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Poly, in my user name, is for Pollyanna as in incur ably positive
and nothing to do w poly lifestyle. Looking for passion within a
dating relationship not a 1 night stand. I want to b valued but u
will have to really know me for that so stop here if that's not ur
interest. Grew up in SoCal as the only girl w 4 brothers and have
considered going back depending on where life takes me. Own a home
in Fort Smith AR where I lived for 30 yrs. now live just south of
Fayetteville Ar. Also lived in Houston and Austin (loved those
Texans!) Miss the Beach and the mountains and family, long romantic
walks and talks.. Love to camp, boat, walk, yoga, outdoors,
philosophy, alternative health, astrology, meditation, travel. I
love, love love to dance (any kind). Love long passionate kisses
and lots of huggin and cuddlin! I'm very tender hearted. I don't
like game playin or drama - I'm not good at it and don't have the
energy for it! Gossip and meanness make me uncomfortable and makes
me want to defend the helpless! I'm just an old Hippie Girl - into
peace, love and forgiveness for all :-) Mostly Vegan for health
reasons but I don't mind what u eat and I can eat anywhere. Deeply
spiritual but not religious. I can be silly and fun (and sometime
jokingly sarcastic) or I can be serious and quiet when u need
someone to listen.
I marked my body type as average even though I am more active and
exercise a lot more than friends my age resulting in shapely legs
and bottom but, per the norm, I have bumps and lumps where I wish I
didn't...a work in progress but overall I'm comfortable in it
As a rule I seem to match better w younger men as that is where my
fitness level, energy level and compatability more closely matches.
Rocking chairs hold no interest for me :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Rediscovering myself. Loving life. Been a Nurse for 36 years w many
years in healthcare mgt. I love studyin about other cultures and
religions. Practice yoga, meditation and presence. Love having new
experiences. In awe of all of life. I speed walk 4 - 5 miles most
days, work out on my "Total Gym" and do Yoga (although I'm new at
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing, cooking, herb gardening, camping, being independent,
listening, exploring. Seeing the bright side (am really taken off-
guard by folks who automatically see the negative side of things
first) - But I don't consider myself to be naive - I know the
negative is there - I just choose not to focus on it. I'm told I
have a large dose of common sense. I'm pretty good at detecting a
fraud so if that's ur game - just move along thanks.
I love being "a lady" and girly things and being taken care of -
love having doors opened etc. I love it when u laugh at something
goofy I did and will laugh along with you. Although, I confess,
sometimes I may not understand why you think it's funny and other
times I'll tell on myself. Sometimes the things I thought people
said are a lot funnier than what they actually did say - so I'm
easily entertained. I can also be a good hand when there is a job
to do. Please don't ever tell me "you can't" - as in "unable" to do
something as then I'll have to figure out how to get it done just
to prove to MYSELF that I can!
The first things people usually notice about me
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1.My smile and my "twinkly eyes" I am incurably optimistic - my
friends call me Pollyanna (but that's just pokin fun at my
dependable optimism and can-do). It's really just mind over matter
for the most part most of the time....
2. That I match my profile exactly.. Duh... Isn't that the
3. That I look much younger than my age
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like animated films that are supposed to be for kids like Cars,
Brave and Lorax also fantasy like The Lord of the rings/Hobbit
series or Harry Potter, Iron Man,The movie "Michael" and books on
self improvement like Eckhart Tolle, Deepak Chopra, Dr Wayne Dyer,
philosophy, other cultures or religions, anything that I can learn
that is new. I love to see what I can apply to my own life. I have
a very tender heart and can't tolerate any movies or shows with
violence or meanness. I like mystical and mythical stuff like
leprechauns and wizards - does it really matter if they are real?
Anything is possible.
I really enjoy all kinds of music except "Acid rock". I'm really
into ambiance so, Tecate w mexican food, wine w jazz, romantic
music w lovin etc...
My home town and high school had a Scottish flavor and I'm a large
part Irish so I have a soft spot for bagpipes and kilts.
I am having a trial minimalist period w/o TV - so far so good - but
don't take my I-phone or internet!
The sound of A Tenor voice makes my heart fly!
I've read "Gentlemans rules" and my favs are #
175,151,61,465,754,324,224,149,146,141,140,113, &78 ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
quiet time w nature
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be at my best - OK so I'm a type A
I try to remember "life is like a magic carpet and the only time I
get in trouble is when I try to drive"
"live and let live" by having good boundaries and supporting others
in whatever decisions they make - evaluating the difference between
"my business" and "their business" and trying to give others the
benefit of the doubt (don't ya just wanna throw up :-P)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Love all things from camping or boating to getting dressed up for a
nice dinner and theater or a concert of any kind. I grew up n LA
where there was lots of "that" avail. Love to dress up and also
love my shorts and flip flops. Love sittin out by my pool w a
gin/tonic listening to the birds and the wind chimes! One friend
tells people that I can "have fun in a car wash" - doesn't
everybody?! Love to travel and love to people watch. Love farmers
markets and antique furniture. Love to try new things. Love to
travel and learn other cultures. Never met a stranger
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love fully participating in PDA - if u don't, it might b a deal
breaker - cuz I gotta wonder why not...
In some ways I'm a Little old fashioned and I have "private
browsing" and u can only see I looked at ur profile if I allow it -
so If YOU can see I visited ur profile, I'm interested. It's like a
wink across a crowded room. Contact me if u r interested.
Mayb it's my way of trying to tame my assertive confident outgoing
Oh, and I recently discovered I have a neck fetish
I expect to kiss some frogs along the way and even become great
friends w many of them. C'est la vie!
You should message me if
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you are interested in getting to know each other, becoming great
friends (cuz who doesn't need more friends and it sure decreases
the pressure of dating) - maybe leading to something more in time.
If your up for a challenge as I can be a handful to keep up with.
If you are positive and open minded, non judgmental, independent,
health minded - I'll think of some more descriptors later :-)
PS My profile has been "validity checked" by at least 2 friends who
say "it's absolutely you!" - so there you have it!
Oh BTW, I don't date married men...#1 I don't share well, #2 If she
can't trust u why should I? #3 and as far as swingers or
polyamorous...refer to #1 above
#4 If ur single it is my expectation that u r dating lots of other
gorgeous, sexy woman :-)
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