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34 M Cologne, Germany

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've been m living in Cologne for about a decade, and work here as a programmer.

Who I am? I guess a typical geek. I like computers, gaming, board-, card-, and computer games. Most of those I like board game evenings with friends. I like trashy movies and good books. I read, a lot. If I don't end the day lying in my bed while reading something, it doesn't quite feel right.

I'm pretty open minded too. I think everyone should do whatever he/she wants to as long as it doesn't involve hurting others.

I love spending time with friends, the same as I enjoy having time for myself after a stressful day.

I also love pets, but currently have none. So instead I care for plants. Might sound silly, but I really enjoy that. My balcony is green and there are plants in front of every window. I like different types of grass and fern especially.
What I’m doing with my life
The usual. Working, gaming, spending time with friends, travelling, nothing extraordinary.
I’m really good at
Programming, gaming, hugging, cuddling, cooking, caring for people who are important to me, caring for plants (need an offshoot? My plants grow faster than I can give offshoots to friends) discussing interesting stuff and fun to have around.
The first things people usually notice about me
I asked some of my closer friends about it. Their first replies were "your humor", "your fine humor" and "your humor is worldclass". When I poked them further, other replies were "that you are very kind" and "your long hair". When I poked them further they said "stop poking me!" and ran away.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I guess the easiest would be if you have a look at my library thing collection. I try to keep it somewhat up to date.

Dead Man, Monty Python (nearly all stuff by them), Dark Star, Amelie, Futurama, Beeing John Malkovich, Hero, Tamala 2010, Ghost in the Shell, Man bites Dog, Pan's Labyrinth, The Fountain, Tetsuo: The Iron Man, The Navigator: A Medieval Odyssey, Coraline, Rubber, Funky Forest and some others... In short: "wtf" movies, dystopias, black humor.

TV Series:
Monkey Dust, Futurama, Ren & Stimpy. Oh, and good old X-Files. :) Dr. House ain't bad either, though I currently watch TV very rarely. Normally when I do watch TV, then it's a documentary of some sort. Or a movie with friends.

I'm pretty open minded in matters of music. What I love nearly always though is Dark Wave and medieval stuff or folk rock. But depending on my mood also dub, psybient, ska, as well as certain sorts of punk, metal, rock, and even a few pop songs or oldies. Some bands:
Schandmaul, Helium Vola, Shpongle, Goldfrapp, The Faint, Faun, Bohren & der Club of Gore, Portishead, Massive Attack, Shpongle, Die Form, Die Form, Qntal, Deine Lakaien, Altered States, Celtic Cross, Welle: Erdball, different folk/medieval/electronic/ska/dub/triphop/industrial, purring of the cat on my lap or a girl in my arms, wind in the trees and rain on the roof. Oh, and I love Dark Wave, Gothic Rock. :) The Merry Thoughts, Virgin Prunes, Poésie Noire, Oi Va Voi, The Velvet Underground, Joy Division, Sisters of Mercy, Frank the Baptist, Autonervous, Crematory

You can also find me most years at the WGT and Amphi Festival.

tea, chocolate, uuhm.... hm.... chocolate? hmm... and tea... fish is good too, and about all foods if cooked yourself/with friends
The six things I could never do without
Tea, chocolate, books, computer, hugs, long baths with a good book. Well, I could live without some of that stuff, but they make life more pleasant. Also while I love cats, I don't have one right now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Uhm... dreams, programming, board games, sex. How fleeting the current moment is. And what for a plant that is that grows over there.
On a typical Friday night I am
There ain't really a typical friday. Random things that might happen:
- pc gaming alone or with friends
- playing board or card games with friends
- working
- cooking alone or with friends
- watching a documentary, while most often working or gaming at the same time
- programming
- going early to bed to enjoy a very long sleep without missing half of the saturday
- reading
- every once in a while also a visit at a gothic club
- writing
- taking a long bath
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have the habit of looking up trivial stuff constantly on Wikipedia, to see if I can learn something more about it. Is that private? Hmmm, no not really. I'll think about this later.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Probably if a shared future would seem enjoyable for you. You know, one where in a number of years we can look back to the day you checked out my profile, and you remember what your first impression was, and how everything led to a happy future.

A future, where we'd travel to foreign countries together, getting to know their ancient culture, taste interesting food at their restaurants, make new friends.
A future in which we'd spend rainy afternoons at friends houses, laughing and playing board games with them, or watching movies.
One in which we both and our friends would check out interesting festivals, hopping from concert to concert and spending the time inbetween in museums, cafés or lying in the grass in sunny parks.
One where we'd stroll through forests on hiking tours, the sun casting warm patterns on our skin. Or through a cold misty forest, sharing snacks and hot chocolate or coffee while hunting mushrooms.

Well, or that's at least stuff I like. While a partner obviously can't enjoy everything of that as well, enjoying at least some of those things seems necessary. :)