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35 Cologne, Germany Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 10:36am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a geek. I don't know how that happened, but well, that's the way it is. I love board games, read a lot, work as a programmer, and are somewhat shy in social situations unless it's just a small group of people I know well.

I do not spend most of my life in a basement though. For example, I like bicycle tours a lot, and mushroom picking is also fun. Well, and cooking too. Oh, festivals are also fun. And cats. Though I don't have any right now.

I'm friendly, open minded, tolerant, INFP/INFJ. I love cuddling as well as caring for my plants (I especially have a thing for fern and grasses). Oh, and in matters of sex, I'm all for GGG.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Regular stuff includes:
Working, gaming, reading, spending time with friends, travelling, biking, swimming, walking through forests, going to festivals at least twice a year (WGT and Amphi), cooking evening, and so on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Programming, gaming, hugging, cuddling, cooking, taking care of plants (if you need one, I always got some spare plants)... Oh, and laughing about my own jokes. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I asked some of my closer friends about it. Their first replies were "your humor", "your fine humor" and "your humor is worldclass". When I poked them further, other replies were "that you are very kind" and "your long hair". When I poked them further they said "stop poking me!" and ran away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I guess the easiest would be if you have a look at my library thing collection. I try to keep it somewhat up to date.

Basically, the less predictable a movie seems to be, the more I'm inclined to like it.
For example, I love Wrong, Rubber, Wrong Cops, Dark STar, Being john Malkovich, most stuff by Monty Python, Funky Forest, Man BItes Dog.
Movies of other genres I liked: Ghost in the Shell, Pans Labyrinth, The Fountain, Coraline.

TV Series:
Monkey Dust, Futurama, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones. I don't watch much TV though.

For example: Janus, Helium Vola, Haggard, Goldfrapp, The Faint, Bohren & der Club of Gore, Portishead, Massive Attack, Qntal, Deine Lakaien, Welle: Erdball, Finsterforst, Schandmaul and a lot of others.
You can also find me most years at the WGT and Amphi festivals.

tea, chocolate, uuhm.... hm.... chocolate? hmm... and tea... fish is good too, and about all foods if cooked yourself/with friends
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Tea, chocolate, books, computer, hugs, long baths with a good book. Well, I could live without some of that stuff, but they make life more pleasant. Also while I love cats, I don't have one right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"Did I really dream that?"
"How do I program that the best way?"
"How do I explain this board game best to my friends?"
"What plant is that one, that grows over there?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't really a typical friday. Random things that might happen:
- pc gaming alone or with friends
- playing board or card games with friends
- cooking alone or with friends
- watching a documentary, while most often working or gaming at the same time
- programming
- going early to bed to enjoy a very long sleep without missing half of the saturday
- reading
- every once in a while also a visit at a gothic club or a pub
- taking a long bath
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The second most used app on my smartphone is the Wikipedia app. *gasp* Oh, especially the "list of lists" on Wikipedia is really worth a read.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Probably if a shared future would seem enjoyable for you. You know, one where in a number of years we can look back to the day you checked out my profile, and you remember what your first impression was, and how everything led to a happy future.

A future, where we'd travel to foreign countries together, getting to know their ancient culture, taste interesting food at their restaurants, make new friends.
A future in which we'd spend rainy afternoons at friends houses, laughing and playing board games with them, or watching movies.
One in which we both and our friends would check out interesting festivals, hopping from concert to concert and spending the time inbetween in museums, cafés or lying in the grass in sunny parks.
One where we'd stroll through forests on hiking tours, the sun casting warm patterns on our skin. Or through a cold misty forest, sharing snacks and hot chocolate or coffee while hunting mushrooms.

Well, or that's at least stuff I like. While a partner obviously can't enjoy everything of that as well, enjoying at least some of those things seems necessary. :)

Edit: I'm also a great fan of visiting people in foreign nations. So you want some pleasant company and don't mind showing me around a bit, then don't hesitate to send me a message as well. :)