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58 F Santa Maria, CA

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Last Online
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Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Hi! A little about me...I am an expressive communicator, with an engaging spirit, described as beautiful and jeans or high heels.. :))" Myers-Briggs "ENFP"

I am flattered...but a little confused why people ask how come I am on a dating site...??? Well I work, and can't hang out in the produce section of a market 24/7.. So in our times, this is the next best thing I guess. :)) or takes time and patience to meet compatible people.. MUST READ: Absolutely NO hook-ups or text relationships ok?? Intro here.. If we like each other let's get off line and talk..

Yes, I am really 58 . To all of you that feel the need to lie about your age please don't .. If you lie about that, what else are you going to lie about..hmm? Just own it.

Attractive, Youthful, Fit, ,Witty, Classy, Fun and down to earth woman. I highly value being: Genuine, Playful, Spirited, Optimistic, and being comfortable in my own skin.

All my children are grown, amazing people, and now it's just me again..well me and my Yorkie ;)...i am divorced and widowed.. 5 years ago..healed and ready to begin again.

I love music of most kinds...partial to classical acoustic guitar and progressive music. I carry an egg shaker in my car with percussion, love my Pandora stations, and even play guitar a little... I'm an American football...and hockey.. fan- a Pittsburgh Steelers and Penguins fan...If you're a Ravens or Patriots..or Red Wings fan...we may have for stopping by, and I appreciate you reading my profile.

Please be at least 38, fit, attractive, and active no matter what your age! This is not being arrogant...I require the same of myself!If you are a progressive, youthful, a bit more "metro", Renaissance, energetic, fun, attractive, stable, and emotionally mature man, let's talk :)

NOTE: ONLY PROFILES WITH PICS PLEASE...Please consider posting your photo. If you don't have Photos, please don't "Wink" or email me. I will not respond. Thank you. and PLEASE really BE the age that you are..again..just own it...thank you. :D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it...Having fun! Working to live (not the other way around) and enjoying the moments...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding the fun and play in situations. When I talk with people, I really want to listen and consider what they say, and then reflect back... I like to find the humor in things, and the "up" side...I love all kinds of music, love to dance , and I'm very into health, wellness and
fitness :).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile, how I carry myself :D. And that I'm genuine... outside and inside.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Blogs of all kinds...Books- too many...reading Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love (about A Course in Miracles), Guy Finley: The Seeker, The Search, The Sacred, love Health and Wellness publications and books. The Art of Racing in the Rain..Movies- too many: Some favorites: Braveheart, Of Mice and Men, The Fighter, The Notebook, love comedy too.
Music: This is a category that I am both blessed and cursed. I appreciate any music done well (and my ear tells me when it isn't) I LOVE music to my soul when it's right... appreciating instrumentals and world music : Bachata, Euro.Middle Eastern..think Balkan Beat Box, 311/Incubus, most.Classical Acoustic Guitar...modern RB/dance music
Sports: LOVE My Pittsburgh Steelers! Enjoy sports very much!
Food: All kinds, but health and portion conscious...I do enjoy beer (IPAs) and great white and red wines..and the occasional gin-Hendricks- martini, up, dirty, one olive... :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids...all grown and married to amazing people! Proud to be a part of their lives!
my grandkids..even more amazing!
breathing (no.. really...deep breathing...)
and, of course, ..LOVE..:)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying Healthy and eating well- Yoga, Fitness Bellydancing, recreational dance, Rebounding, walking, body boarding... all make me feel great!
Being and sharing in an amazing relationship with someone who is complementary to me and..
Mattering in the lives of people I care about
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dining with friends, dancing, watching a movie, or at home listening to music...I light candles and set a mood even when I'm home alone... :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That would depend on the situation... and would have to unfold organically.. ;)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're kind, genuine, very attractive, take care of yourself, are very fit, a bit indie, into more urban pursuits, young in spirit, have a boyish charm, have lots of energy, playful, but serious enough to be ready to pursue a lasting relationship in your life.

You must ASPIRE to all of the above to message me...I know and understand the dedication that it takes to be my best self, and I want the same in my partner. Also, please state your real age.


If you feel we might be a match please say Hello.. and thank you for visiting my profile. And if you have kids, that's great...I love kids!

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