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Papuli

32 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:14am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I work on the internet - I'm a food writer, but lately that's less restaurant coverage, more talking about farms and sustainability and food politics. I love my job. Creatively, at least.

I live in Silver Lake with my dog. I'm one of those overly concerned pet owners, but I make up for it by being charming in other ways. I like walking around the reservoir and eating in the San Gabriel Valley and tending to my container garden. And saying things like "tending to my container garden" while rolling my own eyes at what an asshole I am.

I love L.A. I think eventually I want a couple of books to my name and a big ol' house in Pasadena.

I think that when you first start dating someone, texting rather than calling is a little weak. Not a dealbreaker. Just something I've thought about.

I'm very thoughtful. But also sometimes condescending and impatient. I'm working on that so hard right now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing, writing, writing, editing other people's writing, producing videos, reading, hiking, drinking, trying not to be a know-it-all, going places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Useless trivia, analyzing TV, being judgmental but also empathetic, gardening. Oh, and making cookies.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, I think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
This is leaving out a lot, of course, but:

The Yiddish Policeman's Union, Kitchen Confidential, The French Connection.

Priscilla, Lives of Others, Much Ado About Nothing.

Breaking Bad, Friday Night Lights, Peep Show.

Prince, Sam Cooke, Loretta Lynn.

Vietnamese, Japanese, Italian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm tougher than that.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Food culture (it's my job and one of my main interests), how cute my dog is, where I want to go on vacation. (Currently, Sardinia.) Also I often ponder if I'd be happy living in a rural area.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly, sitting around completely exhausted. Thursday and Saturday nights are usually more interesting. But if I were in a relationship, I think an ideal Friday night would be:

Sex
Dinner
Movie
Sex
Sleep
TA-DAA!

And then for the rest of the weekend I want to hike some new trails and go out for dinner and go to a farmers' market and have people over for brunch and then watch my stories on Sunday night. Someday I'll be so baller that I'll just jet off to other cities every weekend. I'm gonna start with Nashville.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really only doing this because I hate changing light bulbs.

....I think I'm hilarious.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're funny and kind and ambitious.

Optional but encouraged:
You like going to restaurants.
You like hiking.
You'll go to Mongolia with me.