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28 Greensboro, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Today – 5:46pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm James.

I can go on at length about myself, which is probably what the website wants, but I worry telling too much in a profile makes actually talking or meeting a little awkward. What is there to talk about if we've already covered it all?

I am an introvert and perfectly fine with that. I'm also a pretty big nerd, and equally fine with that.

I'm a weird mix of very serious, and retardedly silly, depending on sleep/day/time/mood and who I'm with. I like finding people I can be silly/sarcastic/witty with.

I also consistently get INTJ on the MBTI, and quite think it suits me.

That's enough for the basics, right?
What I’m doing with my life
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I graduated with a BA in Psychology, but like a lot of other people, it's not exactly leading me anywhere at the moment.

I kind of think of myself as a big work in progress at the moment. I've got things I'm definitely fixing in my life right now, sometimes slowly. Not that I think of myself as some kind of wreck.

I'm not sure what the future holds for me, and it can be frustrating and scary at times, but I'm still very comfortable with who I am as a person.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I really like working with my hands. Making, building, fixing, etc. I've especially been learning to work on my car recently, but when I need anything else fixed, I try to do it myself.

I'm also quite excellent at explaining things far too much, and surviving mock zombie apocalypses until the last moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Nobody ever deems it necessary to divulge their first impressions of me, but historically I've been rather quiet in new encounters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: By and large, fiction of various sorts. Frank Herbert, George R R Martin, Isaac Asimov, Larry Niven, Orson Scott Card, Frederik Pohl. I've read Tolkein, but he wasn't my favorite.

I recently went through a period of no reading, but finishing a long set aside book reminded me how much I enjoy it, so I need more suggestions for books.

Movies: Scifi stuff. Star Trek tickles that fancy pretty well. Other stuff too. I guess typical man stuff, like action movies.
TV: A whole crapload. Community strikes me as especially funny, and I really like New Girl now and I don't even care. Castle is my favorite cop show. Again, Star Trek.
Anime: (I guess it deserves its own list): Neon Genesis Evangelion and Code Geass are my current favorites.
Music: I don't really like happy sounding music. I just can't get into it.
I do like metal, and instrumental stuff, but my musical tastes do not define me.
Food: Salty things. Sweet things. Not spicy. Specifics don't really matter. I am an omnivore.
Games: I am between avid and casual PC and PS3 gamer. I just finished Borderlands 2, and recently finished Journey, Shadow of the Colossus, and the Uncharted trilogy. I make a point of avoiding MMOs and otherwise open-ended games. A game needs to end at some point.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Philosophy, the world, the state of things, myself (introspection), my hobbies, rights, liberties, science, logic, religion, the future...things like that.

Might not be the right section for this, but I consider myself an agnostic atheist (I don't know if there is a god, but I choose not to believe in one). I used to be very combative with religious people, but my zeal has been tempered with time and apathy, so I no longer spend large amounts of time brooding over matters of religion. I'm happy to let them be, as long as they see fit to return the favor, but when confronted by them, I have no qualms sharing my opinions.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home, watching stuff (I would say Netflix like everyone else, but I don't havean account), looking at dumb stuff on the Internet, playing video games, reading, building models, etc. Sometimes doing those same things, but with one or two close friends. I guess I do go out on occasion.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hm. Nothing of import, or any interest. Things are either private or not for me, not any more or less so, and I don't make anything private unless it's important.
You should message me if
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If you want to meet someone who can make new inside jokes with you.

Also if you want to talk, send a message! I don't really send messages first right now, it's quite rare.

Just a head's up, I have a bunch of stuff going on right now, so so it's a little hard to go on dates often. I'm probably just going to wait until my life has settled back down before really looking, but I'd still like to hear from anyone who wants to message me. Things are on track to get a lot better soon though.