Here’s list of random things would make me delighted… If:
- you give a courtesy wave when someone on the road lets you in front of them, and you let others in as well.
- You default to an optimist perspective
- Bad boys and chemical dependencies are of no interest to you
- You’re emotionally available, not Aspergery
- You’re more a dog person than a cat person.
- You're smart. And I mean nerdy, whether or not you’re in a profession that utilizies it.
- You’re not overweight. And that really means skinny. And you don’t hate me for just verbalizing my preference.
- Work in a creative field. Something that when someone says “what do you do,” they say “woa, that’s cool.” Sorry accountants, it’s just really a tough catalyst for conversation.
- You financially responsible.
- Given the choice between Joshua Tree and Vegas, you’d say “are you kidding, who the fuck would want to go to Vegas?”
- You deal with your baggage (we all have it) in a healthy way.
- You think nights in >= than nights out. And you know what >= means, and how it would be written by hand.
- You were indifference towards sports, but acceptance that I occasionally may watch them
Okay so I if I have to do self summary, I'll keep it short so we have more to find out about each other.
I design and make furniture (check it out if you'd like at: IG: @patrickcaindesigns). I write for magazines occasionally and fancy myself as a great Air BnB host.
I value empathy, honesty and truthfulness above all else. I'd argue Bubble Bobble was the best Nintendo 8 bit game. I'm a sucker for big eyes, big hair and bigger brains. I have not given up on meeting my perfect match at a farmers market, but I don't go to enough farmer's markets.
movies/tv shows: Bojack, Friday Night Lights, The Wire, Arrested Development, Last Week Tonight with Jon Oliver, Bojack Horseman
radio: This American Life, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, Splendid Table/ Good Food (are you getting a picture of what my weekend mornings are like yet?), Serial
music: The National, Tallest Man On Earth, Daughter, Lord Huron, The Mountain Goats, Destroyer, Yeasayer, the XX, Arcade Fire, Al Green, Neutral Milk Hotel, Hush Hush, If you like U2, I will hold it against you.
food: Bulan, Sage, breakfast burritos, VegeUSA, Native Foods, Yogurt Land, Sage, Elf
2. Li ion 20v Dewalt kit.
3. upstate new york apples & honeycrisp apples from anywhere.
4. upright citizens brigade.
6. non fat, unsweetened greek yogurt.
My Oh-no-no list.
i'm 4+ years out of a divorce. if that bothers you, i'm not for you.
... you'd rather find a relationship than a fling. But if a fling is what it is, then just let me know upfront, it's okay.
... you have more to say than "hey." yea, you don't like it when guys are that lame, so don't you do it too. Happens more than you think...
... your self description doesn't not reads that you like to: have fun, be spontaneous and laugh. Thanks for the massive insight, ma'am.
.. you're disease free