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35 Chicago, IL Man


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  • Ages 22–34
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Native American, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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How many days before the man burns again? Can you tell me?Well I can tell you that I tell it like it is and I leave it like it was. I am direct straight forward and too the point. I do my best to be honest. I hate people that beat around the bush, just come out with what you want instead of making me have to pull it out of you like I am a pair of pliers and you are a tooth. I love drum and bass, dubstep, psychedelic rock n roll, jazz, funk, and other forms of great music. I am an artist of many talents... Whew, there is so much I am leaving out, ask me questions, I know you want to know more... You're only regrets with me would not be allowing me to make you breakfast in the morning... that and if you did not get a hold of me, it is truly your loss.(((side note: But seriously people, a lot of you say that you don't do drugs, but you say you drink... Alcohol is a fucking drug. Correct your profile because you are coming off as you should not. Ever take an aspirin? Drink a cup of coffee? A soda? Cough syrup? Birth control pills? Antibiotics? Allergy medication? Guess what; you have done drugs, so get off your high horses.)))

I am very, fucking, and intense
BUT I'm a lot of fun...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing my best to not go out of my ever loving mother fucking mind... I do art/design/music/vocals
or I had a radio show at WNUR 89.3fm Sun. Mornings 3-6am!, so no more radio for a while... {:^[
... I drink occasionally, shoot pool, smoke like there is no tomorrow, dance, dance, dance, yeah, I used to be a hardcore raver... The true party kids never die watch movies, go to concerts and clubs, go for walks, chill on the beach, cuddling and kissing, lots and I do mean lots of foreplay, hours of mind blowing sex, what else do you want to know?
And I have been part of the burner community since 2006, know about it since 1996, and this year was my first burn.
Early entry, Brought out/Built the Hookahdome, Raged face, most fun in forever, Cleaned it all up/brought it back, Can't wait to do it again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, music, design, being there for my friends, laughs, philosophy, massage, foreplay, fucking,
The first things people usually notice about me
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How intense I am... That I just don't seem to stop dancing... That I am tall, dark, and handsome... That I have a charming wit with a boisterous laugh... That I am louder than a FUNKTION ONE sound system(fact)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots of books too many to list(yes I read a lot!), lots of movies primarily Kevin Smith, Stanley Kubrick, The Usual Suspects, Oliver Stone, Quentin Tarantino, the list goes one , lots of music... But I hate most of the pop shit now a days, country, polka, opera, bluegrass, shitty billboard hip hop, I listed what I like already. food is between my grandmother's fine authentic Italian cooking and breakfast food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, my bass guitar, any body part that allows me to make art/music, great music that I love, my friends, my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?"
— Hunter S. Thompson

Every person and experience has contributed to who you have become today. NOTHING was wasted. There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: not pursuing it. Acceptance is the road to all change. Even in its darkest passages, the heart is unconquerable. It is important that the body survives, but it is more meaningful that the human spirit prevails. You need to spend time crawling alone through shadows to truly appreciate what it is to stand in the sun. Live without restraint. Remember to be beautiful, to be LOVE, to be yourself, to accept your self. You don’t need to be accepted by others. Be free to find the beauty and value in all that you experience. Have courage to be the person who loves you most and judges you least! Be free on dependence from others who keep you at their whim. Love that is freely given and received without need, guilt or condition is real love. That is the essence of LOVE. That’s what real love is. It just IS. Making a dream into reality begins with what you have, not with what you are waiting on. Taking care of yourself isn’t about trying to become perfect. It’s about realizing and honoring, in every moment, that you already are. When you take time to replenish your spirit, it allows you to serve others from the overflow. You cannot serve from an empty vessel. Everybody has gone through something that changed them in a way that they can never go back to the person that they once were. No goal in life can bring us happiness, we can only bring happiness to our goals! Everything is either an obstacle to growth, or an obstacle to keep you from growing. The good thing is: you get to choose. In our imaginations we believe that love is apart from us. Actually there is nothing but love, once we are ready to accept it.When you truly find love, you find yourself. Live each day in the way you want to be remembered. Through love, all pain will turn to medicine. Life has three rules: Paradox, Humor, and Change. Paradox: Life is a mystery; don't waste your time trying to figure it out. Humor: Keep a sense of humor, especially about yourself. It is a strength beyond all measure. Change: Know that nothing ever stays the same. Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates. At the first gate, ask yourself, ‘Is it true?’At the second ask, ‘Is it necessary?’ At the third gate ask ‘Is it kind? We have flown the air like birds and swum the sea like fishes, but have yet to learn the simple act of walking the earth like brothers. Love is the most valuable gift we can give to another person. What we need to do is to open our heart and release our love to the world, to the people, to nature, to the animals, to the trees and to the sky and this love will be returned a thousand times to us. Trusting yourself means living out what you already know to be true. There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others. Happiness is the choice I make today. It does not rest on my circumstances, but on my frame of mind...In cultivating the habits of happiness, I attract the people and situations that match its frequency. I smile more often, give praise more often, give thanks more often, and am glad more often. For such is my choice today. Trust the still, small voice that says, “this might work and I’ll try it." There will come a time when you believe everything is finished. That will be the beginning. In stillness lives wisdom. In quiet you'll find peace. In solitude you'll remember yourself. It takes no effort to love. The state has its own innate joy. Questions answer themselves if you are aware enough. Life is safe; flowing with the current of being is the simplest way to live. Resistance never really succeeds.Controlling the flow of life is impossible. Anyone can be cool, but awesome takes practice. Think of what makes you smile, makes you happy... and do more of that shit. Believe in yourself and all that you are. Know that there is something inside you that is greater than any obstacle. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world. Do something today that your future self will thank you for. When I had nothing to lose, I had everything. When I stopped being who I am, I found myself. Be truthful, gentle and fearless. Sometimes the best journeys are those, that start when we do not plan, continue how we do not expect and are taking us places we do not know. Don’t criticize what you don’t understand, son. You never walked in that man’s shoes. We can make room for more experiences of radiance, peace, and beauty; and when we do, they arrive. When we make an intention to experience peace, when we value it enough to make room for it and invite it into our busy lives, it arrives bearing gifts. Happiness always looks small while you hold it in your hands, but let it go, and you learn at once how big and precious it is. There are always flowers for those who want to see them. To stay present in everyday life, it helps to be deeply rooted within yourself: otherwise the mind, which has incredible momentum, will drag you along like a wild river. We do learn something about ourselves when we are up against the wall, and we do most certainly come out stronger. My friends, love is better than anger. Hope is better than fear. Optimism is better than despair. So let us be loving, hopeful and optimistic. And we'll change the world. With life comes choices. The choices are yours and yours alone. Take pride in what you do and the choices you make. Look back at the past, only to realize where you have come from. Look forward to the future to know where you are going, and look down to make sure you don't trip and fall during your journey. We may not know how to forgive, and we may not want to forgive; but the very fact we say we are willing to forgive begins the healing practice. Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours. As the years pass, I am coming more and more to understand that it is the common, everyday blessings of our common everyday lives for which we should be particularly grateful. They are the things that fill our lives with comfort and our hearts with gladness; just the pure air to breathe and the strength to breath it; just warmth and shelter and home folks; just plain food that gives us strength; the bright sunshine on a cold day; and a cool breeze when the day is warm.

