I esp. enjoy meeting new people and connecting them with others.

I also really love spinning, yoga, and most importantly quality time with friends and family. Life is all about balance!

Finally - I strongly believe in kindness and helping others. What nice thing did you do for someone today?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making things happen.
Being passionate about public service and saving the world.
Singing, dancing (for a white girl), hosting a party, being interesting.
Conversing - but don't make me do all the work please! Ask questions in return :)
What can I say? People tell me I have that "something special" - whatever that means!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
My sense of humor.
My very outgoing personality.
I have a twin sister...sometimes a bit confusing for folks.
You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari - MUST READ Esp if online dating - fascinating!
Wheel of Time series by Robert Jordan/Brandon Sanderson
Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon
Shantarman by Gregory David Roberts
Harry Potter by pretty sure everyone knows who J.K. Rowling is
The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander
Give & Take - Adam Grant
The Signal & the Noise - Nate Silver

My goodreads account stays busy and I am always looking for new recommendations! Also, I'm a huge nerd.

Star Wars - so excited for Force Awakens!!!! Ahhhh!!!!!
The Little Mermaid
The Departed
anything with Jay and Silent Bob
Indiana Jones
It's a Wonderful Life

New Girl
The Mindy Project
Law and Order SVU
The Newsroom
Downton Abbey
Modern Family
(I also am really enjoying Quantico..)

The Beatles
Jamie Lidell
Michael Franti and Spearhead
Mavin Gaye (or really any soul/motown)
John Legend
Classics like Led Zepplin, CCR, the Who, Doors, Stones, etc.
Anything with a great melody and awesome beats

Food: I like and am willing to try pretty much everything so I think it's easier to just explain that dry tasteless food is the bane of my existence.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A book to read or papers to grade while waiting...
Manicures and "corpse pose" in Yoga - two times that I feel really and truely relaxed.
My brain - I think when my mental capacity/faculties start to go then I'll be ready to move on!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Saving the world
Politics and social issues
What I'm having for lunch/dinner :)
How incredibly lucky I am...and how not to take that for granted!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with anywhere from 1 - 4 of my awesome roommates, playing ultimate frisbee (warm weather specific) and enjoying my time whether it be at happy hour, a party, or staying in with a glass of wine and a movie.

I'll be honest, lately it's consisted of staying at work and then coming home to knit or go to bed. But I can be persuaded to come out for a good whiskey cocktail!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been arrested before. It was expunged, so "legally" I can say I've never been arrested. But I have. I'm a badass ;)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kind, intelligent, passionate, confident, and funny. You are looking for a true partner in life - someone that pushes and challenges you while bringing out your best. That's certainly what I'm looking for!

(Also you hate selfies. Please GOD NO BATHROOM MIRROR ABS SELFIE - I promise you it ruins everything.)