Where to start? Well, I'm looking for a new best friend. A best friend who also happens to be the love of my life (is that so much to ask?). I am a very silly, playful and affectionate person and really need you to be the same for us to be a good match. I like walking hand in hand and I don’t resist public displays of affection (I’m talking cuddling, sweet kisses, hugging, NOT full on make out sessions you understand). I love to laugh and I really love to make the woman I’m dating laugh. I'm not looking for a casual hook up. I've never had a one night stand or a casual sexual encounter and I have no interest in changing that. I don't even kiss on the first date (and I LOVE to kiss, just not with someone I barely know). I'm old school when it comes to matters of the heart. One of the last remaining die-hard romantics. I value honesty and I won't play games with you. I hope you will show me the same courtesy. I’ve never cheated on anyone. Not even with a kiss. To me you're either the faithful kind or you’re not. There is no gray area. If you’ve never been monogamous in a relationship then I would really prefer it if you didn’t contact me. I really don’t want to be your first attempt at it.
I’m adventurous but not so much that I have to be out every weekend hiking some new trail, or climbing some mountain, or rafting down some river, or running some marathon, etc. Those things can be fun and everything but I might also prefer to just park my butt on the couch and catch up on episodes of Sherlock or have some friends over to play some board games. I love Portland. But I must admit I have not taken advantage of all this great city/state has to offer. I'd like to change that. Preferably with the right partner. Let's explore the various shops on SE Hawthorne or N Alberta (two of my fav areas). Let's get lost in Powell's. Let's try every locally owned restaurant we can find. Let's visit every art gallery. Let's go to the coast in the winter. Let's hunt down every park in the city (and have a picnic in each). Let's go see a band we aren't familiar with play at one of the many smaller venues in town (Crystal Ballroom, Wonder Ballroom, Edgefield, Roseland, etc). Let's agree to always try and wait to see a movie until it comes to the Bagdad or the Mission or St. John's or any of the many other Cinema Pubs in the area. Let's make this city "our's".
Ok, if your idea of a good time is hitting the clubs and getting drunk out of your mind every Fri night, you should probably stop reading now and move on to the next profile. I loathe clubs (and most loud, crowded places) and although I enjoy imbibing from time to time (especially with the incredible variety of beers this city offers), I don’t enjoy being “drunk” nor do I enjoy being around those who are.
Some additional info about me:
I was raised Christian but am no longer a worshiper of gods. I guess you could label me an Atheist but I hate how that label suggests that I think I have all the answers. I do not. In fact it is my abundance of questions that led me to my Atheism. Please DO NOT agree to start a relationship with me if you think you can "save" me and get me to worship your god. I am not lost and I will never again be part of any organized religion. Period.
I am not a fan of watching over-paid, self indulgent, doped up, A-holes run around competing in their various sports. No Monday Night Football for me. No Soccer. No Baseball. No Hockey. Unfortunately, as someone who lives in Portland, I seem incapable of NOT being a Blazer fan. So, yes, I hang my head in shame and admit that they are the exception. GO BLAZERS!
I guess you could say I’m the creative type. I enjoy painting, composing music, working on my novel, you know, pretty much what every single other Portlander does. I dream about making a living doing one or all of these activities one day (don’t we all) but for now that will remain a dream.
Finally, a personal failing. I’m sorry, but I just can’t be with someone who is “Curvy” or “full figured”. I feel like a jerk for saying it but it’s just the shameful truth (and I am ashamed of this shallow part of myself). I prefer a thin girl with an A-Cup vs. a big girl with a C-Cup. I'm not proud of this, it's just the way I’m wired.
One last thing: if you are opposed to equal rights for gays, please don't bother contacting me.
Am I a "catch"? I don't know. But I promise I am worth the wait.