I have a great life already, but it would be amazing to find that one guy...the one who gets me and I get him. Wouldn't that be the best thing ever??! In the meantime, I am enjoying my life and the people I'm meeting :)

I'm happy, drama free, and very youthful ..in spirit and appearance. I definitely and deliberately look at the brighter side of life. I'm passionate about many things..music, the arts, food.... I love quiet moments, and I am comfortable in my skin..(which is Mexi/Irish/Scot/German/French)..., but I'm also very comfortable in all social environments.

Working to live (not the other way around) and enjoying the moments... I am embracing life and would like to find someone again special to share with.. widowed now 3+ years, it's time again...life if meant to be shared :)

Finding the fun and play in situations. When I talk with people, I really want to listen and consider what they say, and then reflect back... I like to find the humor in things, and the "up" side...I love all kinds of music, to dance and I'm very into health and
fitness :). And I'm a rabid Pittsburgh Steeler fan! :)

my smile, how I carry myself :D. And that I'm genuine... outside and inside.

Books- too many...reading Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love (about A Course in Miracles), Guy Finley: The Seeker, The Search, The Sacred, love Health and Wellness publications and books. The Art of Racing in the Rain..Movies- too many: Some favorites: Braveheart, Of Mice and Men, The Fighter, The Notebook, love comedy too.
Music: This is a category that I am both blessed and cursed. I appreciate any music done well (and my ear tells me when it isn't) I LOVE music to my soul when it's right... appreciating instrumentals and world music very much right now.. love Middle eastern beats...Classical Acoustic Guitar...modern RB/dance music
Sports: LOVE My Pittsburgh Steelers! Enjoy sports very much!
Food: All kinds, but health and portion conscious...I do enjoy beer (IPAs) and great white and red wines..and the occasional gin-Hendricks- martini, up, dirty, one olive... :)

my kids...all grown and married to amazing people! :)
my grandkids..even more amazing people..lol!
music
dancing
breathing (no.. really...deep breathing...)
and, of course, ..LOVE..:)

Staying Healthy and eating well- Yoga, Fitness Bellydancing, recreational dance, Urban Rebounding, walking/running, body boarding... all make me feel great!
Being and sharing in an amazing relationship with someone who is complementary to me and..
Mattering in the lives of people I care about

dining with friends, dancing, watching a movie, or at home listening to music...I light candles and set a mood even when I'm home alone... :)

That would depend on the situation...

You're kind, genuine, very attractive, take care of yourself, are very fit, young in spirit,have lots of energy, playful, but serious enough to be able to pursue a lasting relationship. ....PLEASE, state your real age....You must ASPIRE to all of the above to message me...I know and understand the dedication that it takes to be my best self, and I want the same in my partner.. I am EXTREMELY selective...and patient..If you feel we might be a match please say Hello.. and thank you for visiting my profile. And if you have kids, that's great...I love kids! All my pics within the past year..
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