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Paladin695

30 Waterbury, CT Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Overweight
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Education
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm currently living in southern CT, working full time as a school psychologist, playing games, exploring the area, doing all sorts of stuff I couldn't do when I was a slave to grad school.

I'm finishing a PhD, so I occasionally still do grad student things.

I'm looking for someone who has some life goals, but also knows how to kick back and carelessly enjoy life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Recently I just accepted a job offer as a School Psychologist in Northwestern CT.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, Scrabble, Photography, Trivia, thought experiments, other games, Psychology Shenanigans, etc.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like casual conversation and am very easy to meet and get to know.

Also full disclosure I've been told I have abnormally long eyelashes for a guy, and I honestly have no response to that other than... thanks?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Grad school has almost all but destroyed my reading for pleasure, but I'm in recovery with some Lord of the Rings re-reading. Its' like literary physical therapy.

I'll listen to just about anything, other than modern Country Music and bad rap/hiphop.

As far as food goes I love new things so I'll try anything...at least once. I experiment well, but can't promise it will grow on me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Barring the obvious such as food, air, and the internet...

Family
Laptop
iPhone
DSLR Camera
Board Games
Nerdy people with twisted senses of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How am going to further develop my career, since I just recently took my new job and can see a lot of options in the future.

What random hobby to try next.

Where I want to travel to next now that I finally have enough money to have a good time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for fun and new things to do, but I often times enjoy a relaxed evening at home.

In all honesty a movie night, video games with friends, laser tag, bowling, or just getting coffee and ice cream at the diner works for me most nights. Though I might be easily convinced to wander interesting cities or take a drive through the New England country side looking for oddities and weird things to experience.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd much rather discuss the random nonsense of my life in person. .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you feel you compelled to challenge the social convention of men making the first move...

or you simply find what I have said interesting and wish to pursue it further. I just thought I'd say something gender charged, you know because why not?