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44 F Merrimack, NH

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:40pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
No Cheaters, NSA, or FWB

I may be moving to northern VT in a few months - so open to possibilities in that area.

I'm looking for a relationship with a physical, spiritual, emotional, and mental connection with someone. Let's have fun, laugh together, have long talks getting to know each other, and share living life enthusiastically. Balance is really important to me.

I'm a happy, optimistic, passionate, curvy, fun woman. I love camping, in tents, in the woods, and away from civilization. I enjoy sports - not a fanatic, but love to watch a good game of football or baseball. Sometimes hockey too. I love to grab a beer and play some pool as much as I'd love to make dinner while flirting and laughing together.

I find a guy's smile to be very attractive. If you look disinterested, unhappy or your pic looks like a mug shot (or otherwise scary) - I'm not likely to respond.

A little piece of advice as a Mom - please don't put your kids pic on your profile. This is a DATING site! Don't hide you have kids, but it's not cool that you put them into your profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Living it as fully and passionately as possible.

I've been an office administrator for many years. I also work part time being a healing facilitator using an energy modality called Reiki.

I take great pride in being the best Mom I can be to my children. I have a great relationship with their Dad... no drama.
I’m really good at
Listening. Cooking. Being a good friend. And a few other things... wink wink
The first things people usually notice about me
I look younger than my age and that I look better in person than my online pictures. LOL. Not sure why that is, but I don't seem to photograph well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 50 Shades of Gray, The Shack, Hunger Games, The Sunday List of Dreams, The Invitation, The Help, Twilight Series and lots of others.

Movies: Avatar, Moulin Rouge, City of Angels, Chocolate, The Princess Bride, Coyote Ugly, X-Men, Armageddon, The Six Sense, A Walk in the Clouds, Matrix, Dirty Dancing, just to name a few.

TV: CSI (all versions), Glee, Criminial Minds, American Idol, NCIS, Castle, Haven, Dads, and CBS Sunday Morning.

Music: Nora Jones, Alanis Morrissette, Melissa Etheridge, Def Leppard, Bon Jovi, Black Crowes, classics like Frank Sinatra... pop, old time rock-n-roll, classical, some country... pretty open, though I'm not especially into rap, hip-hop, or techno. I go with the flow with it all though.

Food: I enjoy most anything... love grilled food... meats... veggies... Italian... Thai... Mexican... Chinese...
The six things I could never do without
Besides the essentials air-water-food, I love my family/friends... open space... comfy bed... human touch... laughter... creative expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
having balance in life... ... love... passion...
taking care of my children and how divorce will effect them

And lots of other things... I seem to be always thinking. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
I try to get out sometimes for fun with friends or a date but I'm often home relaxing with the kiddos
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am rather private... but very open once I feel connected to you.

I will let you know that I'm still married, but available as listed. At some point we will be separating/divorcing. Currently, we are roomies, living in separate bedrooms, together for finances and raising the kids - open with each other and he knows that I'm am looking for someone. He is looking too. It's very amicable between us.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you liked what you read in my profile.

I'd like to find someone generally happy with their life. It would be fantastic to be with someone who wants to start with friendship. Then we can create the best relationship we have ever had because we've learned what we do/don't want in relationships and are ready to put it all together with a willing partner.

***I am NOT looking to have an affair with a married man. IF you are married, it has to be a similar arrangement to my marriage where you are free to date and explore/develop a relationship, with a future intention of dissolving your marriage. NO CHEATING!