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49 Toms River, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 2:39pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am looking for my perfect match, but realize that goal is akin to winning the lottery. Friends who may become more are more than welcome. I would love to meet someone who shares my need to be stimulated. I love to mentally and physically explore this incredible world we occupy.
I love to learn anything and everything. If I don't know the answer to a question or how something works,odds are good you will turn and find me clicking like a madman on search results.
I love to create: Draw, paint, sculpt, cook, landscape my yard. Anything I can envision and then make real.
I'm looking for someone to share time and interests with. I don't need someone to share my interests right out of the box. If you are on this site you most likely embrace - possibly(hopefully) maniacally embrace new things.I love when someone can get me excited about whatever they are passionate about. Mad scientist ideas, the art/book,movie idea you have, or a new breakfast cereal you really NEED to eat for dinner, all sound great to me!
What I’m doing with my life
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Getting back into my art.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding unorthodox solutions to mechanical/physical problems. I have quite the Mcgyver streak running through me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My vestigial tail..kidding. Probably my dashing good looks..kidding again!I'm not sure,I never asked anyone
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My tastes are all over the place. Books/authors-Mary Roach,Stephen King,Dawkins,Hitchens,Poe,William Gibson,Neil Gaiman,Erik Larson(Just glanced at a bookcase for those)
Music- In no particular order: the Beatles , Radiohead,Jeff Buckley, ELO, Tegan and Sara, Beasties, Mozart , Sonic Youth,Juliette and the Licks,Kraftwerk,Tranfusion M, the Cars,The Cult, NIN, Smashing Pumpkins, Repo Man sountrack,TOOL,The Eels, Miles Hunt/ Wonderstuff, the Rapture,Rancid,The Faint,Death from above 1979,Tomahawk, Depeche Mode,Deathcab, Sex Pistols, Clash, English Beat,PJ and John Parrish, Muse, Prince,Cure,Bauhaus,Joy division, David Bowie, Violent Femmes,Danny Elfman (with the exception of Charlie and the chocolate factory, what was he thinking?) U2, Dead Kennedys, PIL, Foo Fighters Tangerine Dream,Neil Young Mumford and Sons,Silversun Pickups....AND THE LIST GOES ON....

I will add to this later, but real quick-
Food-Love to try new foods.Strange meats not so much, but vegetarian anything, Ethiopian is my favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have problems answering this question. I'm sooo far from an uptight person, but"could NEVER do without"? Anything beyond; food,water,air,friends, and family seems so shallow. The world is full of homeless starving people." Would never want to do without" is a question that works better for me
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The boundless possibilities of man- scientifically, socially, artistically and how the very nature of man tends to screw things up

-Human beings, who are almost unique in having the ability to learn from the experience of others, are also remarkable for their apparent disinclination to do so.
Douglas Adams

-Some people never go crazy, What truly horrible lives they must live.

Charles Bukowski
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Checking out a local band,dinner/hanging out with friends, or just being a homebody and enjoying being home with no expectations.....ahhhhhhhh
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Won't be so private now, will it?
Here goes...baring my soul....I like to dress up in......NO that's not it! ;) Kind of boring actually. I once sported a mullet*drops and shakes head in shame*
You should message me if
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In the weird or normal question you unhesitatingly, unflinchingly checked weird