Let us see our life through the lens of our love, we will find that life is amazing and magical. Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come? You are the gift that only you would have to give. If you like to fill your life with joy just be loving, just be caring, and just be kind. Faith is not the belief that everything will be all right tomorrow, but the belief that I possess the strength to make everything all right today. There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be. Just one smile immensely increases the beauty of the universe. The turning point in the process of growing up is when you discover the core of strength within you that survives all hurt. What you need to accept is that there are only two days in the year that nothing can be done. One is yesterday and the other is tomorrow. So today, this moment, is the right time to love, to laugh, to work and to live boldly. Yes, this moment needs your undivided attention, for this is the only time and place you are truly alive. Happiness is the art of never holding in your mind the memory of any unpleasant thing that has passed. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful that it will be worth remembering. If you make the space in your heart big enough, you will not feel alone. Let the beauty of what you love be what you do. There are a thousand ways to kneel and kiss the ground, there are a thousand ways to go home again. You want to play Motzart? You better practice.You want to play human? You better practice. Suffering is our call to attention, our call to investigate the truth of our beliefs.The beauty of this day doesn't depend on its lasting forever. Life may not always be beautiful. Sometimes it hurts. But this one thing I can do. Always. I can always choose joy. The world around us will never be peaceful until we ourselves are at peace within. If we are fighting and angry on the inside we will never experience the opposite on the outside.

“There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be...”
~John Lennon
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing there was more dubstep in town to make my fridays more like thursdays. Thinking how I was getting my groove on with dubstep on thursday the night before! Generally, I would look for a party or just chill out... Recently it has been spent exploring the finer points of fucking one's brains out with my lovely lady. Or I sit back,chill with some smoke, tunes playing, thinking about how this world is going to shit, and what can I do to make this life more tolerable. So do your best to have a good time while you can, even George Bush Sr. has been quoted saying "THINK, it ain't illegal yet..." Meaning that fucker and fuckers like him want to make the act of thinking illegal... So I do my best to go out and have a good time before they declare that illegal as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had several threesomes,(two with two girls, one with a girl and a boy, one orgy, and it truly proved to me that if I wanted to play with a penis I have one of my own. I'm secure enough to admit that another guy looks good, but men do nothing for me, I have found in my adventures that I am not bi or gay, hate to disappoint you all, but that is the truth.
You should message me if
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If you actually had the brain capacity to read all that I have written. Intelligence is very sexy, it turns me on; but your body better be as beautiful as your brain. You know what is good for you and having the time of your life, my mantra is this since I was a kid... Life is too short to not have a good time, but it should not be at the expense of others... Today is a gift, that's why we call it the present. So let's make the most of it together. Message me if you would like to have a really interesting night out on the town with some awesome conversations and grooving to some dirty beats and grimy bass.