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45 M San Francisco, CA

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6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Hello there, good day? Lived in San Francisco for long enough and still love it and say it surprises me daily with a laugh and a bit of what ..THE... The city can really flip your perceptions, you just need to try to be open to it. Still have enough of the East Coast in me to be straightforward. Often try for a stimulating engaging maybe funny conversation that challenges which can end up well far from the beginning. Wondering, never thought of it that way in the moment after like a good deep breath. Good friends and new friends it is what makes life worth living, it evolves.
What I’m doing with my life
Living as much as I can now and experiencing it. Not overusing contractions, staying away from people who "high five". Appreciating people who use eye contact, seems to be a dying art of communication, please put down the phone.

Could be the three of the most important questions you can ask yourself: Who am I? Where am I going? Who's going with me?
I’m really good at
Being a grown man. You can ask me anything, if I do not know, I will tell you I do not know. I am ticklish - ok it's out there.. Choosing the steps over the elevator (within reason), back roads over the interstate. Wasting the right amount of time. I prefer to forgo the V.I.P. area; I have always had an aversion to red velvet ropes. Maybe the rabble over suits - much better conversation, maybe. Seeing the room and knowing when to leave the party. I enjoy conversation face to face if possible rather than over social media, always. Nuance. A daydreaming romantic realist. Left over right, openness over obfuscation and chocolate. Working on cars, directions and fixing something you broke.
The first things people usually notice about me
"How tall are you?" is a question I'm often asked. I have a quick smile and good listener. The blue eyes. I do not know... People tend to be a rorschach test.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books are ones that resonate with me and flip my preconceptions. Currently reading "The War of Art"..

My last music moment was listening to Billie Holiday on a Friday evening after work, with a warm breeze coming through the windows. Yes, there was a candle lit. I tend to have an eclectic taste in music, from rock to alt to jazz, so it does depend on my mood and lighting.
The six things I could never do without
Fun! Long walks at dusk, gut busting laughter, close friends, live music, just the right amount of coffee, a comfortable bed, hope, a lot of it, trust, a kiss that that makes you step back and say to yourself, wow! Camping by fire with new, old friends, meaningful cuddling, yes more laughing, a good meal, old friends that hold the stories that may make you cringe being repeated to a stranger. A Sunday morning swagger through a quiet city, dancing by candlelight, Love and Art that resonates, maybe your shenanigans and my passport. I need more than six, we all are more than a list of ideas, right? It is what is between your commas that is interesting to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where the hell are you? How much of my life is really spent untangling my headphones. You may be a mystery to me, ok, you are. America was a good idea. Laughing a lot more with someone who gets it. This way of meeting is really a bit odd, maybe it is not for me. Wondering what you think of this. I really need to get better photos. Been planning of building a time machine then decided to just correct the mistakes I made in the past, today. It really is just much less hassle and think of all the time I will save, well, their is that time continuum vortex thing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends or having a quiet night in with a equally good meal and movie or book and really enjoying it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am doing this.

I lost a lot of my freckles, though the hardy ones hang on.

I was very young when I was born, a lot has happened since then and I am open to talk about it.

I do understand female though I do not speak it.

This may be dukkha
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you can bring the funny. If you may have the right amount of nervous and excited feeling. You have read this far, I know it is tough trying for a connection. Maybe being open and able to have a laugh at yourself, I do. Looking for someone with spunk, a lot of it. Awareness of what you want and someone who is willing to try. New adventures and heartfelt giggling! Could you bring me something different? I am willing, if you are. If not, I hope you find what you are looking for.