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40 Brighton, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 12, 2013
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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Slightly introverted, think-to-much character, but who also enjoys socialising, dancing and general carousing.

I like having access to culture, people and good pubs. But I also love the countryside, which means I try to get out into it as often as I can on foot or on bicycle.

The most me-typical days (i.e. not a typical day for me, but ones that say the most about me) I've had in the last few months are:

- Visiting a friend, catching a vintage steam-train to a village in the morning, then spending the afternoon walking back from the village along a canal path. And in the evening going to watch some stand-up comedy, followed by a couple of real ales in a gas-lit pub.

- Cycling round country roads in Norfolk, stopping at a country pub for sandwiches and pint of beer for lunch. Then walking to another pub by the river in the evening.

- Working on my music during the day, then going out to an alternative 80's club in the evening.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love music and my main hobby is writing and recording songs. Currently nearing the completion of my multi-metaphorical death-of-a-love-affair/Iraq War/death-of-pop-music mini-concept album. It sounds variously like Belle & Sebastian crossed with Abba and Abba crossed with Depeche Mode (I hope).
I’m really good at
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Explaining things.
Writing songs.
Map-reading / route-planning.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile. Mutton-chops.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like books that are about ideas and have no excess fat. Favourite authors: George Orwell, Franz Kafka (especially his short stories), Milan Kundera, Louise Welsh, Haruki Murakami, Goethe, Voltaire.

I love music and like lots of different things, but to avoid a long tedious list, here is a short tedious list:

Belle & Sebastian
Morrissey / The Smiths
Kate Bush
Antonio Carlos Jobim
Jonathan Richman

I don't watch much TV, but I have one and am not philosophically opposed to it. Recently, I liked Count Arthur Strong and am looking forward to the new Sherlock.

Films: Together, Let The Right One In, The Wicker Man, quite a lot of late 80s/early 90s European cinema (e.g. Manon Des Sources, Toto The Hero, Monsieur Hire, The Vanishing). Most stuff by Guy Maddin (Canadian director who uses old-fashioned camera lens and film so his films look weirdly blurry and whose story lines are usually melodramatic - the effect being very dream-like).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The countryside/trees/plants/songbirds etc.
Some form of creative & expressive project.
Moving around (on foot, bicycle etc.).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Moving somewhere cheaper and with more trees.
What's wrong way the world is run (but this is depressing, so I am trying to stop).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing board games or verbal sparring with friends.

Listening to Desmond Carrington followed by Friday Night Is Music Night on Radio 2 while making plans.

Both of the above accompanied by beer or wine.
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