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Pat_Mpls

40 M Minneapolis, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:18pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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When I first moved to the Minneapolis area, it wasn't clear how long the stay would be, so dating was kind of put on the back burner. A few years ago it became official that Minneapolis would be my home, and since then, I've been gradually getting back into the dating field. It's not easy, but my experiences here have demonstrated that frank communication seems to win me over. I don't mind if you're polite--just make sure what comes out of your mouth is your truth and not what you think I want to hear. I value honesty in communication--I think it's the foundation of trust and integrity to any relationship.

I am smart, sensitive, and honest
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional working in downtown Minneapolis. as a psychologist. It's not as strange as you might think--in some ways it's much stranger. Nevertheless, I feel truly privileged to have found my passion in the work domain.

In my free time, I tend to opt for activities that are a bit more light-hearted, such as movies, games, and video games. I have a gaming group that I hang out with weekly to be able to explore fully my geek/nerd tendencies. I frequently play piano (studied it in college somewhat) and have been increasing my involvement with exercise (light yoga, tai chi, strength/toning work).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sensing another's needs and speaking my mind. I'm also quite willing to be wrong, despite the fervor with which I can argue my position at times.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have shy tendencies, which tend to be relevant only initially upon meeting someone. Some might chalk it up to being aloof, but my kind heart says otherwise.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: I tend to enjoy a broad range of movies, but quirky tends to stick with me. Clue is a perennial favorite--Amilee has a special place in my heart. Anything Joss Whedon does is pretty much an automatic "in," (long-time Buffy fan, loved Avengers, was upset when he dropped the Wonder Woman movie plans). Right now I'm binging on Battlestar Galactica, the 2005 series, and rewatching episodes of RuPaul's Drag Race.
Food: I tend to have a knack for breads as I don't really have to watch my weight (carbs ahoy!).
Reading: Going through grad school soured my willingness to read for pleasure. Anything that gives a greater sense of spirituality and wonder for life, though, breaks through the resistance ("The Four Agreements," "The Mastery of Love," "Winning through Enlightenment," and stuff by Ken Wilber, Carolin Myss).
Music: I'm weird. Most of the music I listen to is the stuff I play, which is either classical piano (Beethoven, Brahms, Rachmaninoff) or something that I make up, which I like to call "music doodles." Otherwise, I can appreciate good, strong vocals from folks like Chirstina Aguilera, Annie Lennox, and Lady Gaga.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, Hope, Kindness, Integrity, Safety, and Honesty (capitalizing the words seemed fitting)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
just about anything--I'm pretty cerebral. I also really like the notion of taking thoughts less literally, which I've found to be an art form.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having fun with friends, either staying in or gathering for happy hour.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In contrast to my professional life, which is all about keeping information confidential, I don't carry personal secrets in my private life.
You should message me if
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