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35 Fishkill, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:11pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Well lets face it, I am an geek. I enjoy RPGs, Board Games, Science Fiction, Fantasy and all that stuff. I also rather enjoy cooking and baking.

My wife and I are poly, and so are looking to meet people for many levels of relationships. So I am looking for women to have serious or more casual relations with. We can see what works for us if we meet. I am open to casual or serious relationships as long as you follow the cardinal rule of being an awesome person.

My wife is on here now as lulu_sweetie.

We also recently bought our first house and are spending a lot of time getting that fixed up the way we want it. I am working on getting my work shop set up well for woodworking.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am happily married, I work as a manufacturing engineer. For fun I play video games, table top RPGs, magic the gathering and so on.

We just bought a house and we am working on getting it into shape as the house of our dreams. This means lots of renovation and working around the house to get it set up and updated.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, or so everyone tells me. And I guess when your mother says you cook Thanksgiving better than she does it means something. Of course it could be just an excuse to get out of it...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Being a 6'5" stocky man with long red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books(ok authors)
David Weber, Jim Butcher, Kim Harrison, Ilona Andrews, and Tad Williams come to mind

TV Shows
Firefly, Buffy, Doctor Who, Game of Thrones, Scrubs, Futurama, Family Guy, South Park, Dexter, Mentalist, Psych and Monty Python

Lots, though we do watch more TV shows on netflix than movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A well appointed kitchen
Good friends
The internet
My wife
New experiances.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Building things, be they machines for work, multi purpose furniture I want to build when we get a house, or fun things to automate at home. I need to build more of them though.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well generally at home, though sometimes out gaming or at a nerdy burlesque show. My favorite is D20 burlesque.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think this is a good place to talk about how I view relationships and polyamory. I don't view things as a strict hierarchy, I tend to view things as balancing many commitments. So that as everyone has many commitments to things like their partners, family, job and friends these are not ordered in a strict hierarchy. Rather it is about the situation that each of these commitments has at a given time that says what is most important at this time.

So what being poly means to me in light of that view of relationships means that I am open to finding how my life fits best with other, be it in romantic, sexual friendships or platonic relationships with others.
You should message me if
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If they have room in their life for a large geeky man who can cook and will make them treats like salted caramel pudding from scratch or what ever.

Also if you know that the friend zone is total bull shit. Friends are wonderful, if they are platonic friends or non platonic friends doesn't matter. I am looking for non platonic friends and romantic partners here but cool people are cool people and you can never have too many cool people in your life.