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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 25
Sapiosexual, Straight
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from Ph.D program
Entertainment / Media
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Lanky, slinky, swagger. Intellect, humor, passion. Red wine, laughter and occasional late nights trading tales of travel and talking of books, art, film, speculating about the nature of time and memory. Shutting up to kiss. A natural born bohemian, I'm always looking for fellow activists, academics, acrobats, artists, alchemists, archivists of forgotten dreams, and devil's advocates to share a happy hour or three.

UPDATE: Currently on the road until very late September.
What I’m doing with my life
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Rogue scholar. Professional lefty. Free radical. Bushwick bohemian. Outlaw ethnographer. Culture warrior. Part-time Ugandan. Secret artist. Full time mediamaker. Renowned conversationalist on topics including life, the universe, heck, everything.

I run an organization in East Africa that combines music television with journalism and human rights media. Work is my passion and purpose and has involved, in no particular order, publishing, producing, presenting, propaganda, intellectual property, pop stars, media piracy and puppets.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Late nights. Lost weekends. Road trips. Making out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I’m strutting down the street in an Italian flag crop top and matching running shorts with THE LARGEST PARROT THAT YOU HAVE EVER SEEN IN REAL LIFE on my shoulder.

No, not true. But that guy does sound awesome.

What do they notice? Tall, deep voice. I get compliments on my jacket sometimes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Film: Yes and yes and yes. Let's sneak out of work during the day and see a matinee.

Music: Deep, dreamy, sometimes dark. Boards of Canada, Tosca, Siouxsie, Bauhaus, Joy Division, Nick Cave, Leonard Cohen, The Knife, Glass Candy, Django Reinhardt. Electrotango. Downtempo electronica of all sorts. The Smiths will be my favorite band until the day I die.

Books: Of course. Reading a Henry Miller novel at the moment. Recommendations?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A ticket to a foreign land
A mission to accomplish
A sense of mystery
A drink to celebrate the dusk
A lover to celebrate the dawn
A voucher that allows me to pick six more things that I would prefer to never do without
And so on...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Evolution. Revolution. (r)Evolution? Neuroplasticity. Social norms and the construction of culture. The future. The past. The eternal ongoing Now. Whether yoga can be hacked. Memories of the desert and of the sea. The dance at the end of “8½”. The perfect way to kiss the nape of your neck.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Searching the East Village for a drink with an ingredient that I've never heard of made by a mustachioed bartender. Chatting with my companions about the most interesting places they've been, what they aspire to, what they stole when they were teenagers. Memories, dreams, reflections, jokes. Seeking the impossible heart of Friday night.

Either that or Netflix.
You should message me if
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Travel for work makes a serious relationship difficult right now. But if you are looking for fun, stimulating times with a good natured, globe trotting radical/scholar/producer/activist, we might click as some combination of friends, playmates, peers, colleagues, companions of the vine, lovers or lovers of life to explore this amazing city’s glows and shadows.