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PattyJJ

64 / F / straight / Single

Portland, Oregon

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Easy Going, Loving, and Inquisitive.

My Self-Summary

Hi!
My life has taken many roads, some planned and some unplanned, but influencing who I am today. I love my life. I am happy, healthy and look forward to what each day brings. But, deep down inside I am missing that male wisdom/companionship. You will find me honest (I am an open book), intelligent, easy going, grounded, spontaneous, compassionate, inquisitive, loving and full of surprises! I have a sense of humor and can laugh at myself.

What I’m doing with my life

- enjoying every day!!! Now that I am retired every day is a new day! I have a "bucket list" - it is fun to think about and decide what to do next. Of course, some things would be more fun to do with a "partner in crime".

The simple pleasures of life give me great joy. I love having the time to "smell the roses", enjoy a glass of wine while watching the sun set, listening to Mother Nature's voices, holding hands, long kisses.....

I belong to an NGO that supports women and children in crises. I am fortunate that I have all my needs met and was born in the US - there are many who have not been so fortunate.

I enjoy keeping my mind and body active.

I’m really good at

I am really good at making people feeling at ease and comfortable. Good at many things but a master of few. Enjoy cooking and having friends over - try to keep it simple and healthy with a decadent dessert.

The first things people usually notice about me

Well - probably my smile and easy going nature. Maybe it is a warm hand shake or better yet a hug!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Enjoy a variety of books, movies, music and food.

Books: Authors Jane Kirkpatrick, James Patterson. Three Cups of Tea, Mutant Message Down Under, Land of a Thousand Suns, historical non-fiction, fiction - anything recommended by friends.

Movies: Too many to mention - enjoy comedies, documentaries, mystery, drama - having raised a son I have certainly been introduced to "guy flicks".

Music: I thrive on music - it does set the mood! Enjoy most every thing except rap and hard rock. Enjoy live concerts in small venues. Have you heard of the Trail Band.

Food: Not crazy about anchovies - other than that I am game!

The six things I could never do without

My friends & family - especially my son.
My healthy mind and body.
Optimism
To love and be loved.
Compassion
The usual life sustaining substances

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My blessings in life, what the future will hold for my son and his family AND the man that will complete my life.

On a typical Friday night I am

Many options - at home with friends or enjoying a quite evening by myself. Meeting friend/friends for a quiet dinner and/or movie. On a summer evening - sitting on the deck with a glass of wine enjoying the quite of the night.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nothing private admitted here!!!!

You should message me if

You are a man who is honest, compassionate, has a sense of humor, easy going, values family and friends, and thinks I might be interesting to meet and possibly get to know.