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29 Dunedin, New Zealand Woman


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  • Ages 18–90
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Last Online
Yesterday – 3:16pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Malay (Fluently), French (Poorly), Indonesian (Okay), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a girl with delusions of being a worldly gentleman though I tend to act more like a confused dick instead. Nevertheless, I do appreciate heavy conversations in smoky back rooms, fueled by fine, single malt whiskey.

Classic excitement-seeking, emotionally retarded ENTP. Also I'm an Individualist Anarchist and Atheist. And my alignment is Chaotic Neutral. KTHNX.
What I’m doing with my life
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Web development - mostly Drupal/PHP/JS.

I also do a bit of music journalism.
I’m really good at
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Procrastination and arguing violently about everything. I also enjoy photography and writing.

I make electronic music under the name Elegant Bachelor but whether I'm good at it or not is up for debate.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My features are hard to place since I'm one of those future people who are racial amalgams of different types of Asians. Specifically - Chinese, Indian & Javanese.

I'm usually also wearing an odd assortment of uniforms (wearing a Sacred Heart blazer, military hat and Taekwondo uniform right now), drinking something far too manly for my stature (right now, drinking Lagavulin neat) with a giant electronic cigarette in my hand (right now using a Reo Grand VV cartomizer system).

Also, most of the time, I am completely oblivious to the outside world.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot and have a penchant for the slightly archaic. I spent most of my youth going through most of the Penguin Classics. Favourite writers include Jean Genet, Yukio Mishima, Jorge Luis Borges, William Shakespeare, Jan Potocki. My obsessive love for Leo Tolstoy has elevated him to god-like status in my mind. I also enjoy pulpy horror and sci-fi.

I listen to everything. Which really means everything. From Gamelan to Modern Classical to Post-punk. And yes, this includes Rap and Country. I also listen to a lot of Pop to try to keep myself up to date though I tend to shy away from the 'cool' hipster bands. Favourite musicians include Keith Jarrett, Brian Wilson, Jacques Brel, Sonic Youth, Shugo Tokumaru, Kanye West. Also completely obsessed with AZN POP. Currently I'm desperately trying to form a Korean boyband ala Big Bang.

I actually really dislike watching movies in theatres. I prefer to do so at home. When I was younger, I devoured a lot of the Criterion Collection and was in love with Andrei Tarkovsky and Akira Kurosawa but as I got older and less patient, even though I could probably sit through the odd Ingmar Bergman or Hou Hsiou Hsien film, I found that I'd much rather watch Hard-boiled (John Woo) a billion million times instead. Or anything in Cantonese with lots of guns and shooting and Tony Leung.

With regards to Television, though, I tend towards science fiction. When I get depressed, I watch Star Trek: The Next Generation to cheer myself up. Sometimes this depression is brought about by watching Firefly and realizing no new episodes will ever be made. I also like British comedies like Black Books, Peep Show, The League of Gentlemen and Brass Eye. Neon Genesis Evangelion is my favourite anime ever though Yakitate! Japan and Cowboy Bebop come very close.

I don't eat very much but when I do, I prefer food that is neatly separated into different components so I can put it all together in my mouth. Like a Japanese Bento or Chicken Rice. But, what I most enjoy is a very rare steak, cut thick, dressed lightly with caramelized onions or peppercorn butter. Also beef carpaccio. And steak tartare. Raw and bloody beef.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The internet. Seriously, that's it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The mechanics of decision making and imperfect knowledge.

Also, programming with regards to literature.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to reach transcendence through sheer drunkenness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually a 40-year old neckbeard.

I've also got a shit hot desktop rig with 4 screens running 3 different OSes but that's hardly private.
You should message me if
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You have similar interests and want a buddy to share them with.

You can teach me something cool.

You vape.

If you're super hot, though, none of these rules apply, just message me. If you think you're super hot and I don't think you are, I will either ignore you or be a complete dick to you. Also don't message me if you have zero interests and are a boring cunt.

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