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44 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Gay men only
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Equally comfortable in a rowdy stadium, a four star restaurant, a pair of skis, a sling, or a roller coaster.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Semi-recent Seattle transplant. I came here to find the perfect marriage of my country-boy heart (grew up in WV) and my big-city gay (most of my adult life in Chicago or other midwestern cities). Former pro-dancer (the kind on a stage, not a pole) now physical therapist. (love parentheses)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing all sides of a situation and boiling it down to its base components, knowing what others need, planning a trip, sensory memory(color,pitch,smell,..), breaking the ice, observation without judgement, ordering wine, clever word play, making people laugh. Apparently I am good at my job; my patients seem to crave my hands and I'm told my touch is worth the trip.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I consistently have to convince people that I am actually 43. Most say mid thirties max. I'm told I don't take a great picture, most dates have reported pleasant surprisedness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I was a fanatical reader as a child, consistent as an adult, but since grad school, I find myself seldom seeking out a good read. Hmmm.

The most intense movie watching experience that I can recall was years ago on a trip home to WV. My hometown has a single screen theater where I sat, the only person in the space, watching Jodi Foster freaking out in the pitch black cellar of that home that could have belonged to anyone of my poor coal-miner relatives. I don't know that I have ever been so enveloped in a movie with absolutely no distractions to break the illusion. Awesome. (Silence of the Lambs, btw)

I hate reality TV with few exceptions. When scanning the cable guide I typically end up on some syndicated version of an animated comedy or a sporting event. My taste in movies, I've recently noticed, fluctuates with the stress level in my life. When my job was a bit more mindless and less critical, I sought out more intense programing. Taking on the responsibility of so many people's wellness leaves me more often seeking quality distraction.

My current summer playlist includes a fair amount of country, dance, classical, and classic rock.

My favorite favorite for last... The following sound yummy right now: a piece of french toast with a trip to the toppings bar at Portage Bay, the mussels at my favorite trattoria in Chicago with bread for sopping up all of the broth, a perfectly poached egg dripping over a California benedict that includes a side of bacon, tater tots, my mom's fried chicken, strawberries picked warm and eaten immediately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Some things that make me a happier person: 1) regular get-a-ways 2) dancing 3) touching skin 4) my new marc jacobs pants 5) open minded, open hearted people 6) a Buckeye win
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the big picture
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
apparently i'll be filling out this profile for at least the next 3 fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd be more interested in the stuff people weren't willing to admit.
You should message me if
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...,after the requisite chatter, your eventual goal is to actually meet people you find person

...the notion of meeting a stranger for a bite or a drink that may not turn out to be your dream guy doesn't sound like an hour wasted.