Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I looked up my okcupid profile and apparently I'm an 89% match with
myself. Hmmm. Not bad...but I wouldn't date me. (I need at least a
I'm from Ohio, and it kinda shows. It took me a long time to call
Pepsi soda instead of pop. When I lived in Boston, I was often
asked why I was so friendly. [Of course, I've been living the city
life for a while now, so no one asks that anymore...haha] College
and city life have made me appreciate finer restaurants &
foods, independent films, fitness and career opportunities, among
other things. But I still love carbs, warm homes, genuine hugs and
sappy emotional ties.
In love and close relationships, my heart is very open. I'm
thankful that I feel deeply because it allows me to experience
great pain and great joy. I'm alive! It also inspires me to love
with great passion. (I'm a Scorpio AND Italian .. do I even have a
I'd like to meet someone who is independent, but also willing and
interested in spending some of his personal time enjoying and
working at a fulfilling relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Makin' my way. In the past few years I've been moving from
"surviving" into "thriving." I have pretty full work days, but love
to make time for my friends, family and pup, as well as my
interests in travel, music/movies, reading, food, fitness,
"Life gets mighty precious when there's less of it to waste."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Visual organization, thoughtful communication, seeking the middle
ground. And I like to think I'm witty. Just go along with it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Physically? Smile. Perhaps that I look like someone far richer
than, and almost as funny as, me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all kinds of music but probably lean toward well-written
R&B/pop or singer/songwriters. For movies, I love smart
comedies (As Good As It Gets, Spanglish, Something's Gotta Give)
and thriller/suspense films.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
To make this more interesting, lets assume air, friends, family,
and food are accounted for.
1. wit & word play
3. my pup
4. my tunes
6. dating websites
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Am I being who I want to be? Do I enjoy what I'm doing?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm inclined to go to dinner, drink wine, and/or go to a movie with
a couple of friends; or stay home with the pup and watch stuff I
Tivo'd that week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On here? I want to want and be wanted with reckless abandon. LOL
....maybe not exactly. 41 is different than 21. But I kinda miss
the magical experience of unforced, mutual motivation for spending
time with a special someone. I've been single for a while and
dating feels like a delicate dance where one person quickly ends up
more interested than the other, and/or there's
contemplation/hesitation about feelings, and frequency of contact.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Your don't have a calendar so full of work and fancy activities
that you can't actually make a date. :)
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