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46 Tacoma, WA Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Native American, White, Other
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Hello, My name is Pagan. I am happily married to grell74I believe life is what we make of it. Age is just a number, and a dozen other cliches that happen to be true.
I am here looking for someone new to get to know, If the chemistry presents itself for something more than friendship, Yay! But I have no expectations.
I am into board/card games, video games, movies, and long meandering conversations that don't seem to go anywhere but non-the-less feel as if you have gotten something when you are finished.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am working an amazing job, that I love. That allows me to help people, make them happy, feed my own spirit, and laugh, daily. Blessed Be.
At home I am hopefully doing a good job at raising two to the most interesting people I have ever met, loving their Dad, painting, writing, and creating new games.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Poetry, writing, telling jokes, artwork, sex, anything creative. Playing the guitar badly, carrying a tune without a bucket. Loving life, in all its forms, (Spiders are safe in my house, as long as they don't bite.) Meta meditation, sensual arts, and figuring out puzzles of all kinds.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My laugh, In fact people tell me it is infectious. naturally drawing them in. Or the curly hair, or being fat, and sexy, which can throw a lot of people off their game. You tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite books are The house of the falling leaves, World War Z, WarBots, the ethical slut, and The places that scare you by Pema Chodron. Though I read a lot, those are the ones that have stayed with me.
Movies are all over the place, syfy, horror, comedy, even a few documentaries, if the subject is interesting. Too many to name all, but a few are, Millennium Actress, Star Wars/Trek in all their incarnations, The Lake House, Pacific Rim, and The Mortal Instruments.
As for TV shows, I watch bones, CSI, Doctor Who, Lost girl, Being Human, and The Walking Dead. A few others from time to time.

Music? It is almost always playing at our house. Love it, every genre has its time and place. From top 40, to noise, punk,metal,country, classical, blues, soul and bebop. I love Jonathan Coulton, Merzbow,SJ Tucker, Johnny Cash, Hank Williams 111, and The troubadours of divine Bliss.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, time to create, passion, laughter, My Husband, and interesting people to talk to.

Some of these things overlap, but there you go.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to do next. Current paintings I am working on. Compassion for all beings. Opening my heart, seeing myself, and liking that person a little more every day. Living for today, because we are never promised more than that.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This could be a very wide range of things. I could be out on the town with grell74 Home playing games. Out with friends, or up to my elbows in a project. Friday is just another night. I try and make the most of them all.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a birth mark on my shoulder that looks like snoopy.
You should message me if
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If Non-monogamous relationships do not frighten you.

If you need an awesome new friend/lover/both/either

If you love board/card/video games.

If you are interested in knowing more about the awesome woman that wrote this.

If you have a desire for coffee & conversation.

You want to tell me a joke to hear me laugh.

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