43 Washington, DC
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My self-summary
If you're interested, go ahead and message. I can't see who "likes" me and after a dateless 3-month membership, I'm not signing up again. 😁

I looked up my okcupid profile and apparently I'm an 89% match with myself. Hmmm. Not bad...but I wouldn't date me. (I need at least a few surprises!)

I'm from Ohio, and it kinda shows. It took me a long time to call Pepsi soda instead of pop. When I lived in Boston, I was often asked why I was so friendly. [Of course, I've been living the city life for a while now, so no one asks that anymore...haha] College and city life have made me appreciate finer restaurants & foods, independent films, fitness and career opportunities, among other things. But I still love carbs, warm homes, genuine hugs and sappy emotional ties.

FYI, I'm a Scorpio AND Italian... 😉

I'd like to meet someone who is independent, but also willing and interested in spending some of his personal time enjoying and working at a fulfilling relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Makin' my way. In the past few years I've moved from "surviving" into "thriving." I have pretty full work days, but love to make time for my friends, family and pup, as well as my interests in travel, music/movies, reading, food, fitness, etc.

"Life gets mighty precious when there's less of it to waste."
I’m really good at
Visual organization, thoughtful communication, seeking the middle ground. And I like to think I'm witty. Just go along with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? Smile. Perhaps that I look a lot like someone far richer than me (and almost as funny).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love all kinds of music but probably lean toward well-written R&B/pop or singer/songwriters. For movies, I love smart comedies (As Good As It Gets, Spanglish, Something's Gotta Give) and thriller/suspense films.
The six things I could never do without
To make this more interesting, lets assume air, friends, family, and food are accounted for.

1. wit & word play
2. coffee
3. my pup
4. my tunes
5. hope
6. dating websites
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Am I being who I want to be? Do I enjoy what I'm doing?
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm inclined to go to dinner, drink wine, and/or go to a movie with friends or even solo; or stay home with the pup and watch stuff I DVR'd that week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On here? I want to want and be wanted with reckless abandon. LOL ....maybe not exactly. Forty is different than 20. But I kinda miss the magical experience of unforced, mutual motivation for spending time with someone special. I've been single for a while and feel ready to cultivate a connection.
You should message me if
You are aiming to enrich and complicate your life with a deeper connection...and you don't have a calendar so full of work and fancy activities that you can't actually make a first date. :)