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Pasticca

49 / F / Straight / Married

Neenah, Wisconsin

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I am eccentric, clairvoyant, and spontaneous.

My Self-Summary

I love the way that they put "seeing someone" on here when you specified that you are married. I am very married. I have a wonderful husband, great children, great friends, and a happy life.

I'm a clairvoyant medium, meaning that since childhood I have been able to sense things about people and even see and hear people that have passed on. This gift has helped many people that have lost loved ones to reconnect and give them a sense of peace over their loss. It's really not anything I do, it's who I am.

I also love to paint, write, and play and sing music. About 200 years or so ago I even sang with a band. Now I occassionally will hit a karaoke bar, only I really hate cigarette smoke and it kills the vocal chords.

Religously I am what is considered to be a Pagan. I am honestly a traditionalist and practice meditation, magick, and walking a spiritual path. I do not judge others on their choice of religion or lifestyle as each of is meant to walk our own path. We should be here to support one another, not to hurt or push each other down.

What I’m doing with my life

I've started a website called thepsychickey.com. I'm also teaching a couple of my children at home with the assitance of a virtual school. I have an idea for a new painting and should soon have the time to actually start it.

I’m really good at

Driving people crazy. It's a gift, really.

The first things people usually notice about me

People notice me? Wow. I never actually entertained this concept. It must be either my sparkling personality or the fact that I am perpetually on the go. Although I do seem to get lost a lot and they might be looking at me as I'm driving through a golf course or down a beaten path that leads into a field of crops or perhaps dead ends into a tree.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am an avid reader. I seriously enjoy reading the new age fiction, at least those that haven't sold out to making them into hard porn novels. I get my sex in real life and don't need blow by blow plays on paper. I also enjoy a good mystery novel. I'm definitely not into romance novels and such.

I enjoy a good horror movie. I'm sure many people know that a good horror movie is one that scares you without making you want to throw up because of the blood and gore. You can scare people without depicting characters getting axed to death. I also love movies that just have a good story and plot behind them. The ones that make you go "wow" at the end.

I seriously love music. I'm not a rap fan by any means.

Food is a good thing. I love to cook and experiment with different ideas I have. I'm not a raw meat kinda gal, though I do like a steak medium rare.

The six things I could never do without

Now this is definitely a sappy question. It's much easier to write down the six things you'd rather do without.

First, I guess I couldn't live without a heart beat.
Secondly, I really do need my brain.
Then of course we can't live without sustenance, and this of course leads to a wide range of things such as human connection, etc. which means I've already gone over my limit of things.

Wow. I failed a survival test. Go figure.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think about all kinds of things. The secret is to not dwell on things that you can't change and worry about them. Worrying about things does not magically give you answers it only gives you ulcers.

Saying this, I'm a big fan of meditation where you can clear your mind and actually not think much at all for a short time.

On a typical Friday night I am

Going out with my top guy, my husband. Or we snuggle on the couch surrounded by little furry things that also like to snuggle. The furry things include a german shepherd (who is actually not so little), a toy fox terrier, and a schnoodle. They are part of our family.

We may also take some time to go out with the kids and spend family time. This may even be a time where we stay home and play a family game such as Munchkins.

Then there is the occassional Friday night I go out with my best friend, Brenda, and play bingo or go to the casino.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Don't ever ask me a question unless you really want to know the answer.

You should message me if

You are a very brave soul that thinks we can be friends, would be interested in having a psychic reading, or perhaps, being on this site, want information on a love spell...lol. Honestly, I just like people. So, if you feel inclined you are welcome to send me a line. BUT... if you are looking for online sex, voyeurism-ing, or someoen to liven up your sex life... try someone else. I'm totally not interested.