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54 Shelburne Falls, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:39pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
A little extra
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Happiness is not ready made. It comes from one's own actions.

I enjoy being outdoors and working on the land. I have spent many moments of my life wandering in the woods. Used to flatwater paddle alot. I know the Adirondacks better than the Green or White Mts.

I can be sarcastic. I enjoy a good play on words. The humor of MST3K is satisfying. Then there is Louis CK. He makes me laugh and feel uncomfortable at the same moment.

I use to go to many concerts. I tend to enjoy more intimate settings, now. Saw Tim O'Brien recently. His songs often reflect what's occuring in my life.

I enjoy fresh food, with layers of flavor. I have access to raw milk and cream. I make butter and ghee. Ghee is great to cook with. The other fats I use are olive oil and coconut oil. I use the no knead method for making bread and pizza dough. I am not a big seafood eater. I do enjoy Indian, Japanese, Chinese, Middle Eastern, BBQ, and Cajun food. And most else in between.

To say whom I'm looking for is not easy. I do know what it is. Yet, it is like trying to describe the flavor of chocolate to one who has never tasted it. I will admit I enjoying spending time with those who have a different view of life. One who can be silly and responsible. A kind woman who enjoys herself and is warm to those around her.
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying the change in seasons, practicing, and working on farm.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being present. (Well, not really. It is more of a delusion.)
Making bad puns.
Working with circumstances.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Relaxed presence.
Kind smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I enjoy silly films - Mst3k/rifftrax and satire. Life of Brian is one of my favorites. And Airplane - I can always rewatch that.
Red Sox.
Enjoy bluegrass, blues, and the like. Been listening to Tibetan folk music, recently.
The books I read tend to be more dharma oriented, like the Crystal and the way of Light, Myth of Freedom, Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, and Delog.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The sun
The moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
if a problem can be solved, why worry.
If a problem can't be solved, what's the point in worrying.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sharing meals with friends.
Laughing at silly movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a big mug of hot water with honey, first thing in the morning.
You should message me if
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any of the above strikes a chord.
and you would like to connect and share some experiences.

Thanks for taking the time to read this!