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40 Hayward, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 16, 2013
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am extremely creative, at times a bit flighty or ditzy, almost always funny. I can see the positive in any situation. i believe a world without music is as dull as a world without color. I can dress up for a night on the town or sophisticated parties as easily as I can camp where there is no running water. I'm a redneck at heart with a deep love for animals, a vegetarian I AM NOT. I want to find someone who is adaptable and accepting, loving and strong.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a seriously single parent (no baby daddy drama) who works full time. While finding a partner is important to myself for obvious reasons, I believe its important to teach my daughter what a healthy relationship is. My daughter has made me much more particular in who I date.

I am rebuilding my career after moving back to the area and staying home for 9 months as 'mommy'. I can be a work-a-holic and am struggling with balance. I believe every experience is a lesson and as long as you walked away with more than you started with, learning is always a positive, therefore every negative is a positive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Inspiring others. Hair. I'm good at hair and great at transfering the love of it to others. I'm good at training dogs, though this is the first time in fifteen years I have been with out one....still mending a broken heart over that.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes. Which in my opinion aren't all that, but apparantly people aren't used to eye contact and I find this an important means to communication. If I am laughing it can be infectious to those around me, hideous to those not in on the joke. I get dirty looks from my all out laugh, which I attempt to contain in said the "first" things people notice, it didn't say it had to be a good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Madonna, Katy Perry, Keith Urban, Bob Marley, Sixousie and the Banshees, Kid Rock, Juice Newton, Olivia Newton John, Mac Davis, Kanye West, Biz Marky, Eminem, Wu Tang Clan, Tu Pac, Kanye West, Berlin, Jon Bon Jovi, Commodores, Journey, Kenny Rodgers, Dolly Parton, Black Eyed Peas, Cher, Cowboy Troy, Garth Brooks, Cure, Enya, Enigma (basically anything but death metal and hard core rap or songs about killing people, except for Johny Cash who never actually killed anyone) Ok, so....anything that tells a story or gets me moving. I am a product of the 80's and Madonna inspired me to leave home at sixteen, the best choice in my life to date. I have a deep love for the seventies singer song writers. Top 40 and hip hop...oh, not a fan of house music, but can appretiate why someone is.

Movies...Heartbreak Kid, Seabiscuit, Secret, Desperately Seeking Susan, Blindside, The Last Unicorn, Beastmaster, Xmen (or anything derived and kept to its original story line from a graphic novel) Ok, graphic novel is a growed up word for comic book.

Books.... Whatever book I'm currently reading, and I always have a book. Marley & Me, Black Beauty, Celestine Prophecies, vampire/werewolf novels (NOT twilight), Think & Grow Rich, Power of Positive Thinking, Bitter is The New Black, Shit My Dad Says, Memoirs of A Geisha, Of Mice And Men, White Oleander (terrible movie, great book) I'm not terribly book smart but am completely willing to look a word up in the dictionary and when writing use a thesauras.

Food...meat, cheese, seafood, sushi. Nothing beats a cioppino with cheesy garlic bread. Not a fan of Indian or Thai. Love Mexican, Italian, Japanese, Chinese, Portuguese
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends, sunshine, haircolor, meat, cheese, positive attitude, faith, mountains and hillsides.....oops, that's more than six....whatever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anything and everything in rapid speed, it's like a neverending dominoes thing leads to another, to another, branching off in twists and turns, yet all deriving from the same center.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am home. I work Saturdays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I idolized Dazzler and am seriously upset she wasn't included in the Avengers movie :(
You should message me if
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You place a high value in connection and energy and have an accepting personality. You should NOT message me if you are looking to get laid.