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56 • M • Richmond, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 40–54
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Sep 15
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body Type
- Graduated from Ph.D program
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Has kids, and might want more
- Likes dogs and dislikes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Fluently)
When not working, I'm out on the Bay sailing (own a share in a boat), meditating, cycling and building community (Jewish, Buddhist, cycling, skiing).
Music: Upbeat Pop/Rock is my prime thing, everything from Dylan, the Beatles, especially George Harrison, to Red Hot Chili Peppers, SemiSonic, Springsteen, The LAs, Roy Orbison. Jazz is good, more old school, and definitely Latin music -- Juanes, Shakira, Ricky Martin, and Nouveau Flamenco -- If you haven't heard it, I"ll introduce you. Listen to most styles, but not so much Rap/Hip Hop.
Other: I love live theatre and stand up comedy, in the Bay Area I try to go see Paula Poundstone, Will Durst and others whenever I can. If I had the $$ I'd spend at least a week in NYC going to shows every day.
Food: I eat just about anything except fast and/or unhealthy food, cook lots of Asian, vegetarian, etc. Ex-foodie, now following a pretty simple food plan with no sugar or flour products to avoid my family history of obesity, diabetes heart disease and all that comes with it.
Magazines: Reading the New York Review of Books New Yorker,
Books: Just finished The Namesake that I loved. Lately have been reading a lot of non-fiction (The Black Count, Imperial San Francisco, Emperor of Maladies, the UnWinding, Thinking Fast and Slow) and non-profit management -- Lean Startup, Forces for Good, Good to Great -- and a lot of mysteries, thrillers and sci-fi on the plane like Michael Connolly, George R.R. Martin, Lois McMaster Bujold, John Scalzi, Neal Stephenson. Favorites are old adventure novels -- Alexander Dumas's Count of Monte Cristo is my all time fave -- and historical fiction -- Tales of the Otori set in medieval Japan, Janissary Tree set in Byzantium.
What the second half of my life is going to look like
You're really smart, clever and articulate
You are upbeat, funny, positive and grateful
You are in decent physical shape and the beach, cycling or something outdoors and athletic plays a role in your life
you know how to communicate effectively in a relationship and have difficult conversations with love and compassion
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