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49 Tucson, AZ Man


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  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:46pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a poet, teacher, healer, gardener and cook. I teach writing at the Tohono O'odham Community College, am director of The Drikung Dzogchen Center of Arizona, I do healing work with Vogel crystals, light and sound, in which I use a highly advanced, cutting edge technology from one of the great scientific minds of the last 50 years Marcel Vogel, I try to get myself to remote places of the Sonoran desert as often as possible, and I used to be a restaurateur/professional natural foods chef. A very busy, blessed life!
What I’m doing with my life
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Mainly, my focus is how I can be of service to others, diggin' whatever unfolds in this beautiful, magical, mystical life on planet Earth...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
poetry, cooking, healing arts.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would like to think that I evoke a kind and gentle presence when others first meet me. I could hardly speak for others, nor can I read minds.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Classic science fiction, poetry, dharma texts
Movies: "The Tree of Life," "Wings of Desire," "The Fountain," the recent Batman movies, "The Apartment" (Jack Lemmon, Shirley MacLaine), "La Estrada" (early Fellini), "Fanny Alexander" (very late Bergman), "Punch Drunk Love" (Adam Sandler in a good movie, hope for humanity after all!), "The Thin Red Line" (once again Terrence Malick, great filmmaking genius of our time), "Blade Runner," "Time of the Gypsies," "Dark City," "Minority Report," "Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie," "Citizen Kane," and many more...
Music: Classical, Jazz, Tango, Techno (really, most everything except for Country)
Food: Indian, Thai and a wide variety of other cuisines
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, water, love, poetry, the smiles of those beloved to me, camping in remote wilderness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
this poem, lately...

In the old days a poet once said
our nation is destroyed
yet the mountains and rivers survive

Today's poet says
the mountains and rivers are destroyed
yet our nation survives

Tomorrow's poet will say
the mountains and rivers are destroyed
our nation is destroyed and Alas!
you and I are completely destroyed

- Ko Un
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
taking in a movie, meditating, reading, or out dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is so private not even I know it, in which it can only be mutually discovered...
You should message me if
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the above inspires the slightest curl of the lips into a smile representing at least a modicum of bemusement, if not outright delight.