Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, I'm a single father of 2 kids; I share custody
so I have them with me every other day and I’m also free every
other weekend. I have to admit that I’m a little introverted at
times, but I’m also honest, loyal, respectful, and I take
responsibility for my actions/decisions in life. I respect everyone
as everyone deserves it; unless their actions and personalities
For the most part, I’m a good person that is tough but educated.
The simple things in life are some of the most satisfying, such as
walking this beautiful Earth, swimming on a hot day, or just taking
a deep breath of fresh air. I like balance in life like a hard
worker who likes to relax when work is over or a fighter who isn’t
confrontational, tough but nice, smart but humble, down to Earth
but curious about what lies beyond our known world.
Although physical attraction is the first thing we as people notice
in a potential match it, for me it does not end there (but it’s
always where it starts). It doesn’t matter how physically
attractive a woman is; there has to be more than just looks going
for her. If not then most of the time that person is shallow and
self-centered. I would love to meet a woman that is sweet, sexy,
humble, smart, open minded; basically a good person who doesn’t
cause drama. I prefer an awesome, down to earth good woman who has
looks with a good head on her shoulders and a good heart. Not
looking for a mom to my kids just trying to see what's out
I'm originally from East Los Angeles, spent 18 years there; after
that I lived in Quincy California for few years attending Feather
River College, got an A.S in Biology there, but I haven't used that
degree; I've been in Reno since 2001. I was married and spent 13
years with the same woman.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently, I'm focusing on being there for my kids; I work full
time, have my own place and car. I have set aside school for now. I
came to Reno to attend UNR. I'm a few classes away from a degree in
Anthropology, if everything goes well I’m planning on getting back
to it soon. I hope to someday work in the field as an
Anthropologist studying sorcery practices that steam from ancient
times and continue among the indigenous communities in Mexico and
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Some people seem to think I cook good; mostly Mexican. I also like
the outdoors although the last few years haven’t been able to go
hiking to swimming spots which I still enjoy, but would love to do
that more often, only if I knew more spots around this area where I
can hike and swim. Maybe you know some and can share that with
I try not to be in a "ME" state of mind, because most humans are
self-centered, unfortunately this fosters a selfish state of mind
were it is very easy cultivate arrogance. So it’s hard for me to
think in terms of myself, but I guess I’m good at being mellow,
calm and collected, but when the situation arises I can and will be
quick to take action.
I prefer to be humble, in most common situations, but if and when
the people who I love are in jeopardy, I will protect them at all
cost. People who know me would say that I'm very trust worthy,
knowledgeable on a lot of topics. But I would have to say that I'm
very humanistic, down to earth, if asked and if at all possible I'm
willing to lend a helping hand without expecting anything in
The first things people usually notice about me
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Attractive, if its summer or warm out my tattoos get noticed, most
people can't believe my age, they say I look younger
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Most books by Carlos Castaneda, Maya Cosmos Three Thousand
Years On The Shaman's Path; by David Freidel, Linda Schele and Joy
Parker, A War Of Witches: A Journey Into The Underworld Of The
Contemporary Aztecs; by by T. J. Knab, (I'm an Anthropology guy, so
that explains these wierd books I like)
Movies: anything that has though to it, or a good story
Music: I gravitate towards rock, specially spanish rock (Jaguares,
Caifanes, PXNDX, etc.), but basically anything from Elvis, Buddy
Holly to Rage Against The Machine, punk, alternative, old school
hip hop (before they became main stream and lost it's soul)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My kids (They are actually the only ones that are most important
to me, everything else doesn't really matter; 6 year old boy, and a
11 year old girl)
2. Thirst for knowledge
3. Warm weather
4. Good people
5. Watching MMA
6. Relaxing (Beer and or 420)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, nature and or the world, history, culture, shamanism, warm
weather, and finding a down to earth, beautiful woman, that has
that something else, that makes her stand out
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Friday night fights, Im a MMA fan..after that it depends,
I alternate weekends with my kids, so one weekend I spend it with
my kids, then the next weekend I'm down for pretty much anything ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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One private thing I'm willing to admit is that back in 2011, I had
a vasectomy (pretty much a guy's birth control, and it's awesome;
but if you're looking for someone to have kids with, I'm sorry but
that wouldn't be me. I like kids, I just don't want to have more
kids of my own). Other than that, I'm very honest I don't like to
lie just for the hell of it, and I don't play mind games, so just
You should message me if
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You find me attractive, if you are a good woman that is down to
Earth, beautiful inside and out, not overtly materialistic,
narcisistic, or shallow minded.
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