Now that I have you attention... I need some advice. Maybe someone on here can help me. Why don’t women respond to my letters? Every letter I write is well thought out and kind. I make it clear that I have read the profile. I’m a really good person. I’m a great dad and teacher. I have so much to offer. Everyone that I am ever interested is never interested in me. I sometimes spend as much as 30-40 minutes crafting well thought out letters. On the rare occasion that I do get a reply, they are usually something very politely thanking me for the letter but making it clear that there is no interest. On occasion I get very rude replies asking me why I am wasting their time! My profile is well thought out… witty. But seldom does anyone bother to read it. I hate to say it, but I feel like if I just stuck a fake photo up of someone with less around their middle, it wouldn’t matter what I wrote. Dare I say it, I believe I could stick up a beautiful photo and a hefty income and would need nothing else at all, maybe just a few cave man phrases. At the same time I have read countless, and I mean countless, profiles of women who say they are fed up. They can’t find good men. It seems like a cruel irony to me.
I know. This spouting off makes me sound angry. I’m not really. I guess I’ve just come to a realization that looks really do matter. It’s okay. Somewhere, out there, is my soul mate.
"Why don't we get together sometime and eat some caramels." That is from a movie. Do you know which one? I am a very quiet, easy going person. I have multiple interests and hobbies, all of which you can read about below. My day-to-day life involves being a dad. My kids are the most important part of my life. I am also a teacher. I love my job. A few random facts about me: I am always on a quest to improve myself. Some days I do better than others. I have a pencil collection. This is due to the fact that I go on a lot of field trips. When I see a turtle in the road I pull over and help it get across. I like to cook, but I hate to cook when it's hot. I make really good smoothies. I think microwave popcorn should be illegal. I hate folding laundry! I'm here for obvious reasons. I want someone to watch Star Trek reruns with me! Seriously, I'm looking for a woman to share my life with.