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35 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 26
Native American, White
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
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How many days before the man burns again? Can you tell me?Well I can tell you that I tell it like it is and I leave it like it was. I am direct straight forward and too the point. I do my best to be honest. I hate people that beat around the bush, just come out with what you want instead of making me have to pull it out of you like I am a pair of pliers and you are a tooth. I love drum and bass, dubstep, psychedelic rock n roll, jazz, funk, and other forms of great music. I am an artist of many talents... Whew, there is so much I am leaving out, ask me questions, I know you want to know more... You're only regrets with me would not be allowing me to make you breakfast in the morning... that and if you did not get a hold of me, it is truly your loss.(((side note: But seriously people, a lot of you say that you don't do drugs, but you say you drink... Alcohol is a fucking drug. Correct your profile because you are coming off as you should not. Ever take an aspirin? Drink a cup of coffee? A soda? Cough syrup? Birth control pills? Antibiotics? Allergy medication? Guess what; you have done drugs, so get off your high horses.)))

I am very, fucking, and intense
BUT I'm a lot of fun...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Doing my best to not go out of my ever loving mother fucking mind... I do art/design/music/vocals
or I had a radio show at WNUR 89.3fm Sun. Mornings 3-6am!, so no more radio for a while... {:^[
... I drink occasionally, shoot pool, smoke like there is no tomorrow, dance, dance, dance, yeah, I used to be a hardcore raver... The true party kids never die watch movies, go to concerts and clubs, go for walks, chill on the beach, cuddling and kissing, lots and I do mean lots of foreplay, hours of mind blowing sex, what else do you want to know?
And I have been part of the burner community since 2006, know about it since 1996, and this year was my first burn.
Early entry, Brought out/Built the Hookahdome, Raged face, most fun in forever, Cleaned it all up/brought it back, Can't wait to do it again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Art, music, design, being there for my friends, laughs, philosophy, massage, foreplay, fucking,
The first things people usually notice about me
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How intense I am... That I just don't seem to stop dancing... That I am tall, dark, and handsome... That I have a charming wit with a boisterous laugh... That I am louder than a FUNKTION ONE sound system(fact)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lots of books too many to list(yes I read a lot!), lots of movies primarily Kevin Smith, Stanley Kubrick, The Usual Suspects, Oliver Stone, Quentin Tarantino, the list goes one , lots of music... But I hate most of the pop shit now a days, country, polka, opera, bluegrass, shitty billboard hip hop, I listed what I like already. food is between my grandmother's fine authentic Italian cooking and breakfast food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, my bass guitar, any body part that allows me to make art/music, great music that I love, my friends, my family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"So we shall let the reader answer this question for himself: who is the happier man, he who has braved the storm of life and lived or he who has stayed securely on shore and merely existed?"
— Hunter S. Thompson

All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The beginning of wisdom is to call things by their proper name. Normal is not something to aspire to, it's something to get away from. Just one smile immensely increases the beauty of the universe. Believe with all your heart that you will do what you were made to do. How strange to think that great pain may be impermanent. Something in us all seems to want to carve it in granite, as if only this would do full honor to its terrible significance. But even pain is blessed with impermanence... As soon as healing takes place, go out and heal somebody else. Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. At various points in our lives, or on a quest, and for reasons that often remain obscure, we are driven to make decisions which prove with hindsight to be loaded with meaning. Our mission: Be so busy loving your life that you have no time for hate, regret or fear. Quiet the mind, and the soul will speak. So you don't have to do the long search, the frantic chase, the painful quest. You're already right where you need to be. Your best teacher is your last mistake. The end is not the reward; the path you take, the emotions that course through you as you grasp life - that is the reward.

