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39 / M / Straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
You could call me the accidental carpenter. I was always a smart
kid but a bad student. Halfway through college, I figured out that
I could turn my liberal arts education into a vocational program on
how to build scenery. After school, I moved to NYC because that's
where the work is, and except for a few short stays in D.C. and Chicago, here I still am. Nothing was planned, but everything seems to be working out.
What I’m doing with my life
working with Spiderman eight times a week on Broadway
reading more
watching less
yoga and climbing
Saturday morning NYT/coffee/premiership soccer
Sunday morning museum/brunch (Whitney=done, any suggestions?)
afternoons in the park
hanging with family/friends
daydreaming about the next trip to take
fixing up my fixer-upper
I’m really good at
welding, procrastinating, carpentry, reading, armchair politicking, making cheese-on-toast, believing Obama isn't going to fuck it up.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't know, maybe that I look like the rugged yet sensitive love-child of Matthew Broderick and Ira Glass.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite authors include Gore Vidal and Patrick O'Brian. The first show I ever saw was AC/DC, the first CD I ever bought was De La Soul is Dead, but for me it all comes back to The Clash. Recent favorites include The Men, Tegan & Sara, Jamey Johnson, and the new Ghostface/Adrian Younge, which is awesome. I would like to have more K-pop in my life. I'm on a small-scale Bollywood kick lately. When I saw Strictly Ballroom, I thought that it was the most beautiful movie I had ever seen. I want to see Who's Afraid of Virginia Wolff. J'adore both Lehrer(s), Jim and Brian, and the Planet Money team; just got their kickstarter t-shirt! My favorite TV show ever was The Wire, but Mash, Magnum PI, Robotech, and the Muppets were all formative influences on me.

Also, anyone want to talk to about the Fugazi live music archive? Because that would be awesome.
The six things I could never do without
How about the 6 best gifts I ever got? 1) Millenium Falcon
Toy 2) Festool Circular Saw 3) Starret Combination Square
4) A new Carharrt jacket (I really needed one at the time) 5) The $50 bill my uncle gave me for graduation (probably b/c it was so unexpected) 6) socks, really great socks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've spent too much time thinking about this question, no doubt. The news, I guess. Oh, and the ever-growing pile of New Yorkers on the coffee table.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I got kicked out of college. It's a good story, really, sort of a coming-of-age tale. It follows a pretty typical arc: hubris>tragic fall>redemption>ironic twist.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message away if you are any combination of the following:
smart, funny, sexy, cute, sarcastic, confident, strong, GGG, open,
liberal, tolerant, active, willing to share the driving, cares
about the world we live in.

Note: Carrie Bradshaw isn't really my type. Someone who is as comfortable in chuck taylors/hiking boots as she is in heels is more my speed. I'll also admit to a minor fetish for women in glasses. I don't think that makes me a bad person, and I like to think that I'm open-minded about the whole glasses/no glasses thing.

I have a gauzy idea of what I might like my life to be like someday: sort of a Brooklyn version of a Norman Rockwell/Dan Savage/Maya Rudolph mash-up. Someday, but not tomorrow.