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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
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Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Okay)
My self-summary
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My name is Alfredo Paolo and I'm from the north side of Chicago. As of this writing I am twenty-five and a half. I'm a friendly, easy going guy who is trying to move forward as I pursue a better life for myself. This includes personal and career related goals.

I enjoy and am open to meeting new people. With as big a city as Chicago is, I'm looking for friends to explore it all with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently trying to figure out what the rest of my life will look like. I've been debating on what I should go back to school for. Just a question of what at this point and not if I am. Lately it has ranged from teaching, nursing, or to go back for another BA but instead of English to go for a science degree.
I’m really good at
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Talking and listening.
Being an all around goof when appropriate (of course) which should be all the time
The first things people usually notice about me
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Depending on whether I've shaved or not it's most likely a question of heritage that's noticed first, wondering if I'm Spanish. Considering I'm Filipino there is some truth to that but I associate myself with being asian/pacific islander person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Five People You Meet in Heaven.
The Alchemist.
Battle Royale.
The Unbearable Lightness of Being.
The History of Love.
Never Let Me Go.
The Fault in Our Stars.
His Dark Materials trilogy.
The Dark is Rising Series.
Harry Potter Series.
Goodnight Moon (a childhood favorite)

Once Upon a Time.
Doctor Who.
Marvel's Agents of SHIELD.
I like educational tv be it on Animal Planet, Discovery, Food Network etc.

My taste in music on a given day is dependen on mood but I am a fan of jazz and classical music.

The following are movies I could watch over and over:
Clue (horribly good)
Kill Bill (1&2)
The Devil Wears Prada
Singing in the Rain
500 Days of Summer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My optimism.
My family
My friends
My journals (I have several)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the inevitability of death and if I am capitalizing on every moment .

But on a lighter note, I think about how I can help improve myself so I can be better suited to help those I care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'll most likely be reading or writing.
More inclined to be at home hosting a game night if not exploring the city.
I'm not opposed to going out with friends though not particularly a fan of bars.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I may be the worst guy who likes guys in admitting this but I'm not a big fan of Mean Girls. Perhaps it's because I haven't seen it fully in one sitting. I've seen it in parts over a long period of time.
You should message me if
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You believe or are inclined to agree with the idea that a great relationship in any form begins with a strong foundation and therefore think we have something in common.