At one point in your life you either have the thing you want or the reasons why you don’t. Maxim for life: You get treated in life the way you teach people to treat you. Be grateful to everyone is about making peace with the aspects of ourselves that we have rejected... If we were to make a list of people we don't like - people we find obnoxious, threatening, or worthy of contempt - we would discover much about those aspects of ourselves that we can't face... other people trigger the karma that we haven't worked out. Taking responsibility for your beliefs and judgments gives you the power to change them. Life is as easy or as hard as you think it is. The secret self knows the anguish of our attachments and assures us that letting go of what we think we must have to be happy is the same as letting go of our unhappiness. Don't wish...DO! Don't try...BE! Don't think...KNOW! And above all: Bless a stranger with a small, yet powerful, random act of kindness. You feel me? Being still does not mean don't move. It means move in peace. Sometimes you may feel like you are just about to realize your goal only to fall short. That is no reason to quit. Defeat happens only to those who refuse to try again. Do your thing and don't care if they like it. The only thing that stands between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it and the faith to believe it is possible. Falling down is a part of life, getting back up is living. If there's no light at the end of the tunnel, march on down there and turn it on yourself. Your light is seen, your heart is known, your soul is cherished by more people than you might imagine. If you knew how many others have been touched in wonderful ways by you, you would be astonished. If you knew how many people feel so much for you, you would be shocked. You are far more wonderful than you think you are. Rest with that. Rest easy with that. Breathe again. You are doing fine. More than fine. Better than fine. You’re doin’ great. So relax. And love yourself today. Why do you stay in prison when the door is so wide open? Because of all I may become I will close my eyes and leap. To become fully human means learning to turn my gratitude for being alive into some concrete common good. It means growing gentler toward human weakness. It means practicing forgiveness of my and everyone else's hourly failures to live up to divine standards. It means learning to forget myself on a regular basis in order to attend to the other selves in my vicinity. It means living so that "I'm only human" does not become an excuse for anything. It means receiving the human condition as blessing and not curse, in all its achingly frail and redemptive reality. People who love themselves, don’t hurt other people. People who love themselves have no reason to ever judge another person on looks. There is simply no need. People who love themselves no longer look at beauty on a sliding scale or as a competition. There is nobody more beautiful or less beautiful than anyone else, including themselves. People who love themselves no longer see fat or skinny, tall or short, fair or dark skin, gay or straight, strong or weak. They only see people. Beautiful, beautiful people. There's release in knowing the truth no matter how anguishing it is. You come finally to the irreducible thing, and there's nothing left to do but pick it up and hold it. Then, at last, you can enter the severe mercy of acceptance. Know that everything is in perfect order whether you understand it or not. If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other. Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. If you woke up this morning with more health than illness, you are more blessed than the million who won't survive the week. If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation, you are ahead of 20 million people around the world. If you attend a church meeting without fear of harassment, arrest, torture, or death, you are more blessed than almost three billion people in the world. If you have food in your refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof over your head and a place to sleep, you are richer than 75% of this world. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace, you are among the top 8% of the world's wealthy. If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful, you are blessed because the majority can, but most do not. If you can read this message, you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read anything at all. We are so blessed in ways we may never even know. Hey, it's all okay!!! To live is enough.

“There's nowhere you can be that isn't where you're meant to be...”
~John Lennon
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing there was more dubstep in town to make my fridays more like thursdays. Thinking how I was getting my groove on with dubstep on thursday the night before! Generally, I would look for a party or just chill out... Recently it has been spent exploring the finer points of fucking one's brains out with my lovely lady. Or I sit back,chill with some smoke, tunes playing, thinking about how this world is going to shit, and what can I do to make this life more tolerable. So do your best to have a good time while you can, even George Bush Sr. has been quoted saying "THINK, it ain't illegal yet..." Meaning that fucker and fuckers like him want to make the act of thinking illegal... So I do my best to go out and have a good time before they declare that illegal as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had several threesomes,(two with two girls, one with a girl and a boy, one orgy, and it truly proved to me that if I wanted to play with a penis I have one of my own. I'm secure enough to admit that another guy looks good, but men do nothing for me, I have found in my adventures that I am not bi or gay, hate to disappoint you all, but that is the truth.
You should message me if
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If you actually had the brain capacity to read all that I have written. Intelligence is very sexy, it turns me on; but your body better be as beautiful as your brain. You know what is good for you and having the time of your life, my mantra is this since I was a kid... Life is too short to not have a good time, but it should not be at the expense of others... Today is a gift, that's why we call it the present. So let's make the most of it together. Message me if you would like to have a really interesting night out on the town with some awesome conversations and grooving to some dirty beats and grimy bass.