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PaulorMrB

47 M Hampton, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:24am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The sharks were circling. I knew it was the end.

Now that I have you attention... I need some advice. Maybe someone on here can help me. Why don’t women respond to my letters? Every letter I write is well thought out and kind. I make it clear that I have read the profile. I’m a really good person. I’m a great dad and teacher. I have so much to offer. Everyone that I am ever interested is never interested in me. I sometimes spend as much as 30-40 minutes crafting well thought out letters. On the rare occasion that I do get a reply, they are usually something very politely thanking me for the letter but making it clear that there is no interest. On occasion I get very rude replies asking me why I am wasting their time! My profile is well thought out… witty. But seldom does anyone bother to read it. I hate to say it, but I feel like if I just stuck a fake photo up of someone with less around their middle, it wouldn’t matter what I wrote. Dare I say it, I believe I could stick up a beautiful photo and a hefty income and would need nothing else at all, maybe just a few cave man phrases. At the same time I have read countless, and I mean countless, profiles of women who say they are fed up. They can’t find good men. It seems like a cruel irony to me.

I know. This spouting off makes me sound angry. I’m not really. I guess I’ve just come to a realization that looks really do matter. It’s okay. Somewhere, out there, is my soul mate.

"Why don't we get together sometime and eat some caramels." That is from a movie. Do you know which one? I am a very quiet, easy going person. I have multiple interests and hobbies, all of which you can read about below. My day-to-day life involves being a dad. My kids are the most important part of my life. I am also a teacher. I love my job. A few random facts about me: I am always on a quest to improve myself. Some days I do better than others. I have a pencil collection. This is due to the fact that I go on a lot of field trips. When I see a turtle in the road I pull over and help it get across. I like to cook, but I hate to cook when it's hot. I make really good smoothies. I think microwave popcorn should be illegal. I hate folding laundry! I'm here for obvious reasons. I want someone to watch Star Trek reruns with me! Seriously, I'm looking for a woman to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a dad first. I'm raising my three wonderful children. I'm a great sixth grade teacher. When I have free time I like to work outside. I read, enjoy a good movie. I enjoy hiking and taking pictures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty successful at whatever I try to do. For the most part though, I'm really good at doing my job. I'm also a pretty good cook.
Clearly, NOT finding my soulmate.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would love to know the answer to this question because people who visit my profile promptly leave and don't come back!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite movies: Shawshank Redemption; Good Will Hunting; The Wizard of Oz; Star Wars; The Princess Bride, Fargo, Remember the Titans, and any Star Trek movie
TV: M*A*S*H, The X-Files, Star Trek (any), most comedies (love to laugh)
Authors: John Steinbeck, Charles Dickens, J.K. Rowling
Books: Fiction:The Hunger Games; Harry Potter; Lord of the Rings; The Grapes of Wrath.
Non-fiction: The Omnivore's Dilemma.
Favorite food: Corn on the cob. (Which is ironic if you've read the above non-fiction book.
Music: John Denver, Cat Stevens, Simon & Garfunkle, Gordon Lightfoot... but I like a wide variety.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children, fresh air, hope, humor, green grass, fresh tomatoes!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to write the perfect profile for this site as well as the answer to the above question, "What is the first thing that people notice about me?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Home with my kids
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love the song, "Party in the USA." There, I said it!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Do you know the song, "Every Thing I Own" by Bread? If you are the girl who I can sing that to, then let me know.