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Pagan12

62 M Sparta, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 50–68
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:23pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
University
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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On vacation in Portugal for now.................................. Years of personal and spiritual questing now finds me calling myself an agnostic that is still striving to understand "the mind of God" and how it integrate into most of our lives. When it comes to the ritual expression of my spiritually, I am more comfortable with pagan practices in general and particularly drawn to Celtic and Native American ways.
Politically, as many of us here, I lean liberal and still believe we can improve the world one vote at a time. Stewardship of the environment and tolerance for our diversities, both human and in all the other forms life takes, are passions of mine.
On the home front, I'm in the middle of modifying my home to living green and hope someday to share this space with friends. Would even be especially nice to create such a space together. Some of the plans envisions a meditation garden on the grounds. Also, a vegetable garden located on the roof in order to eat healthier while keeping it out of reach of the deer population and also better insulating the home. And of course creating comfortable areas in and out to share form time to time with close friends and family.
On the lighter side drawn to folk music, hot tubs and campfires and other places that spirit gathers. Enjoying time spent sailing, be it on a lake or ocean. Also very drawn to the country, having moved to NWNJ, were life comes at you a bit slower and nature seams a little closer. The days here might be enjoyed tending to a country garden or swimming in the local lake. Hiking or cycling to enjoy nature while trying to stay healthy. Riding a motorcycle or taking an old convertible for a spin down a county road. We might be going to find farm fresh produce or home made pies. It might be to spend time at a classic car show, a craft fair, a pagan picnic, a nudist camp or a weekend workshop or any gathering of good friends or family. Often sharing a glass of wine, good meal and great conversation. For now, these are some of the pieces of our life and what we hope to share.
What I’m doing with my life
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During the summer months, when weather and time permit, you can find me sailing on Long Island Sound and waters East. City Island is Dream Weaver's home port.. A wonderful place that feels more like a quaint village than the far end of New York City, which it is. Sometime in the season she may be moored in Vineyard Haven, a classic New England gem on Martha's Vineyard.

Also a fair amount of energy goes into improving this home as on going project. Doing much of the work myself is very rewarding and cost effective, making it all possible. It would be wonderful to find others passionate about living green and helping each other to create and share such a place.

If we don't reach for the brass ring in life, it will not likely come our way. For many of us that are familiar with the work of Joseph Campbell, one piece of important advice about living a successful life rings true. "Follow your bliss" and the rest will work itself out
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building things. For most of my life it was with tools and working with my hands. Now-a-days I lean more toward building community.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've hear it said - my voice and perhaps my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books that come to mind right away.

When I was young: "Animal Farm" and "The Agony and the Ecstasy".

Later on: "Illusions", "A Road Less Traveled" and "A Brief History of Time"

Recently: "My Life, Bill Clinton" and "An Assault on Reason".

And my favorite of all time: "Love is Letting Go of Fear'
A simple book with a major message for most of us.

Movies just to name a few:

It's a Wonderful Life, Casablanca, The African Queen,

The Razor's Edge (remake staring Bill Murray),

Phenomenon, Dune, Star Wars (Episode V),

Dances with Wolves, A Good Year and Gladiator

Songs I always enjoy:

Woodie Guthrie's "This Land is Your Land"

John Newton's "Amazing Grace"

Cathy Winter's "Heretic Heart"

John Lennon's "Imagine"

and especially......

Bette Midler's "The Rose"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First and foremost my sanity, though some might take me to be a bit eccentric. After that, no worries.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Polyamory, rather than another attempt at monogamy, and if it wouldn't be a better relationship path for myself and anyone I would hope to enter into a lifetime partnership with. Also recognizing, that in my past I have know the amazing amount of love that three can share in a [Polyfi Triad], and that you would be equally open to exploring that life path with me.

And for whatever reason, that I have been blessed with a few of my former loves are now some of my best friends. And even though these relationships are no longer of a physical nature, there is no doubt that we still share strong, loving friendships. Connections I am not will to end; nor would I ask another to do so in a similar situation.

And I do believe that best expressed in the words of Rumi ......

'Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes ... For those who have loved with heart and soul, there is no such thing as separation'.

So maybe this is a piece of what it means to be polyamorous.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Moving into retirement, Fridays do not feel the same as when I was working full time. Yet I might be out at a local gathering with other kindred spirits, sometimes a discussion group or lecture. Or out listening to music, often folk, bluegrass and jazz. And oldies from the sixties and seventies when I can find a place with others form that time in my life. Or home sharing this place I am still in the possess of creating for myself with my friends, be that for an evening, a weekend or a lifetime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Right or wrong, I dare to dream of what lies beyond the internal fears that set our limits in life. And have come to believe, it's not what we have tried and fail at that we might regret at the end of life, but what failed to try.
You should message me if
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If you have a Bohemian soul. You know deep within youself the importance of truly living an authentic life, right for you. And you're willing to venture down the road less traveled to do so.

You're open to or better yet, prefer polyamory in matters of love. Possibly in the form of closed triad and you're thinking long term.

And you've also wondered if three can be similar enough for the foundation of a great friendship and diverse enough to be interesting companions on life's journey.