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59 F Laguna Hills, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:46am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Poly, in my user name, is for Pollyanna as in incur ably positive and nothing to do w poly lifestyle. Grew up in SoCal as the only girl w 4 brothers and have considered going back depending on where life takes me. (Update! Just offered a job in Newport Beach - relocated 1/31/2014 to CA from AR!) Also lived in Houston and Austin (loved those Texans!) Miss the Beach and the mountains and family, long romantic walks and talks.. Love to camp, boat, walk, yoga, outdoors, philosophy, alternative health, astrology, meditation, travel. I love, love love to dance (any kind). Love long passionate kisses and lots of huggin and cuddlin! I'm very tender hearted. I don't like game playin or drama - I'm not good at it and don't have the energy for it! Gossip and meanness make me uncomfortable and makes me want to defend the helpless! I'm just an old Hippie Girl - into peace, love and forgiveness for all :-) Vegan for health reasons but I don't mind what u eat and I can eat anywhere. Deeply spiritual but not religious. I can be silly and fun (and sometime jokingly sarcastic) or I can be serious and quiet when u need someone to listen.
I marked my body type as average even though I am more active and exercise a lot more than friends my age resulting in shapely legs and bottom but, per the norm, I have bumps and lumps where I wish I didn't...a work in progress but overall I'm comfortable in it :-)
What I’m doing with my life
Rediscovering myself. Loving life. Been a Nurse for 36 years w many years in healthcare mgt. I love studyin about other cultures and religions. Practice yoga, meditation and presence. Love having new experiences. In awe of all of life. I speed walk 4 - 5 miles most days, work out on my "Total Gym" and do Yoga (although I'm new at it).
I’m really good at
Dancing, cooking, herb gardening, camping, being independent, listening, exploring. Seeing the bright side (am really taken off- guard by folks who automatically see the negative side of things first) - But I don't consider myself to be naive - I know the negative is there - I just choose not to focus on it. I'm told I have a large dose of common sense. I'm pretty good at detecting a fraud so if that's ur game - just move along thanks.
I love being "a lady" and girly things and being taken care of - love having doors opened etc. I love it when u laugh at something goofy I did and will laugh along with you. Although, I confess, sometimes I may not understand why you think it's funny and other times I'll tell on myself. Sometimes the things I thought people said are a lot funnier than what they actually did say - so I'm easily entertained. I can also be a good hand when there is a job to do. Please don't ever tell me "you can't" - as in "unable" to do something as then I'll have to figure out how to get it done just to prove to MYSELF that I can!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my "twinkly eyes" I am incurably optimistic - my friends call me Pollyanna (but that's just pokin fun at my dependable optimism and can-do). It's really just mind over matter for the most part most of the time....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like animated films that are supposed to be for kids like Cars, Brave and Lorax also fantasy like The Lord of the rings/Hobbit series or Harry Potter, Iron Man,The movie "Michael" and books on self improvement like Eckhart Tolle, Deepak Chopra, Dr Wayne Dyer, philosophy, other cultures or religions, anything that I can learn that is new. I love to see what I can apply to my own life. I have a very tender heart and can't tolerate any movies or shows with violence or meanness. I like mystical and mythical stuff like leprechauns and wizards - does it really matter if they are real? Anything is possible.
I really enjoy all kinds of music except "Acid rock". I'm really into ambiance so, Tecate w mexican food, wine w jazz, romantic music w lovin etc...
My home town and high school had a Scottish flavor and I'm a large part Irish so I have a soft spot for bagpipes and kilts.
I am having a trial minimalist period w/o TV - so far so good - but don't take my I-phone or internet!
The sound of A Tenor voice makes my heart fly!
I've read "Gentlemans rules" and my favs are # 175,151,61,465,754,324,224,149,146,141,140,113, &78 ;)
The six things I could never do without
quiet time w nature
good food
Mutual Respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can be at my best - OK so I'm a type A
I try to remember "life is like a magic carpet and the only time I get in trouble is when I try to drive"
"live and let live" by having good boundaries and supporting others in whatever decisions they make - evaluating the difference between "my business" and "their business" and trying to give others the benefit of the doubt (don't ya just wanna throw up :-P)
On a typical Friday night I am
Love all things from camping or boating to getting dressed up for a nice dinner and theater or a concert of any kind. I grew up n LA where there was lots of "that" avail. Love to dress up and also love my shorts and flip flops. Love sittin out by my pool w a gin/tonic listening to the birds and the wind chimes! One friend tells people that I can "have fun in a car wash" - doesn't everybody?! Love to travel and love to people watch. Love farmers markets and antique furniture. Love to try new things. Love to travel and learn other cultures. Never met a stranger
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love fully participating in PDA - if u don't, it might b a deal breaker - cuz I gotta wonder why not...
In some ways I'm a Little old fashioned and I have "private browsing" and u can only see I looked at ur profile if I allow it - so If YOU can see I visited ur profile, I'm interested. It's like a wink across a crowded room. Contact me if u r interested.
Mayb it's my way of trying to tame my assertive confident outgoing personality :-)
Oh, and I recently discovered I have a neck fetish!
Honestly....I want to feel adored. I want to feel craved for. I want a man who can't wait to get home to me. I want a man I can truly appreciate for his strengths AND his little quirks that will make me smile. And smile ... And cherish... And feel cherished.... And laugh together at both our short comings. I will feel overcome with awe at his uniqueness. I know it might turn off his need to "hunt" to chase or to "win" but I don't know how to play that game. I wish I did! It is said that is how to "hook" a man forever. All I know is full blown honesty about who I am and how I feel. It will take a special person to receive the appreciation and respect that I have to give without turning off his drive to give back and spoil me as I want to spoil and be spoiled. I want that intimate bond that encompasses both the work of achieving a healthy relationship and then transcends it. To meet a soul mate and relate to one another as empowered equals and partners, in and out of the bedroom. The yin and yang symbol signifying this special type of union. I fill in where he can't in all situations...balance. I want to explore and experience sacred sex without limits that will rocket us both to heights of ecstasy unimagined. I want to feel cared for and protected even when I think I don't need it. I want attraction to the point that we can't keep our hands off each other....even when passing in the hall, a hand grazes a backside that speaks of love well into old age. I want to slow dance in the kitchen and let our example teach young ones what true love looks like. I want passion that will make me put a hold on cooking dinner to respond to my lovers fire. I will have it. I will have it all.
I expect to kiss some frogs along the way and even become great friends w many of them. C'est la vie!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 50–65
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are interested in getting to know each other, becoming great friends (cuz who doesn't need more friends and it sure decreases the pressure of dating) - maybe leading to something more in time. If your up for a challenge as I can be a handful to keep up with. If you are positive and open minded, non judgmental, independent, health minded - I'll think of some more descriptors later :-)
PS My profile has been "validity checked" by at least 2 friends who say "it's absolutely you!" - so there you have it!
Oh BTW, I don't date married men...#1 I don't share well, #2 If she can't trust u why should I? #3 and as far as swingers or polyamorous...refer to #1 above
#4 If ur single it is my expectation that u r dating lots of other gorgeous, sexy woman :-)