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PaganRomance

39 / M / Straight / Single

San Francisco, California

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
i "grew up" in Southwestern Colorado, New Mexico, Oregon & Washington...
i miss hellaciously awesome Southwestern thunder & lightning storms...
i moved from Oly town WA to NYC shortly after the quarter century anniversary of my birth in Albuquerque...
i lived in Harlem for 5 years, at 120th & Frederick Douglass...
i miss the D train and everything about The City and all the excellent people i grew close to and lost track of since my last visit in 2003...
i lived in Seattle for a short time & hated it... i much prefer Oly... a dark angel broke the spell of my dutiful eldest brother mindset that kept me imprisoned in the Emerald city and swept me off to SF...
i have lived here now for 9 years with intermittent hiatus in the early part of last decade...
More about me in brief;
Bizarre sense of humor, a Romantic, Artistic, Musically creative, Poet, Academic, Edgy, darkly spiritual, love the dark and quiet, love ambience, love Nature And Cities, Often Reclusive, Film Geek, RPGeek, Voracious Musical Appetite, Very Sensual, High Libido, Love Eyes & Eye Contact, Just quit skating last year, Play Xbox, Francophile, Radical political views, idealistic but practical, ever evolving, open minded but often obstinate & then more gracious upon reflection, in Therapy and proud of it, an undaunted dreamer coming to terms with my realities, a dedicated, loving Father of an awe inspiring, beautiful, creative, spirited, precious 5 year old daughter... Cool with being alone but still thinking about true intimacy or at least a fun & natural chemical connection with mutual respect...
What I’m doing with my life
Just graduated a certificate program in the Mental Health field...
New career as a Peer Parent Advocate for a
Collaborative Court in family Law...
Being Daddy...
Weekly band practice...
Regular performances of my poetry and songs...
Being a supportive older brother and uncle...
Relaxing
Evolving
I’m really good at
Writing, Self reflection, Self expression, Empathy, Listening, Affection, Musical Creativity
The first things people usually notice about me
Dark eyes, Articulate, Intelligent, "Good Energy"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Alice Walker, Alexandre Dumas, Nova Express, The Wild Boys, Complete works of Edgar Allen Poe, Do Androids Dream of Electric Sheep, Lords of Chaos, The Passion by Janette Winterson, Bhagavad gita, Complete works of Lewis Carrol, Blood and Soap, Complete works of H.P. Lovecraft, The Book of Enoch, The Book of Revelations, Tolkien, D&D manuals, Comic Books...
I Heart Huckabees, Winter's Bone, Fingersmith, Tree of Life, Fight Club, French Films- particularly Jean Pierre Jeunet (Amalee etc.) & Jean Caucteu but many others, Watchmen, Der Todesking, Coen Brothers, Cronenberg, Dagon, Underworld series, ALL Christopher Nolan movies and most movies with Christian Bale, Arizona Dream, Tim Burton, Zombie Movies, Most movies with ScoJo - though not that crap with Matt Damon (i have to admit to liking Goodwill Hunting... and The Departed because he plays such a cock bastard) Walking Dead, Fringe, Adult Swim, Archer, Aeon Flux cartoons, NHL and even though i'm ashamed to admit it -NFL...
Urinetown, Les Mis, Phantom, Sweeney Todd, De La Guarda, Tennessee Williams... And i like too much food and Music to list, it would be even more exhausting than the cursory list of entertainment i've just spat out and surely even less complete... Suffice to say i like what i consider the best of everything... Consider it a topic for future conversation...
The six things I could never do without
The Ocean, Amplified Musical Instruments, Eye contact, Family, Romance, Salt... Wait... i guess the ocean covers salt... Tanginess... Pretty much in that order...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The experiences that have shaped me and the experiences i want to have...
On a typical Friday night I am
At home with my 5 year old daughter... Saturday nights a movie & or restaurant after band practice...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Would never be posted on the internet for total strangers...
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You love life, beauty, liberty, paradox, tragedy and Polytheism... and asymmetry... and/or degenerative penmanship... Or for the hell of it... You never know, it might just be extra awesome, no matter how diferent we are...