OK am I the only one here who has difficulty writing about myself and finds dating around,especially 1st encounter with someone I've never laid eyes on - comparable to a root canal. If ur scanning ahead for key phrases like "love to cook" or "Goddess in the kitchen," come on back ur not going to find them. But, seriously I'm out here for same on most others are. Too busy and won't go trolling the bars searching for Mr. Right, but not willing to settle for Mr. Right now. OK since we're all visual- I'm tall, redheaded, brn eyes, in very good shape, told I'm pretty darn cute and my girlfriends say I'm striking. Now about the more important stuff. I'm kind, smart, funny, independent, honest, loyal, compassionate, happy, positive and RELATIVELY low maintenance. Can get ready for many things in 15 min - 3-4 hrs of getting ready is not for me. I exercise daily just cause it makes me feel great & eat very healthy- tho not fanatic. I walk daily, kick box, Zumba, Latin Dance, ride my new bicycle, shoot hoops or whatever. Love the outdoors. Adore animals soft spot for all strays (animal & human). LOVE beach, massages, movies, cookouts at pool (u cook, I'll eat:-), romantic restaurant, hot dog/beer @ the game. And love just staying home.

I am well rounded, and a Christian. Want to fill life with love (as giver & taker) and just have a peaceful non dramatic life. Have done the 80/20 relationship. Now will settle for no less than 50\50. I want someone I can love, support, respect, and do everything in my power to bring u joy, but, guess what-I expect the same from u. I'm a sexy girly girl, but not afraid of getting dirty. Do my own yard, know tons about fixing stuff, have painted inside of house many times and even have my own power saw and electric screwdriver. I am the one in neighborhood that all my girl neighbors depend on to figure stuff out and fix what's broken. Most important about u is that u make me laugh and have some of the dry, sarcastic type personality I have (sarcasm not used to hurt-just to laugh). If you have it u know what I'm talking about. And of course u have to be really cute to me (not gorgeous pretty boy type tho), be kind, stable, have a really good job, not a player, play well with others, happy, little emotional baggage, love my family, dogs, friends. Very important is that we have similar character, belief system. And can't say enough about chemistry. It's either there or not. And it HAS to be there for me.

Lots of stuff but, on dating website to fulfill part (probably the only part) that's missing - Mr. Right, as I won't settle for Mr. Almost Right or Mr. You'll Just Have to Do for Now.

Counseling, fixing stuff - I'm the handyman among my girlfriends - can paint, build, repair tho I'm told I look too girly to do that stuff - recently put in a beautiful backsplash in my kitchen after watching a how to video from Home Depot, laughing and making others laugh, getting people to talk - I can get anyone to tell me anything. Sometimes I'm told stuff I didn't really need to know - stems from the therapist in me, good at making people feel valued.

My height, hair color(s), eyes, smile and sort of off the wall (maybe sarcastic in a funny way) personality

When Harry Met Sally, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, The Jersey Boys, Nora Jones, Adele, hot Blake Shelton and his commitment to his wife, I crave a good salad equally to a good steak, bluesy music, the saxophone, The Voice, Revenge, Modern Family, obsessed with books - read every thing from biographies to the Stephanie Plum series and my favorite The Mitford Series. Best songs ever - When a Man Loves a Woman, Halleuah, and Unchained Melody

God, my sisters, my puppies, books, my girlfriends, daily walk/run 2-3 miles, laughing, bantering with people, Sonic drink/ice, the beach, and could do without, but prefer not to - my girlie martini's, and last, but NOT least, a great man in my life forever

Finding Mr. Right, how can I get someone to clean my house and cook for me so I can spend my time outdoors where I belong, expanding my business into Coaching, where did I leave my keys, why the slow people don't get in the other lane thus eliminating my need to run over them - of course I mean that in the nicest way:-)

Would like to be cuddled up on couch with great guy and pups watching a movie - but prob be doing that right now minus great guy since he hasn't shown up yet. Or over at neighbor (best friend's) house having girlie martini.

Really? I'm gonna just put that out there?. Don't think so:-)

You know if u are these things. If your not, please pass me by. Control freaks, those in need of anger management, nut cases, those who are not divorced, and those living with mama or the "X," do not apply. And as of the last guy (and by the way the first one I met on here), if u are still hung up on the "X" girlfriend or wife please -I promise u I don't want to meet you. I don't date just to go out. I don't especially need someone. But, WANT someone. Oh I forgot, I love a really good girlie martini! I have two careers. I do accounting/property mgmt part of week for a company that has many properties as well as race horses, etc. I also am a therapist. I have my own small practice and counsel mostly women. Is very rewarding. I DON'T RESPOND to views or anything else if no pic or profile. I think most on here feel the same way. You're not married, "legally" separated (WTH does that mean), just out of a long term relationship u just can't quite get over so need my counseling skills, recently parolled, don't have a real job, have anger issues, still living with mama or xwife/girlfriend:-).