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Paulmjf

60 M Cerritos, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 17, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you a passionate woman about life and love with a sense of humor and intelligence?

Me: happy, a strong communicator, and single.

I enjoy great environments and romance, mentally stimulating conversation, and the electricity of a great kiss. I love traveling, dancing, fine arts, and outdoor sports.

My sister and I have had some excellent discussions about honesty in online dating. She feels strongly that when people are honest prior to the actual meet-up there will be few disappointments. So, to that end...my photos were taken in February 2013 here in Southern California. They were selected because each represents something that is important to me...music/fine arts, nature/animals, and books. My height, income, marital status, and all other descriptions, are exactly what I've written.

A passion that I hope we would share together involves dancing (ballroom-salsa, swing, among others). I danced in a high school musical (Guys and Dolls), then in the early 1990's,when in New Mexico, started back up with salsa. I continued dancing when I moved to Southern California (off and on). I've learned that there is an incredible sense of couple communication and connection when you find the right partner with whom to dance. For me, it is not about being an expert, but having an interest in wanting to learn.

I'm a complex thinker, love to read, and devour the LA Times on a daily basis. Your opinions matter to me and I enjoy listening to you-just HAVE an opinion :). Tell me about what matters to you, about your day, and your thoughts about current events. As someone who has lived "overseas" and traveled to international locations (I speak Spanish), I very much value a global perspective. I love hearing from those of you who have had international experiences.

Oh, yes, one final question and challenge...do you have a sense of humor?! We'll see!

Regards,
Paul

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What I’m doing with my life
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Working, dancing, and enjoying Southern California:). I'm close to my family who live in the Bay Area so make regular trips to that area
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening! I enjoy physical activities, reading, and the fine arts (of course-dancing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My interest in who you are-my curiosity :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
any media that moves me on an emotional level.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
dancing, the feeling of physical health, my intellect, opportunities to explore life with the right partner, a sense of meaning, making right decisions that lead to happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...so many things :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at least partially in recovery from the work week and hopefully going out to explore LA and OC :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is not exactly private, but it IS important to me...please have the capacity to communicate and the maturity to be in an intimate relationship.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you are a passionate and complex thinker :)
you like to dance!
you are interested in and capable of an emotionally close and intimate relationship