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Paultney

43 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 13
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Tagalog (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My hobbies include writing songs, short stories, essays, poems and novel(s) as well as singing and playing the guitar. My goal in life is to love and be loved, sharing the simple pleasures w/ someone who feels the same way, strengthened by loyalty, commitment, communication, attention, affection and stability. I enjoy listening, having heart-to-heart conversation and communing w/ nature. My taste in music varies yet heavily influenced by the Britpop movement of the 1990s. Well travelled as in having spent time in Bali, Singapore, Johor, Melaka, Kuala Lumpur, Tel Aviv, Haifa, Nahariya, Jerusalem, Nazareth, Hongkong, Macau, Shanghai, Manila, Manchester, Liverpool, Londonistan, Northampton, Kent, Roma, Firenze, Bologna, Milano, Sorrento, Capri, Brindisi, Siena, Assissi, Napoli, Taize', Paris, Ars, Nantua, Macon, Athens, Patras, Delphi, Memphis, Atlanta, Taos, Albuquerque, Sta. Fe, Middletown, Wilbur, Ukiah, Weed, Sierraville, Sta. Cruz, Big Sur, D.F. (Ciudad Mexico), Guanajuato, Guadalajara, Zapopan, S. Juan de los Lagos, Tlaquepaque, B.C. (Baja CA), for life is an endless journey.

The authors and painters, respectively, that inspire me are Jose' Rizal, Edgar Alan Poe, and Hieronymus Bosch, Bruegel (Dutch Masters), Clemente Orozco, Juan Luna, just to name a few.

More often than not, I subsist on blind faith, imagination and humor without which our lives are reduced to mere existence, possessing purity of a heart rich in kindness, slow to anger and seeing the big picture of life w/ clear eyes.

My sincere desire in life is to grow in love and venture into paths uncharted including your heart.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling between the City and the Sta. Cruz mountains to gather ideas before establishing a family bath house in the redwoods w/ a Balinese theme, and finally applying everything I've learned in grad school and in the road of life to ensure lasting peace professionally and personally. And that's when the planets are aligned in my world w/ the stars above shining brighter than ever when doing open mic as well.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting hands-on.
Massage.
The art of intimacy.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People often compliment me for my sense of humor which really stands out and comes from nowhere.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The ones I've written; the movie we know as life and it's a work-in-progress (you'll be in mine soon); all music is fine except a certain type that rhymes w/ crap. Food wise, anything four-legged except the table.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A six-six position.
Music and the myriad of guitars.
The songs I've written.
Thoughts of meeting you.
God but not as we know hymn.
The ability to abuse language leisurely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Eating the scraps off the table w/out using utensils, and maintaining two separate sets of friends: my Jesus-loving church friends and my OMing, skyclad coven..........viva variety! And yes, questioning everything and assuming nothing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm flexible and open to the endless variety that is life in the present, unencumbered by the past or the future. This mindful living is a constant renewal from the same old, same old of yesteryears.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
.........is private.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You get that yearnin' burnin' feeling at night, tossing and turning and can't sleep. And even Benadryl won't help!