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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 22
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a transplant from the south-east coast who moved to Chicago during college. I am looking for a partner in crime with a sense of adventure, a sense of humor, who can be empathetic and kind while not being very PC. I appreciate talkers and chatty kathys (cathys?) as long as you can be a good listener, too. I am looking for someone to go out with AND come home to.

A little about me, my interests include:
I like spending time by the Lake or other Chicago Parks (when it's not cold), karaoke, movieokie, trying new places and cuisines to eat, going to see: improv/standup comedy, poetry slams, MeetUps with people with similar interests. I have tried many activities a few times but won't just list them all here to falsely impress, but I am up for trying or repeating many experiences with someone new.

One of my biggest passions is for cleverness expressed thru art AND everyday things. And there's no substitute for experiences!

Why don’t we get together for a coffee or drinks—something low-key and see how things go from there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently freelancing as a graphic artist, I'm also exploring options in social media marketing, and podcasting.

Spending time exploring new interests, taking classes, exercising, soaking up the unique events Chicago has to offer (local music, galleries Improv and stand-up).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words, phrases AND clauses! Listening........

Hmmmm? Oh, just making sure you got a chance to say something! I'm a decent cook, trying to get better. Public speaking, singing / karaoke, improv (all I can do, even sober).

Showing affection appropriate and otherwise ; )

Finding the FUN in most situations

Being decisive and coming up with plans of action (the exception is ordering off a menu... a story for another time)!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you when I get my feedback cards back!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite Music:
John Legend, M.I.A., Bauhaus, Mighty Blue Kings, Bob and Ziggy Marley, the Eagles, Prodigy, Zero 7, Natasha Beddingfield, Amy Winehouse, the Gorillas, Talking Heads, Jamiriquois, Santana, the Cure, NIN, Rolling Stones, U2, Erykah Badu, Led Zeppelin, Jay-Z, Ludacris, Beastie Boys, No Doubt, Prodigy, Talking Heads, Prince, Third Eye Blind, Depeche Mode

Favorite TV Shows:
It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Shameless, Being Human, Big Bang Theory, Colbert Report, the Daily Show, Attack of the Show, Inside the Actor's Studio, Battlestar Galactica, Real Time with Bill Maher, Dr. Who, Torchwood, House, the Walking Dead, Mad Men, Family Guy, Fringe, 30 Rock, Spartacus, , House Hunters International,Rachel Madow, Mythbusters,

Favorite Movies:
Cabin In the Woods, American Beauty, Memento, Fight Club, Blade Runner, Untouchables, the Hangover, Little Miss Sunshine, Seven, 12 Monkeys, Reservoir Dogs, Kill Bill 1 & 2, El Mariachi, Apocalypse Now, Forgetting Sarah Marshall, Knocked Up, Napoleon Dynamite, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind, Time Bandits, Clock Work Orange

Favorite Books:Survivor / Choke / Lullaby all by Chuck Palahniuk, Libra / White Noise, both by Don DeLillo, The Areas of My Expertise by John Hodgeman, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Don Adams, Slaughterhouse 5 by Kurt Vonnegut, the Audacity of Hope by Barack Obama
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My dogs ( 2, a pug and a shihtzu )

2) Friends/Family

3) Great & diverse food (yep, a foodie, but I try to work off
the damage!)

4) Exercise

5) Creative Outlet

6) Passion/Affection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
• What's going on in Chicago in the next month.

• What my dogs are thinking.

• The last 3 things I said or did that made someone laugh hoping
at least 1 of the 3 was on purpose....

•, GTD and other ways to make the mundane parts of living my life easier or less time consuming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes out with friends for dinner and...whatever. If exhausted from work, classes or Thursday night karaoke you'll find me chilling at home with a book, watching recorded tv or podcasts.

Ok, that isn't very specific, but I'm reinventing my life so I'm doing a bit of everything!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, I'm willing to admit there ARE private things I COULD admit to and that's it till we meet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
A) Have a sense of humor (if you can make me laugh, you're at
least 50% a winner!)
B) At least LIKE dogs
C) Are ready or open to a long-term relationship
D) Like my profile AND pics....they're both current ; )
E) If friends call you a talker