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43 F Santa Monica, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm here to make a difference in this world so I have no doubt I will......and I am. Not only does my career allow me to impact peoples' lives and support them in their self discovery, healing and growth ~ but I'm also involved in a lot of philanthropic work, as well. I'm dedicated to my own physical, mental and spiritual health, as well ~ so I am most attracted to men who are living the same way :)

I require my share of downtime ~ but overall, I am fueled by being active and curious and exploratory are all important to me. I love trying new things, going new places and meeting new people! I make friends quite easily and pretty much talk to everyone :) I have traveled extensively and look forward to sharing in more of that with someone special. I'd rather have a modest home and vast experiences as I'm not into the material world all too much (though I DO love to shop.....I'm a woman, what can I say? Lol) I am the type who will truly give my all in a relationship and communicate with honesty ~ while also honoring our individuality. I think it's important to stay true to ourselves AND form a bond together. It doesn't need to be either/or. Relationships should EXPAND our lives, not constrict them.

And though everyone says it (I know, I know) ~ I can't leave out the necessity for a great sense of humor. I was once described as "Conscious and Ridiculously Fun"....and proudly adopted that moniker ;) If you are also a man with a playful spirit and some sort of mission in life (I don't care what it is....just something you are passionate about), I will be intrigued by you. Humor, passion and purpose are all very sexy :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving it
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
*Math - go figure
*Being supportive & encouraging
*Socializing & connecting - making others feel welcome & comfortable
*Seeing both sides of almost any situation
*Making people laugh - some say I'm funny
....I think I may just be weird ;) And I'm ok with that :))
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile & vibrant personality.
People always say I have a "good energy" about me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: The Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Jack Johnson, Prince, Beastie Boys, Sara Bareilles, Stevie Wonder, Colbie Caillat, Stone Temple Pilots, Joss Stone, Scorpions, Adele, Fleetwood Mac, The Killers, Alana Davis, Morphine, The Eagles, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains

Books: The Four Agreements, The Power of Now, Harmonic Wealth, The Heart of Love, The Success Principles, The Tao of Pooh, The Art of Racing in the Rain

Shows: Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory, So You Think You Can Dance, Whose Line is it Anyway
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - Adventure & play
2 - Music - all different kinds of music. And singing. And more music.
3 - Sunshine*
4 - Bread, cheese & wine (my spirit seems to be part French)
5 - Karaoke ~ I really need to just be in a band ;-)
6 - my nieces & nephew (5 total)...they're incredible!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make the world a better place .....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no "typical" Friday night. Variety is the spice of life!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm obsessed with ellipses........
And may use too many exclamation points!!

But they both make me happy so I don't care :)
You should message me if
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You are a passionate, confident man who is ready to develop a meaningful relationship if the chemistry sparks & compatibility is present.

....& you think it's cute when I wear my Chucks :)