Vanilla
Recently I took a personality test, was not really sure what I expected from it, but the results were interesting:

Director - 27% of your personality
Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.

Builder - 25% of your personality
Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.

Explorer - 24% of your personality
Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.

Negotiator - 24% of your personality
Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing.

Seems accurate, and a pretty good mix. In addition I am also a typical alpha male, a natural born leader that enjoys being in control, but I do strive for balance overall: strong but sweet; intelligent yet not too serious all the time; reasonably athletic/healthy but not obsessed; patient but not passive; successful yet appreciates work/life balance; optimistic yet realistic; a good blend of humor and intelligence.

Additionally I have a softer side as I am romantic enough to believe in love, cuddling, long walks and holding hands. Some of my passions include reading, movies, impressionist paintings and cooking. I am interested in eating healthier and staying active. Fair to say I like being around children and dogs, and that I enjoy learning new things, with a positive outlook on life. I live my life with honor and integrity, love to laugh and know who I am and what I am about. Also, I deeply value honesty and loyalty.

The Darker Side
Additionally I am a Dominant Male and among other things I can and want to be my submissive's or slave's Master, Owner, Daddy, Mentor, Trainer, Protector, Champion, Teacher, Companion, Best Friend, and Disciplinarian.

My Ideal Person:
I will train her to be my collared submissive or to become my collared slave in a D/s relationship. I will tell her what to do, what to wear, what to eat. She will obey and serve. She will be trained and punished when she deserves it as I see fit with few limits. She will be trained as a domestic servant, a sex slave, a pain slut or anything else I need or want her to be.

Realistically: There are very few submissives ready for that level of intensity from the beginning. So for any prospective submissives how our relationship together will progress will be as follows: I will respect your limits and look forward to training you with a gentle yet firm hand. You have my promise that I will do my best to be the Dominant man that you can respect and willingly give yourself to; mind, body and soul.

Once your trust grows and you are ready, we will explore your limits and push them to test your devotion and ability to submit and obey. You will learn with experience to trust that I will respect your level of submission and allow your input and feedback on how things progress in our relationship. However, that being said, you will not top from the bottom.

While willing to consider a casual relationship, I am ultimately looking for a long term 24/7 Total Power Exchange real time relationship with a submissive or slave partner. I am serious and expect you to be the same. I value intelligence, commitment, common sense, energy, a sense of humor, honesty, truthfulness, loyalty and you must not be married or attached.

In conclusion, I am a safe, sane, caring, understanding and experienced Dominant that respects a submissive's limits, but is willing to explore what those limits are. If you can handle a strict, compassionate Dominant, I can give you what you need and take you places you have only dreamed of.

Working and making a living, while living the adventure and chasing my dreams...improving myself and becoming the best possible person that I can become. I consider myself an artwork in progress that will hopefully become a masterpiece one day.

Being a Dominant. I'm a great listener and really good at giving helpful insights into trust and past relationship issues. Nonjudgmental, I give personal, helpful answers.

My size, I am 6'4" with the body of a football linebacker...My eyes and my large hands which have been called amazing....

Books: Too many to list; besides The Story of O, and the Beauty series, I like a lot of fantasy, sci-fi, historical, mythology, nonfiction, fiction, etc. C.S. Lewis is probably one of my favorite authors. Otherwise I read whatever happens to catch my attention.

Movies: LOTR, The Chronicles of Narnia, The Quiet Man, Casablanca, The Magnificent Seven, Pride & Prejudice, Howl's Moving Castle, lots & lots... mainly fantasy/historical/adventure type stuff. Mainly I like movies with decent character and plot. I don't really care for many horror flicks, though there are always exceptions.

Music: Billy Joel and Bruce Springsteen are probably my favorites. Types of Music...by process of elimination; I can go for just about anything oldies to classical except for rap and depressing sad or cry in your beer country music or any other musical offerings that are or should be offensive to humankind. Repetitiveness is annoying as well. Most music that has lyrics you can understand and want to sing is fine with me.

Food: Mediterranean, Greek, and Italian are my favorites, but I like trying different kinds of food, but I am not very fond of Tex-Mex. I do try to eat healthy most of the time.

Self-improvement,
Good conversation,
Physical touch,
A sense of humor,
Adventure/Travel,
Reading/Books

Life. Relationships. How to do better next time. Working out. Studying. Trust and Power Exchange.

I don't have a typical Friday night...every day is a new adventure.

Sexually, I am a Straight, Dominant Male.

If you are:
a straight submissive woman,
or a bisexual submissive woman,
or a bisexual switch woman (wishing to dominate other females),
or an inexperienced female that lives to serve a Dominant male and wants to explore and expand her BDSM horizons...Contact me to be considered.
Not seeking any drama, BSers or online games.