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Paul_Buchman

43 Los Angeles, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So there I am, huddled around the fire with my best friend and our Captain. Tired, bruised and bleeding, our wounds seem to be small problems compared to the potential terrors we hear all around us in the jungle night. Knowing that our enemies may be lurking nearby in the shadows, hoping that our distress call was heard by the nearest regiment, we pray for a rescue that may never come. Looking to the heavens, we can just barely make out the ruins of our space station in decaying orbit above us... Until the director yells “Cut!”

Yeah, we were just on a giant green screen stage, but the emotions were real. I high five my crewmates before we proceed to the next set – the engine room from Joss Whedon’s short lived TV show Firefly. My first month in Hollywood and I’m already living the dream.

I wish I could say I have a typical day, or even week, but every day is different and I wouldn’t have it any other way. No boss to answer to, a different combination of old and new friends, and heart for challenges lead me to new adventures in acting, writing, and my overall passion – storytelling. Even those days where I’m just sitting at my computer, there are always new worlds to create and explore, and I love knowing I’m changing hearts and touching lives.

Then there’s my evenings – seeing a movie with a few close friends, inventing scenes and hilarious situations from a simple suggestion in Improv, exploring untold emotional depths with another skilled, passionate acting partner, crashing karaoke jams with my awesomely incredible fellow performers, exploring the depths of the Bible and personal interactions with like-minded Christ-followers, and pulling off to the side of the road to enjoy the ever-present, but still breathtaking Los Angeles skyline, mountains and all. Knowing each mountain is there waiting for me to scale its heights.

As for the kind of woman I find attractive… she's young at heart if not in age, she’s got a down-to-earth attitude and knows how to get the most out of life, every day. She loves Christ, is active, mentally, spiritually and physically, enjoys the outdoors, a good hearty laugh, and a good meal. She takes care of herself, and while she doesn’t need a man to be complete, she enjoys being taken care of by a man who knows how to spoil her.

Fair Warning: if you’re conversational topic don’t get very far past the latest that the Kardashians or the Bachelor are up to, we’re probably not the best match. If, on the other hand, you know what you want, and aren’t afraid of having a ton of fun and laughter while going after it, send me a message and let’s chat…
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, Writing, Acting, Loving with all my heart, Daydreaming... I mean creatively planning the future!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jesus
Food
Laptop
Music
Books
Movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what comes next in the stories I'm writing. My own as well as my characters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know this will limit the number of women interested in me, oddly enough, but... I do not believe in having sex outside of marriage. In the past, I was not perfect in this regard, but I was convicted about it about 3 years ago, and I'm nothing if not resolute.