I am atypical, brutally honest, and passionate.
My Self-Summary
Important note: I cannot meet new people at the moment. My schedule
doesn't really permit it. This being the case, I have thought to
delete my profile, but I know it will come in handy in the future.
However, right now writing to me probably won't lead
anywhere.
I came to Vancouver at the very end of August from Romania
(theoretically, my home-country). I'm not certain how long I'll be
here. I never am. I'm taking some courses at UBC, not part of any
program.
Recent history:
In the past ten years I've received a BA in photography (artistic);
I was married; I lived in Bucharest, Santiago, New York, and
Vancouver; I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder II; I got over it;
I worked in classical animation; I worked at the Architecture
University in Bucharest, teaching photography and assisting a bunch
of other stuff; I received a second BA in philosophy; had my first
philosophy lecture at an international conference;... the list is
likely to grow as I will remember more of the important things that
happened to me.
I've managed to turn out pretty level headed, very friendly,
talkative and quite happy. I'm not at all judgmental with people. I
do have my preferences of people I like to spend my time with and
how much of that time, but it doesn't mean I think badly of those
who get less of it.
There has always been a battle in me between an eagerness to
travel/adventure/experience and a desire to make something of
myself. The first has succeeded in taking me over untill recently.
Right now, making something of myself has definitely taken the
first place in my priorities. I hope it's not too late.
What I’m doing with my life
I really enjoy teaching. I'm currently trying to get the necessary
skills and degrees to teach in my favoured subjects, which are
aesthetics, art theory or photography theory. My goal (or dream) is
to become a University prof and write on the side, research and all
those senseless things philosophers do with themselves. I still
want to travel, but not as harshly as I have been in my past, but
rather while teaching... one term maybe spent in another country.
You know.
I’m really good at
Depends on my mood. Sometimes I think I'm really good at a great
many things, other times I feel like I can't do anything at all
properly. I'm the kind of person that needs reassurance and
feedback from my teachers, my students or other people's opinion
that I value. My confidence level does sway otherwise.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know whether there is something especially striking about
me. I've heard: hair, shoulders, longish figure, hands, smile,
gesture, eyes (I did some research to answer this question). Oh
yeah, and someone else answered that I remind them of their sister.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
books: I think the book I enjoyed most was Bertrand Russell's
"History of Western Philosophy", but I read it before I started my
studies. I should also mention "1984". And "Small Gods" by Terry
Pratchett.
music: classical mostly. I feel too strongly about most of the
classical music I listen to and I'd have guilt issues if I were to
pick any out as better. But I seldom listen to classical music on
my MP3 player. To pick some out from there: Louise Attaque, David
Bowie, Toy Dolls, Creedance CR, Violent Femmes, Pink Floyd, and a
bunch of movie soundtracks.
Movies:
Apocalypse Now (I only saw the
uncut version, but I think this is nr. 1 and the rest aren't in any
particular order), One Flew over the Cuckoo's Nest, Leon, Amadeus,
Once Upon a Time in America, Prizzi's Honor, Barfly, Wall-e, The
Last King of Scotland, 101 Dalmations, Escape from Sobibor, La Cage
aux Folles, Taxi Driver, The Big Lebowski, American History X, The
Usual Suspects, Snatch, Full Metal Jacket, Silence of the Lambs, In
the Name of the Father, The Inner Circle, The Wall....
Food: dunno. Most food.
The six things I could never do without
This is such a silly question. Why six? Seven is pretty number too.
So are five or ten or four. "Do without" where exactly?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Work. How to be a better teacher. Some philosophical thing or
other. Someone.
Btw, I think the question "What are you thinking about?" is very
intrusive. I don't necessarily dislike being asked that and I can't
say I don't ever ask it myself, but I think that it's more than OK
not to answer it. Thoughts are private and I like people who
respect my privacy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday is not more typical than any other day.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I never cheat on okcupid tests with google or wikipedia or anything
else, but I deleted some results I felt embarrassed with.
One other note about okcupid tests: The philosophy ones are crap.
If you're someone that wrote any tests regarding philosophical
orientations, then you should know you are narrow-minded and not
very knowledgeable in this subject.
You should message me if
Don't message me for sex. Don't message me if you would describe
yourself as "spiritual". Don't message me unless you can take "no"
or "I really don't have time right now" for an answer. Don't
message me if you only want to date.
DO message me if you're really brilliant in math or logic. DO
message me if you are very passionate about what you do. Do message
me if you can help me improve in the languages I speak but not
fluently (check the list). Do message me if you think you could
help me understand physics better (and I don't mean the basic
stuff).
Otherwise, feel free to contact me if you like. None of the do-s
are really necessary, just things I would be especially interested
in.
I'm a really busy person, but I'd welcome a friend anytime.