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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 5
6' 3" (1.91m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Has kids and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Okay, here’s the truth (people are still looking for that, right?).

I’m an average guy who’s hoping to find a partner. Someone who wants to move through life’s ups and downs with someone else they can love and count on. I’m not sure why that seems to be so hard to find these days …

Do I have the looks of George Clooney? No, but I’m not hideous either. Do I have the money of Donald Trump? No, but I have a decent job and make decent money. I don’t have the means or desire to anyone’s sugar daddy, and I’m not looking for a sugar mama, or a mama at all for that matter. Do I have the body of an Olympic athlete? No, but I’m in pretty fair physical condition. Am I a religious fanatic? No, but I am a deeply spiritual person.

I am an educated person capable of having involved conversations on almost any subject. When I say something, you can count on it being the truth. I don’t like drama or secrets. I don’t take myself or life in general too seriously, but I’m not a carefree fool either.

I’ve raised two beautiful daughters and have enjoyed a pretty event-filled (good and bad) life.

I am not an alpha male, and I am certainly not looking for an alpha female. I don’t need something to fill every minute of my life, but I’m not a lazy, couch potato either. I like to have balance in all areas of my life.

I’m not looking for someone to change, save, or control, neither am I looking for someone to save, change, or control me. I have a past (is there someone at this age who doesn’t?) and some things that I wish I would have done differently, but I don’t have a criminal past and I have no addictions to alcohol or drugs.

I’m just looking for a real partner. A friend, lover, and partner. I’m in no rush to get to the altar, but I’m also not looking to “casually date” many women. I just don’t think that’s right or fair to anyone.

I play the guitar and keyboards, love music, movies, the beach, the mountains, going on cruises, reading, walking, talking, and enjoying life, not simply surviving it. I am a loving, supportive man who you will always be able to count on and trust, but those are just words that must be proven by actions over time.

That’s it. My pictures are accurate and recent. What you see is what you get, and as you get to know me, maybe you get a lot more – in the best ways possible. I hope to hear from sincere people soon!
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm handling the day-to-day like everyone else and pursuing those things I love doing. Enjoying the good moments as they come.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good friend, finding the truth in life, not taking everything so seriously, walking away from drama, and figuring things out (sometimes). Not too bad at the guitar, either! :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, warmth, and height (6'3"). The fact that there is no pretension ... no haughty, better-than-others attitude, no judgments.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Leveraging the Universe, The Magic of Believing, Bible, anything by Dan Brown, so many more ... Movies: The Outlaw Josey Wales, Men in Black, Patton, The Wizard of Oz, Jeremiah Johnson, The Godfather, You've Got Mail, and on and on ... TV: Modern Family, Sleepy Hollow, Person of Interest, Undercover Boss, Criminal Minds, Blue Bloods, The Biggest Loser, Resurrection. Music: Rock, a little country, oldies. Dan Fogelberg, Fleetwood Mac, and Mary Chapin Carpenter are my favs.. I HATE rap and hip-hop! Can not listen to it. Just sayin'. Love all types of food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hope, the ocean and trees, a guitar, books, a computer (only because it's how I make a living), laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make life better. Pursuing my dreams.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually at home relaxing after the work week. I'm not an "out partying on Friday night" guy. Outside activities are best on the weekends, which I don't consider Friday night to be.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Strange question. Let's meet first, okay?
You should message me if
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You are looking for one special soul, enjoy great conversation, don't take life too seriously, have fun doing a variety of things together, enjoy reading and quiet times, laughing, and exploring the potential of what tomorrow may bring.