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  • Ages 25-36
  • Near me
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Last online
Yesterday – 9:36pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English, Sign Language (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

The name of the author is the first to go
followed obediently by the title, the plot,
the heartbreaking conclusion, the entire novel
which suddenly becomes one you have never read,
never even heard of,

as if, one by one, the memories you used to harbor
decided to retire to the southern hemisphere of the brain,
to a little fishing village where there are no phones.

Long ago you kissed the names of the nine Muses goodbye
and watched the quadratic equation pack its bag,
and even now as you memorize the order of the planets,

something else is slipping away, a state flower perhaps,
the address of an uncle, the capital of Paraguay.

Whatever it is you are struggling to remember,
it is not poised on the tip of your tongue,
not even lurking in some obscure corner of your spleen.

It has floated away down a dark mythological river
whose name begins with an L as far as you can recall,
well on your own way to oblivion where you will join those
who have even forgotten how to swim and how to ride a bicycle.

No wonder you rise in the middle of the night
to look up the date of a famous battle in a book on war.
No wonder the moon in the window seems to have drifted
out of a love poem that you used to know by heart.

-Billy Collins
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Fighting the good fight.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Painting, running up stairs, whipping up a mean salad, teaching, volunteering, being there for you.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Snappy dresser. Nice Midwestern boy. Unsure about this one though...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Artists- Anselm Kiefer, Peter Doig, Edvard Munch, Andy Goldsworthy, Philip Guston, June Leaf, Ai WeiWei, Robert Arneson, William Kentridge, Kiki Smith, Louise Bourgeois, Allison Schulnik, Hernan Bas, Mama Anderson, Kara Walker, Vija Celmins, Josiah McElheny, Cornelia Parker, Käthe Kollwitz, Ed & Nancy Reddin Kienholz, John Baldessari, Paul McCarthy, Diane Arbus, Silke Otto-Knapp, Glenn Brown, Vincent van Gogh

Authors, Poets, Thinkers- Camus, Salinger, Calvino, Franzen, Hitchens, Dawkins, Chomsky, Eco, Dickinson, Eliot, Rushdie, Walker, Dickens, Blake, Thoreau, Twain, Witman, Poe, Darwin,, Orwell, Paine...
Currently reading 'An Object of Beauty' by Steve Martin

Movies- Lust for Life (1956. Kirk Douglas as Vincent van Gogh), Rear Window, A River Runs Through It, Coming To America, Evil Dead, Shaun of the Dead, The Big Lebowski, The Pianist, The Rape of Europa, Rivers & Tides, The Princess Bride, Pulp Fiction, Inglorious Bastards. True Grit.

TV- The Wire... best show ever made. Also, Breaking Bad, True Detective, Kathleen Turner in Californication, Treme, Generation Kill, How To Make It In America and Homeland.

Shows- um.. maybe Toots & the Maytals at the Fillmore 2009. That was a great show. Radiohead at the Greek. Stereolab in Prague. Fugazi in 96' for 5 bucks, Hardly Strictly. The first Outsidelands.

Albums- John Lee Hooker (Blues Kingpins), Cat Power (Moon Pix), Ella Fitzgerald (Blue Ella), Charlie Mingus (Tijuana Moods), The Unicorns (Who Will Cut Our Hair When We're Gone?), Mississippi Fred Mcdowell + Johnny Woods (Mama says I'm crazy), Champion Jack Dupree (Blues From The Gutter), Andrew Bird (Noble Beast, Weather Systems), Lou Reed (Transformer), Bon Iver (For Emma, Forever Ago), Jimi Hendrix (Band of Gypsys), Mose Allison (Creek Bank), Radiohead (In Rainbows- Disc 2), Tom Waits (Glitter and Doom Live), Yo La Tengo (I can hear the heart beating as one/ Genius + Love = Yo La Tengo), Sufjan Stevens (Seven Swans), Jim Guthrie (Takes Time), Daft Punk (Random Access Memories) ... too much to list!!

-Food! Yes please!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.




-Family & Friends of course
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-how I can keep evolving as an artist and person

-finding a great gal

-my family back home

-Nature, Art, Photography, Science, Consciousness, Memory, Oblivion, The Absurd, The mind-body problem, String Theory, The Higgs Boson, Infinity, The Multiverse, Dark Matter, Dark Energy, Darwin, Daniel Dennett, Hitchens, Jung, Chomsky, etc.

-Wabi-sabi, how real appreciation of beauty comes from the understanding and acceptance that nothing lasts, nothing is finished, and nothing is perfect.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
artmaking or out on the town!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think Terry Gross' snort when she laughs is kinda hot!
You should message me if
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If you know the name of the river mentioned in the poem above off of the top of your head I want to meet you!