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46 Saint Johnsbury, VT Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37-53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:59pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
No Cheaters, NSA, or FWB

I'm a happy, optimistic, passionate, curvy, fun woman. I enjoy sports - not a fanatic, but love to watch a good game of football or baseball. Sometimes hockey too. I love to grab a beer and play some pool as much as I'd enjoy making dinner while flirting and laughing together. It's fun to go camping, in tents, in the woods, and away from civilization. Summer campfires/bbq with some friends is something else I enjoy. I've traveled some, but looking forward to doing more at some point. Would love to see more of the world in general.... and of our own country too.

I like to write fiction stories and have a creative imagination. I would be inclined to send you a text during the day that might ignite your imagination too. Being playful and sensual helps keep a smile on our lips. The stronger our connection the better our pleasures.

I find a guy's smile to be very attractive. If you look disinterested, unhappy or your pic looks like a mug shot (or otherwise scary) - I'm not likely to respond.

Also - I like to date guys around my age. 10 years older/younger is good, but I'm not likely to desire someone much more either way. Especially if you start out by lying about it on your profile. IF the age is not accurate on your profile, please tell me up front. Deception a deal-breaker for me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it as fully and passionately as possible.

I've been an office administrator for many years. I also work part time being a healing facilitator using an energy modality called Reiki.

I take great pride in being the best Mom I can be to my children. I have a great relationship with their Dad... no drama.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Cooking. Being a good friend. And a few other things... wink wink
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look younger than my age and that I look better in person than my online pictures. LOL. Not sure why that is, but I don't seem to photograph well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: 50 Shades of Gray, The Shack, Hunger Games, The Sunday List of Dreams, The Invitation, The Help, Twilight Series and lots of others.

Movies: Avatar, Moulin Rouge, City of Angels, Chocolate, The Princess Bride, Coyote Ugly, X-Men, Armageddon, The Six Sense, A Walk in the Clouds, Matrix, Dirty Dancing, just to name a few.

TV: CSI (all versions), Glee, Criminial Minds, American Idol, NCIS, Castle, Haven, Dads, and CBS Sunday Morning.

Music: Nora Jones, Alanis Morrissette, Melissa Etheridge, Def Leppard, Bon Jovi, Black Crowes, classics like Frank Sinatra... pop, old time rock-n-roll, classical, some country... pretty open, though I'm not especially into rap, hip-hop, or techno. I go with the flow with it all though.

Food: I enjoy most anything... love grilled food... meats... veggies... Italian... Thai... Mexican... Chinese...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the essentials air-water-food, I love my family/friends... open space... comfy bed... human touch... laughter... creative expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
having balance in life... ... love... passion...
taking care of my children and how divorce will effect them

And lots of other things... I seem to be always thinking. :-)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I try to get out sometimes for fun with friends or a date but I'm often home relaxing with the kiddos
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am rather private... but very open once I feel connected to you.

I'm separated and will be divorcing. We are good friends and have a good relationship, which is great for our kids.
You should message me if
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If you liked what you read in my profile.

I'd like to find someone generally happy with their life. It would be fantastic to be with someone who wants to start with friendship. Then we can create the best relationship we have ever had because we've learned what we do/don't want in relationships and are ready to put it all together with a willing partner.

***I am NOT looking to have an affair with a married man. IF you are married, it has to be a similar arrangement to my marriage where you are free to date and explore/develop a relationship, with a future intention of dissolving your marriage. NO CHEATING!