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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:24pm
Asian, Pacific Islander
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Im a person who truly believes in monogamous relationships. They exist. They are out there and I want to be in one. I'm only 25 and believe that despite my age, I am mature enough to handle everything that can potentially happen in that type of relationship. I'm pretty confident in myself and am willing to compromise depending on the greater good. This isn't to say I'm a pushover.

I can be pretty goofy if I'm comfortable around someone and it is noticeable when it happens. It doesn't take much time for that comfortability to happen. Having five siblings enabled me to adapt to most situations mostly good, some bad. Life has taught me everything else in between.

I don't drink much and this isn't simply because I can't drink much to begin with. I see it more of a social activity than a personal one.
Considering I'm not a fan of most beers I've found that I enjoy cider beers. Ironically this was also the same time that I found out that I'm allergic to something in it. Thankfully the only outcome is that I turn red and that even one cider beer makes me feel like I've been drinking a lot. It's usually a night ender.

I think dogs are cool. And that cats are cooler. I wear miss matched socks more often than paired ones unless I'm going to a formal event.

I'm pretty much an open book so feel free to send me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently trying to figure out what the rest of my life will look like. I've been debating on what I should go back to school for. Just a question of what at this point and not if I am. Lately it has ranged from teaching, nursing, or to go back for another bachelor degree.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing with people. Knowing when to talk just as much as listen when and where appropriate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending on whether I've shaved or not it's most likely a question of heritage that's noticed first. People often wonder if I'm Spanish. Considering I'm Filipino there is some truth to that but I associate myself with being an asian/pacific islander person.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Five People You Meet in Heaven.
The Alchemist.
Battle Royale.
The Unbearable Lightness of Being.
The History of Love.
Never Let Me Go.
The Fault in Our Stars.
His Dark Materials trilogy.
The Dark is Rising Series.
Harry Potter Series.
Goodnight Moon (a childhood favorite)

Once Upon a Time.
Doctor Who.
Marvel's Agents of SHIELD.
I like educational tv be it on Animal Planet, Discovery, Food Network etc.

My taste in music on a given day is dependen on mood but I am a fan of jazz and classical music.

The following are movies I could watch over and over:
Clue (horribly good)
Kill Bill (1&2)
The Devil Wears Prada
Singing in the Rain
500 Days of Summer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My optimism.
My family
My friends
My journals (I have several)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the inevitability of death and if I am capitalizing on every moment .

But on a lighter note, I think about how I can help improve myself so I can be better suited to help those I care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'll most likely be reading or writing.
More inclined to be at home hosting a game night if not exploring the city.
I'm not opposed to going out with friends though not particularly a fan of bars.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I may be the worst guy who likes guys in admitting this but I'm not a big fan of Mean Girls. Perhaps it's because I haven't seen it fully in one sitting. I've seen it in parts over a long period of time.
You should message me if
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You are looking to go on dates.
You are looking forward to an eventual LTR.
If you're looking for friends to go explore the city with. I'm always up to try a new restaurant.