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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:48pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I looked up my okcupid profile and apparently I'm an 89% match with myself. Hmmm. Not bad...but I wouldn't date me. (I need at least a few surprises!)

I'm from Ohio, and it kinda shows. It took me a long time to call Pepsi soda instead of pop. When I lived in Boston, I was often asked why I was so friendly. [Of course, I've been living the city life for a while now, so no one asks that anymore...haha] College and city life have made me appreciate finer restaurants & foods, independent films, fitness and career opportunities, among other things. But I still love carbs, warm homes, genuine hugs and sappy emotional ties.

In love and close relationships, my heart is very open. I'm thankful that I feel deeply because it allows me to experience great pain and great joy. I'm alive! It also inspires me to love with great passion. (I'm a Scorpio AND Italian .. do I even have a choice?! HaHa.)

I'd like to meet someone who is independent, but also willing and interested in spending some of his personal time enjoying and working at a fulfilling relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Makin' my way. In the past few years I've been moving from "surviving" into "thriving." I have pretty full work days, but love to make time for my friends, family and pup, as well as my interests in travel, music/movies, reading, food, fitness, etc.

"Life gets mighty precious when there's less of it to waste."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Visual organization, thoughtful communication, seeking the middle ground. And I like to think I'm witty. Just go along with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically? Smile. Perhaps that I look like someone far richer than, and almost as funny as, me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all kinds of music but probably lean toward well-written R&B/pop or singer/songwriters. For movies, I love smart comedies (As Good As It Gets, Spanglish, Something's Gotta Give) and thriller/suspense films.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
To make this more interesting, lets assume air, friends, family, and food are accounted for.

1. wit & word play
2. coffee
3. my pup
4. my tunes
5. hope
6. dating websites
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I being who I want to be? Do I enjoy what I'm doing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm inclined to go to dinner, drink wine, and/or go to a movie with a couple of friends; or stay home with the pup and watch stuff I Tivo'd that week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On here? I want to want and be wanted with reckless abandon. LOL ....maybe not exactly. 41 is different than 21. But I kinda miss the magical experience of unforced, mutual motivation for spending time with a special someone. I've been single for a while and dating feels like a delicate dance where one person quickly ends up more interested than the other, and/or there's contemplation/hesitation about feelings, and frequency of contact.
You should message me if
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Your don't have a calendar so full of work and fancy activities that you can't actually make a date. :)